{"id":33805,"date":"2019-03-06T07:37:16","date_gmt":"2019-03-06T07:37:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33805"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:44:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:44:38","slug":"quando-perderes-a-pessoa-com-quem-te-estas-a-contentar-vais-perceber-o-que-mereces","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-perderes-a-pessoa-com-quem-te-estas-a-contentar-vais-perceber-o-que-mereces\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando perderes a pessoa com quem te est\u00e1s a contentar, vais perceber o que mereces"},"content":{"rendered":"

Even though you aren\u2019t aware of this, h\u00e1 alturas em que querer e precisar de algo s\u00e3o duas coisas diferentes.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Momentos em que estamos convencidos de que perder algu\u00e9m de quem gostamos muito nos destruiria completamente, quando, a longo prazo, seria a melhor coisa que nos poderia acontecer.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Momentos em que estamos convencidos de que agarrarmo-nos a uma pessoa vai melhorar a nossa vida, quando na verdade <\/strong>deixar ir<\/strong><\/a> deles \u00e9 exatamente o que tem de fazer, apesar de toda a dor tempor\u00e1ria que isso lhe possa causar. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Times when you don\u2019t see that you are settling for way less than you deserve, thinking it\u2019s the best you can ever have.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00c9 exatamente isso que se passa consigo e com o homem com quem est\u00e1 envolvida neste momento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You don\u2019t want to let him go because you don\u2019t know that bigger things await you once you do.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Even though deep down you are very much aware that he is not the guy for you, you keep on hoping that things will change for the better and that one of these days, he\u2019ll become the man you need him to be.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014you are terrified of walking away from this man because you don\u2019t know if you could survive without him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tem medo que perd\u00ea-lo a danifique emocionalmente ao ponto de n\u00e3o haver repara\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Bem, n\u00e3o estou aqui para vos mentir, dizendo-vos que deixar este homem ir embora seria f\u00e1cil, porque ser\u00e1 tudo menos isso.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sim, no in\u00edcio vai ser um inferno. Vai ser mau. At\u00e9 melhorar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

After a while, you\u2019ll finally see that all this time, you were just settling for less.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Maybe you did it because he manipulated you into thinking that you\u2019d never find someone else, maybe you were afraid of being alone, maybe you did it because of the past you guys shared together or maybe you didn\u2019t have the courage to escape from the comfort zone he represented.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Either way, the point is the same\u2014you were getting back less than you were giving and less than you deserved.<\/p>\r\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

After a while, you\u2019ll understand that things had to be this way\u2014that everything in life happens for a reason and for a bigger cause.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll understand that God always has a plan and that this guy had a role in your life\u2014that he was there to teach you some valuable life lessons.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That if it wasn\u2019t for this man, you would never know what you don\u2019t want from life and what you don\u2019t need from a man.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll see that all of the struggles you had to go through were just there to toughen you up and to turn you into the woman you are today. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Que tiveste de passar por uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem amor para finalmente aprenderes a amar-te. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Que foi preciso ser tra\u00eddo para se tornar suficientemente forte para confiar em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll see that sometimes, God fixes you just to put you back together.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Que h\u00e1 alturas em que temos de nos desfazer em peda\u00e7os para reconstruirmos uma vers\u00e3o melhor e mais poderosa de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Most importantly, once you finally move on from this man, you\u2019ll understand that the only way to truly realize what you deserve is to lose everything and everyone you\u2019re settling for.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Que a \u00fanica maneira de abrir caminho para o homem digno de si \u00e9 livrar-se de todos aqueles que nunca foram suficientemente bons. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Que a \u00fanica maneira de encontrar o Sr. Certo \u00e9 deixar de lado todos os Srs. Erros.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And once this special man finally enters your life, and he will come when you least expect him to, it is only then when you\u2019ll grow to understand why it never worked with all those guys before him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It is only then when you\u2019ll grow to understand that you simply had to go through all of those half-assed loves because if it wasn\u2019t for them, you would never know how to recognize the right one when you saw him, nor would you appreciate it the right way.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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Even though you aren\u2019t aware of this, there are times when wanting and needing something are two different things. Times when you are convinced that losing someone you deeply care for would destroy you completely, when in the long run, it would actually be the best thing that could ever happen to you. Times when…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":33806,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33805","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/StockSnap_GO2YFNBHXD.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33805","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33805"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33805\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33806"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33805"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33805"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33805"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}