{"id":33831,"date":"2019-03-06T08:49:55","date_gmt":"2019-03-06T08:49:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33831"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:43:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:43:34","slug":"em-breve-o-teu-coracao-deixara-de-doer-quando-pensares-nele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/em-breve-o-teu-coracao-deixara-de-doer-quando-pensares-nele\/","title":{"rendered":"Em breve, o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o deixar\u00e1 de doer quando pensares nele"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know that now you don\u2019t see a way out and that you\u2019ve reached your ponto de rutura<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t seem to pick up your broken pieces, and you simply don\u2019t know what to do to get yourself out of this emotional mess.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este homem significava o mundo para si, e quando a deixou, tudo se desmoronou. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s not just that you can\u2019t stand the fact that you miss him. It is also the betrayal and the disappointment he left behind.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 o facto de todos os seus sonhos e esperan\u00e7as terem sido em v\u00e3o que o est\u00e1 a matar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Todos os \"deveria ter\" e \"poderia ter\" que o est\u00e3o a assombrar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

No matter how hard you try, you can\u2019t seem to grasp that all the future plans you had with this man aren\u2019t going to happen and that you guys won\u2019t make another memory together. \u00a0
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At the same time, you can\u2019t help but blame yourself for wasting years on someone who was obviously never worthy of your trust and love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por ter dado tantas segundas oportunidades a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o que estava condenada ao fracasso desde o in\u00edcio.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sem ter consci\u00eancia disso, lentamente, est\u00e1 a come\u00e7ar a desistir do amor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O homem que amavas mais do que qualquer outro fez-te tudo isto e tornou a tua vida num inferno, por isso o que podes esperar de outra pessoa? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This guy didn\u2019t just hurt you. He also made you believe that you aren\u2019t meant to be loved and that you\u2019ll never find your true happiness.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After everything that has happened, you are left convinced that you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life suffering for this asshole.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That you\u2019ll carry this emotional burden on your chest forever and that his absence will always cause you this devastating pain that\u2019s been completely tearing you apart. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t help but think that you\u2019ll never get over him and that you are destined to remain in this misery for as long as you breathe.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, I know you don\u2019t believe me. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sei que pensam que s\u00f3 estou a dizer isto para se sentirem melhor e que as minhas palavras n\u00e3o passam de frases vazias.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But trust me\u2014one of these days, you won\u2019t even notice that you\u2019ve started to <\/strong>curar<\/strong><\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just like that, one morning, you\u2019ll wake up with a smile on your face, and you won\u2019t fall asleep, trying to chase away the pain that\u2019s been crushing your heart.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014moving on doesn\u2019t happen overnight<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is not me trying to convince you that one day, you\u2019ll miraculously forget that this guy ever existed or that someone will bring you a magic stick to erase his existence from your memory.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The truth is that it will take you a while to recover from all the pain you\u2019ve been through. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Que vai ser preciso muito para aceitar tudo o que aconteceu e aceitar tudo isso como parte da vida.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, I promise you one thing\u2014aprender\u00e1s a viver sem ele. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Crescer\u00e1 para <\/strong>n\u00e3o o amar<\/strong><\/a> da mesma forma que tu o amas. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

porque o tempo \u00e9 realmente o melhor curador poss\u00edvel, e curar\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido. \u00a0<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One of these days, you\u2019ll take off your rose-tinted sunglasses, and finally, you\u2019ll start seeing this guy for who he really is\u2014an asshole who doesn\u2019t deserve another moment of your attention. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll see that you are so much better than him and that losing him was actually the best thing that has ever happened to you.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most importantly, you\u2019ll understand that he was a part of your life to teach you a lesson: that not all people are meant to stay and that you are way stronger than you think; to teach you to always love yourself and to teach you to handle pain the best way possible.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No, you won\u2019t hate him when this happens.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because you\u2019ll finally be at peace\u2014at peace with your pain, at peace with him, and most of all, at peace with yourself.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You won\u2019t be angry nor will you want revenge either.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because you\u2019ll forgive him for everything he\u2019s done. You\u2019ll accept the apologies you never got, knowing it is the only way for you to free yourself.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E pela primeira vez you\u2019ll be completely indifferent.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sim, este homem vir\u00e1 \u00e0 sua mente de vez em quando. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, your heart won\u2019t ache anymore.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You won\u2019t feel like you are dying from the inside every time someone mentions his name. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The songs you guys listened to together won\u2019t bring tears in your eyes. You won\u2019t have the need to die when you imagine him next to another woman.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You won\u2019t give a damn whether he is OK or not, and you won\u2019t have the urge to know what is going on in his life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll accept him as a part of your past and nothing else.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll feel literally nothing when you think of him. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that is when you\u2019ll know you\u2019ve really moved on.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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I know that now you don\u2019t see a way out and that you\u2019ve reached your breaking point. You can\u2019t seem to pick up your broken pieces, and you simply don\u2019t know what to do to get yourself out of this emotional mess. This man meant the world to you, and when he left you, everything…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":33832,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33831","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/StockSnap_8SM5T92EN3.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33831","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33831"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33831\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33832"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33831"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33831"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33831"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}