{"id":33905,"date":"2019-03-07T11:24:52","date_gmt":"2019-03-07T11:24:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33905"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:42:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:42:25","slug":"deixar-de-guardar-um-lugar-no-seu-coracao-para-o-homem-que-nao-quer-estar-nele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/deixar-de-guardar-um-lugar-no-seu-coracao-para-o-homem-que-nao-quer-estar-nele\/","title":{"rendered":"Pare de guardar um lugar no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o para o homem que n\u00e3o quer estar nele"},"content":{"rendered":"

O mundo seria um lugar muito mais feliz se pud\u00e9ssemos decidir como e quem amar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Seria muito mais f\u00e1cil se pud\u00e9ssemos estalar os dedos e expulsar do nosso sistema algu\u00e9m que \u00e9 errado para n\u00f3s, para nunca mais pensarmos nessa pessoa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, sadly things don\u2019t work like that at all, do they now?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, por vezes, \u00e9 exatamente isso que se tem de fazer, mesmo quando parece uma miss\u00e3o imposs\u00edvel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por vezes, \u00e9 preciso ser suficientemente forte e <\/strong>decidir deixar de amar<\/strong><\/a> algu\u00e9m que obviamente n\u00e3o \u00e9 digno de si, algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 a tornar a sua vida miser\u00e1vel.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes, you need to stop waiting for a man who won\u2019t return to come back. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

To stop having a reserved seat for him in your life when it\u2019s obvious that he doesn\u2019t want it.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sei que continuas a alimentar todas as tuas esperan\u00e7as, pensando que este homem que amas t\u00e3o profundamente vai mudar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know you hold on tight to the thought that eventually, he\u2019ll come to his senses and that things between you guys will become different.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Detesto ser eu a quebrar a tua bolha e a quebrar o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, mas tenho de te dizer que nada disto vai acontecer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead, he will remain the same douchebag he\u2019s always been, and you\u2019ll waste more of your time if you continue keeping a place in your heart for him.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t want to be cruel, but this guy obviously <\/strong>doesn\u2019t love you back<\/strong><\/a>, and he clearly doesn\u2019t deserve you trying around him. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What is even worse\u2013he doesn\u2019t want your love either. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He doesn\u2019t respect your feelings, he doesn\u2019t appreciate your sacrifices, and he doesn\u2019t cherish your loving heart.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So what more proof do you need to understand that he isn\u2019t worthy of you? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

What else does he have to do to make you finally realize that he\u2019ll never become the man you need him to be and that he\u2019ll never be capable of giving you the love you need?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O que \u00e9 preciso para finalmente o expulsar do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para que deixes de lhe dar desculpas e para que tu deixes de o justificar?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sei que, durante todo este tempo, andou \u00e0 procura de raz\u00f5es. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t help but wonder why he doesn\u2019t love you the way he should, and why he is doing everything possible to chase you away from him.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sei que queres uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o, uma conclus\u00e3o que te ajude a seguir em frente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ele \u00e9 incapaz de amar em geral ou \u00e9 s\u00f3 a si que ele n\u00e3o consegue amar?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, darling, it\u2019s time you accept that these are the questions which will always remain unanswered, the same way you need to accept that waiting for him is in vain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And after all, knowing all of these things wouldn\u2019t change anything, would it? So why do you keep bothering with it?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Em vez de torturar a sua mente, pensando nesse homem e desperdi\u00e7ando o seu tempo \u00e0 espera que ele recupere o ju\u00edzo, concentre toda a sua energia no seu objetivo final, que \u00e9 elimin\u00e1-lo do seu sistema.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is to stop giving him the love he doesn\u2019t deserve, to stop beating yourself up for him, and to stop giving him the attention he is not entitled to.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2013this will be everything but easy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, \u00e9 algo que tem de ser feito para o seu pr\u00f3prio bem.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s time you look the harsh truth in the eyes and acknowledge the fact that you are nothing but a back up plan and a safety net to this man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uma rapariga que por\u00e1 a sua vida em suspenso por ele sempre que lhe apetecer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

For you to accept that you\u2019ll never be his priority and first choice.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s time to leave this road to nowhere and start walking on the path of moving on. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 altura de tomar a vida nas suas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os e de escolher <\/strong>ama-te a ti pr\u00f3prio<\/strong><\/a> mais do que tu amas este idiota.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most importantly, it\u2019s time to choose healing over hurting. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Escolher deixar ir em vez de ficar agarrado, o futuro em vez do passado e a felicidade em vez da tristeza.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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