{"id":33783,"date":"2020-05-05T09:32:11","date_gmt":"2020-05-05T09:32:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33783"},"modified":"2022-02-10T01:59:19","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T01:59:19","slug":"ela-disse-te-que-ias-sentir-a-falta-dela-pena-nao-teres-dado-ouvidos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-disse-te-que-ias-sentir-a-falta-dela-pena-nao-teres-dado-ouvidos\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela disse-te que ias sentir a falta dela, pena que n\u00e3o tenhas ouvido"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00e3o consegues dormir, pois n\u00e3o? Eu sei - continuas a rebolar na cama, assombrado pelas recorda\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>A\u00ed est\u00e1, pensando em todas as coisas que poderiam e deveriam ter sido.<\/p>\n<p>De todas as coisas que poderias ter feito de forma diferente, se tivesses sido apenas um pouco mais inteligente e s\u00e1bio.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A\u00ed est\u00e1, a pensar nela. A pensar na <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/a-unica-mulher-que-alguma-vez-me-amou\/\"><strong>a \u00fanica mulher que alguma vez te amou<\/strong><\/a><strong> a s\u00e9rio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sobre a mulher que te deu todo o seu ser, sem pedir nada em troca.<\/p>\n<p>Que te deu mais segundas oportunidades do que podia contar e que s\u00f3 queria que tu a amasses de volta.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105422\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-at-home-and-looking-through-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada em casa e a olhar pela janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-at-home-and-looking-through-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-at-home-and-looking-through-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-at-home-and-looking-through-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-at-home-and-looking-through-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-at-home-and-looking-through-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>About the woman who you thought would never give up on you. Until she\u2019d finally had enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sobre a mulher que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-pensavas-que-ela-nunca-se-iria-embora-mas-adivinha-o-que-ela-fez\/\">que pensaste que nunca terias coragem de deixar<\/a> o teu rabo, independentemente de como a tratasses.<\/p>\n<p>I guess there existed something you could do to make her stop loving you after all, didn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<p>A\u00ed est\u00e1, sentindo tudo o que ela sentiu quando finalmente disse o \u00faltimo adeus.<\/p>\n<p>Missing her like hell and feeling like you will die if she doesn\u2019t come back any time soon.<\/p>\n<p>Well guess what? She won\u2019t. She left you never to return and there is nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105423\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaving-from-man.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher a afastar-se do homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaving-from-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaving-from-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaving-from-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaving-from-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaving-from-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Remember how for years, this girl kept warning you that this moment would come, if you didn\u2019t change your ways? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Como ela te dizia que um dia destes ia fechar a porta atr\u00e1s de si e afastar-se de ti para sempre?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E o que \u00e9 que fez em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso? Ouviste?<\/p>\n<p>Repensaste o teu comportamento? Tentaste, pelo menos, ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/para-o-homem-que-nunca-se-tornara-o-homem-que-ela-precisa-que-ele-seja\/\">o homem que ela precisava que fosses<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o, riu-se na cara dela, seguro de si.<\/p>\n<p>Estava convencido de que tudo n\u00e3o passava de amea\u00e7as vazias e que n\u00e3o havia nada com que se preocupar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105424\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-man-watching-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"homem atento a observar a rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-man-watching-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-man-watching-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-man-watching-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-man-watching-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-man-watching-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Oh, rapaz, como estavas errado.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Porque esta rapariga previu literalmente tudo o que ia acontecer.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>She knew that at first, you wouldn\u2019t take her seriously.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019d expect her to come crawling back to you the moment you promised her that things wouldn\u2019t be the same if she gave you just one more chance.<\/p>\n<p><strong>No entanto, desta vez foi diferente. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>This time, none of your strategies worked and you were obviously losing her but even that wasn\u2019t enough for you to confess your sins.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Instead, you turned to other girls, thinking that they\u2019d fill the void she left.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105425\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-man-watching-woman-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"jovem a observar uma mulher na rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-man-watching-woman-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-man-watching-woman-on-the-street-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-man-watching-woman-on-the-street-768x521.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-man-watching-woman-on-the-street-150x102.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Em vez de olhar a verdade nos olhos, manteve-se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/sabe-que-continua-a-procurar-todas-as-mulheres\/\">\u00e0 procura dela<\/a> in all other women, not knowing that a girl like her can\u2019t be found twice in a lifetime.<\/p>\n<p>Then after a while, when you saw that the alcohol and the meaningless sex weren\u2019t helping you, it hit you\u2014you really lost her.<\/p>\n<p>This girl wasn\u2019t coming back and you were the one who let her go.<\/p>\n<p>Foi nessa altura que tentaste tudo o que podias para voltar a estar com ela.<\/p>\n<p>This time, you weren\u2019t even lying\u2014you were really ready to do whatever it took just to have her forgiveness.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, by the time you saw what you\u2019d done, she was long over you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105426\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-man-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"homem preocupado sentado na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-man-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-man-sitting-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-man-sitting-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-man-sitting-on-the-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-man-sitting-on-the-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nessa altura, ela j\u00e1 era feliz sem ti, percebendo que deixar-te foi a melhor coisa que fez por ela pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n<p>Quando se apercebeu do seu valor, ela percebeu que era o \u00faltimo homem de que precisava.<\/p>\n<p>Ela percebeu que nunca a mereceste e que est\u00e1 muito melhor sem ti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Portanto, \u00e9 dif\u00edcil, mas acho que est\u00e1s preso a toda esta dor que est\u00e1s a sentir agora. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I know you want me to tell you that it will go away with time but sadly, it won\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Instead, it will just grow bigger and bigger every time you remember that she is happy and that you are still the same douchebag you\u2019ve always been.<\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que te lembras que afugentaste algu\u00e9m t\u00e3o especial como ela, cada vez que te apercebes que nunca ningu\u00e9m te vai amar como ela te amou e cada vez que te lembras que perdeste a tua oportunidade de ser feliz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As tuas cicatrizes tornar-se-\u00e3o mais profundas sempre que te lembrares de que a tua vida poderia ter sido muito diferente, se tivesses dado ouvidos. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Se tivesses acreditado nas suas amea\u00e7as, se tivesses tentado um pouco mais e se a tivesses amado quando devias.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105421\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/She-Told-You-Youd-Miss-Her-Too-Bad-You-Didnt-Listen-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ela disse-te que ias sentir a falta dela, pena que n\u00e3o tenhas ouvido\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/She-Told-You-Youd-Miss-Her-Too-Bad-You-Didnt-Listen-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/She-Told-You-Youd-Miss-Her-Too-Bad-You-Didnt-Listen-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/She-Told-You-Youd-Miss-Her-Too-Bad-You-Didnt-Listen-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\">&nbsp;<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You can\u2019t sleep, can you? I know\u2014you keep rolling around on your bed, haunted by memories. There you are, thinking about all the things that could and should have been. Of all the things you might have done differently, if you had been just a little bit smarter and wiser. There you are, thinking about&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":105427,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33783","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/She-Told-You-Youd-Miss-Her-Too-Bad-You-Didnt-Listen.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33783","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33783"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33783\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/105427"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33783"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33783"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33783"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}