{"id":33771,"date":"2020-11-05T09:11:32","date_gmt":"2020-11-05T09:11:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33771"},"modified":"2022-02-07T03:45:24","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T03:45:24","slug":"por-favor-nao-te-aproximes-de-mim-se-nao-tens-intencao-de-ficar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/por-favor-nao-te-aproximes-de-mim-se-nao-tens-intencao-de-ficar\/","title":{"rendered":"Por favor, n\u00e3o te aproximes de mim se n\u00e3o tiveres inten\u00e7\u00e3o de ficar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t know about the girls you are used to and I don\u2019t plan on convincing you that I am a special, delicate flower but the truth is that I am looking for some things that are probably not ordinary in today\u2019s world.<\/p>\n<p>Como v\u00eaem, eu n\u00e3o sou um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/e-por-isso-que-a-concha-nunca-se-contenta-em-ser-a-tua-parceira-de-uma-noite\/\">caso de uma noite<\/a> tipo de rapariga.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o \u00e9 uma rapariga que procura namoros sem sentido ou casos casuais.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o uma rapariga que n\u00e3o se importa que a v\u00e1 buscar a um bar para nunca mais lhe telefonar na manh\u00e3 seguinte.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I have nothing against those who are into things like this, nor do I consider myself above them in any way but that is just not how I roll.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o, isto n\u00e3o faz parte da minha estrat\u00e9gia para que te apaixones ainda mais por mim.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that I am playing hard to get or that I am pretending to be different just to stand out from the crowd.<\/p>\n<p>A quest\u00e3o \u00e9 que, honestamente, eu apego-me facilmente e a \u00faltima coisa de que preciso \u00e9 que um tipo que est\u00e1 apenas de passagem pela minha vida me deixe de cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122698 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher est\u00e1 encostada a uma \u00e1rvore\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>I don\u2019t give a damn about modern dating\u2014you may call me old-fashioned but I am not looking for something temporary and I am not ashamed to admit it. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I simply don\u2019t plan on wasting my time on building a relationship that is doomed to fail.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>So if you\u2019ll enter my life with an already planned exit strategy\u2014just don\u2019t! <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>If you plan on making me fall for you just so you can leave me hanging\u2014please don\u2019t. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>If you plan investing just halfway and not giving your entire self to our entire relationship\u2014don\u2019t try around me in the first place.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Chamem-me rom\u00e2ntica sem esperan\u00e7a, mas a verdade \u00e9 que acredito no amor.<\/p>\n<p>No amor verdadeiro e incondicional que dura uma vida inteira.<\/p>\n<p>E n\u00e3o estou interessado em nada menos do que isso.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t settle for a guy who doesn\u2019t know what he wants or for an immature boy who can\u2019t make up his mind about me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122700 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher com cabelo frisado est\u00e1 sentada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por um idiota ego\u00edsta que \u00e9 incapaz de amar e que acabar\u00e1 por me matar espiritualmente.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o estou a dizer que a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o tem necessariamente de durar at\u00e9 que a morte nos separe, mas <strong>I don\u2019t want to start anything knowing that it has a predetermined expiration date.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So please, don\u2019t come into my life if you aren\u2019t coming to stay.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t come anywhere near me if you don\u2019t believe in love.<\/p>\n<p>Se n\u00e3o est\u00e1 \u00e0 procura da sua pessoa para sempre e se n\u00e3o est\u00e1 \u00e0 procura de um felizes para sempre.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t chase me if you are not looking for a meaningful connection, if you are not searching for something real or something that will last.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nao-namores-com-ela-se-nao-te-podes-comprometer-com-ela\/\">Don\u2019t date me if you can\u2019t commit<\/a>, if you can\u2019t be loyal and devoted.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t do it <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-vou-deixar-que-me-enganem-se-nao-estiverem-todos-dentro-vao-se-embora\/\">se tencionam enganar-me<\/a> e a fazer jogos mentais comigo.<\/p>\n<p>Se precisa de algu\u00e9m apenas para o ajudar a passar o dia ou se precisa de um plano de reserva at\u00e9 que o seu ex ou algu\u00e9m mais adequado a si apare\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122701 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher de vestido preto caminha pelo campo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t come into my life if you\u2019ll shatter my heart and leave me broken. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>If you\u2019ll leave deep scars and inerasable wounds on my soul. If I\u2019ll need years to recover from the damage you make and if you\u2019ll change me for good. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t do it if you\u2019ll turn me into a bitter and negative person because I am anything but that.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t do it if you\u2019ll kill my faith in love and my trust in people.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t come into my life if you expect me to chase you or to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/uma-mulher-forte-nunca-implorara-pelo-seu-amor-e-atencao\/\">implorar pelo teu amor<\/a> e aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ll leave me hanging and if you won\u2019t be there when times get rough.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know\u2014maybe I am asking for too much and maybe I\u2019ll never find the man I am looking for.<\/p>\n<p>However, I would always rather remain single than be in a loveless relationship or with a man who can\u2019t give me what I want, need and deserve.<\/p>\n<p>Hey, at least I\u2019m honest from the start. Please, have enough decency to do the same.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So, if you think I\u2019m too much to handle or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-nao-me-podes-amar-como-deve-ser-afasta-te-para-que-outro-o-possa-fazer\/\">if you think I\u2019m not worthy of all the trouble\u2014walk away in time<\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Be man enough to save us both unnecessary problems and don\u2019t waste either of our time.<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-122697\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Please-Dont-Come-Close-To-Me-If-You-Have-No-Intention-To-Stay-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Por favor, n\u00e3o te aproximes de mim se n\u00e3o tiveres inten\u00e7\u00e3o de ficar\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Please-Dont-Come-Close-To-Me-If-You-Have-No-Intention-To-Stay-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Please-Dont-Come-Close-To-Me-If-You-Have-No-Intention-To-Stay-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Please-Dont-Come-Close-To-Me-If-You-Have-No-Intention-To-Stay-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t know about the girls you are used to and I don\u2019t plan on convincing you that I am a special, delicate flower but the truth is that I am looking for some things that are probably not ordinary in today\u2019s world. You see, I am not a one-night stand kind of girl. Not&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":122696,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33771","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Please-Dont-Come-Close-To-Me-If-You-Have-No-Intention-To-Stay-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33771","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33771"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33771\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/122696"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33771"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33771"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33771"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}