{"id":33827,"date":"2019-03-06T08:32:22","date_gmt":"2019-03-06T08:32:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33827"},"modified":"2022-02-10T11:59:09","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T11:59:09","slug":"a-melhor-parte-de-te-perder-foi-encontrar-me-a-mim-proprio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-melhor-parte-de-te-perder-foi-encontrar-me-a-mim-proprio\/","title":{"rendered":"A melhor parte de te perder foi encontrar-me a mim pr\u00f3prio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando te afastaste de mim, para al\u00e9m de ter ficado devastada, tamb\u00e9m fiquei aterrorizada.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Como \u00e9 que eu poderia continuar a minha vida sem ti ao meu lado?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

How could I ever be happy when I didn\u2019t have you?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Como \u00e9 que eu poderia fazer alguma coisa sem ti a segurar a minha m\u00e3o?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Enquanto estive contigo, deixei de existir como indiv\u00edduo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I wasn\u2019t a woman, a daughter or a friend anymore\u2013I was nothing but your girlfriend, and I thought that was more than enough for me to have a purpose in life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tu foste o homem que me completou.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Foste a minha rocha, o meu apoio e a \u00fanica pessoa em quem pensei que podia confiar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Foste o meu salvador e o meu anjo da guarda.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The man who led me through life, and the man I couldn\u2019t imagine myself living without.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The man I wasn\u2019t capable of living without.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pelo menos, era o que eu pensava.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Foi isso que se esfor\u00e7ou por me fazer acreditar e acabou por me convencer, apesar de a verdade ser completamente oposta.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It took me a while but I finally got it\u2013durante todo este tempo, <\/strong>apenas se sentiu intimidado<\/strong><\/a> por mim.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Fizeste tudo o que estava ao teu alcance para me tornares emocionalmente dependente de ti e para baixares a minha autoestima, porque essa era a \u00fanica maneira de n\u00e3o te sentires inferior a mim.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

S\u00f3 me querias arrastar para o teu n\u00edvel porque era a \u00fanica maneira de te sentires melhor contigo pr\u00f3prio e de sentires que eras homem suficiente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No entanto, aqui estou eu, a viver a minha vida sem ti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Aqui estou eu, a caminhar todos os dias mais poderoso do que alguma vez fui. Aqui estou eu, mais forte do que nunca.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I survived against all odds, didn\u2019t I? I recovered.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ergui-me das cinzas do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o despeda\u00e7ado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I\u2019ve glued myself back together, and apparently, you didn\u2019t succeed in breaking me when you broke my heart.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I guess that I didn\u2019t lose much when I lost you… instead, I found my true self<\/a>\u2013the independent, fierce and <\/strong>mulher de topo<\/strong><\/a> Eu sou hoje.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So you leaving me wasn\u2019t as awful as I thought it would be after all. Instead, it turned out to be the best thing that could have ever happened to me.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Obviously, instead of it being a curse\u2013it was a blessing. Obviously, I would have never found myself if I hadn\u2019t lost you<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If it weren\u2019t for you walking away on me, I would never have known that I can make it by myself, without anyone, including you, having my back.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I wouldn\u2019t have been aware of my inner strength and everything I am capable of.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I wouldn\u2019t have known that I am a complete person on my own and that I don\u2019t need any man to give my life meaning or to make my existence worthwhile. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That I don\u2019t need anyone to confirm my value or to give me assurance that I am good enough.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If I hadn\u2019t lost you, I wouldn\u2019t have known that I am perfectly imperfect just the way I am.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I would never have accepted my flaws as parts of my personality, and I wouldn\u2019t have known how amazing of a woman I actually am.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I wouldn\u2019t have realized that I should never change for anyone\u2019s sake nor should I modify myself to be more likeable to others or to fit some guy\u2019s standards.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you hadn\u2019t backed out on me and abandoned me when I needed you the most, I wouldn\u2019t have become my own hero.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I wouldn\u2019t know that I am capable of healing and fixing myself without anyone\u2019s assistance.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Nunca me teria apercebido de que sou o \u00fanico respons\u00e1vel pela minha felicidade.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That I can\u2019t expect any man in this world to ever make me happy unless I do it myself first.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That a man\u2019s job isn\u2019t to give me purpose\u2013it\u2019s just to make my already amazing life a little bit better.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mais importante ainda, if I hadn\u2019t lost you, I would never have found the self-love I desperately needed. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I wouldn\u2019t have known that I have to appreciate, respect, and love myself before expecting anyone else to do it.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Assim obrigado<\/strong><\/a>. Obrigado por me teres abandonado, por me teres deixado e por me teres tra\u00eddo da forma como o fizeste.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Obrigada por me ter transformado numa melhor vers\u00e3o de mim mesma, apesar de ter sido a \u00faltima coisa que tencionava fazer e a \u00faltima coisa que eu esperava que acontecesse.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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When you first walked away from me, besides being devastated, I was also terrified. How could I ever go on with my life without you by my side? How could I ever be happy when I didn\u2019t have you? How could I ever accomplish anything without you holding my hand? While I was with you,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":33828,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33827","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/StockSnap_7VEJTXS98Y.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33827","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33827"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33827\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33828"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33827"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33827"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33827"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}