{"id":33940,"date":"2019-03-08T09:01:10","date_gmt":"2019-03-08T09:01:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33940"},"modified":"2022-02-21T00:40:42","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T00:40:42","slug":"saberei-que-o-meu-coracao-esta-curado-quando-te-perdoar-por-tudo-o-que-me-fizeste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/saberei-que-o-meu-coracao-esta-curado-quando-te-perdoar-por-tudo-o-que-me-fizeste\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu saberei que o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 curado quando eu te perdoar por tudo o que me fizeste"},"content":{"rendered":"

Isto \u00e9 provavelmente algo que eu n\u00e3o devia estar a dizer-vos depois de tudo o que aconteceu.<\/p>\n

Algo que devo guardar em segredo, para que nunca o descubras.<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re my toxic ex \u2013 the one who broke my heart to pieces and the one who caused me more pain than I thought I could handle.<\/p>\n

So, the normal thing for me to do would be to pretend that I am completely indifferent and that I\u2019ve moved on from you a while ago.<\/p>\n

Seria de esperar que eu fingisse que estou mais feliz do que nunca e que tu n\u00e3o \u00e9s mais do que uma mem\u00f3ria distante.<\/p>\n

De acordo com todas as regras, devo manter o meu ego intacto e n\u00e3o me humilhar ainda mais dirigindo-me a si.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, knowing me, I\u2019ll be honest, as I\u2019ve always been, and I\u2019ll tell you exactly what\u2019s been on my mind all this time.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I don\u2019t expect it to make a difference \u2013 I just want you to know how much harm you\u2019ve done.<\/p>\n

Sabes, a verdade \u00e9 que ainda penso em ti. Continuas a existir no fundo da minha mente; continuas a assombrar-me.<\/p>\n

However, this doesn\u2019t mean I miss you.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that I fall asleep every night wishing for all our happy times to come back, nor that I wish for you to return into my life.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean that I would ever get back together with you or that I picture us together.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that I am aware that I am not healed yet. I did get over you, but I\u2019ve never gotten over everything you did to me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sim, ainda estou ressentido contigo depois de todo este tempo.<\/p>\n

Maybe I should be ashamed for being so weak and for allowing your actions to still have such a huge impact on me, but I just can\u2019t help but being consumed by this resentment that has been eating me alive to this day.<\/p>\n

As much as I try, I can\u2019t let go of grudges, of the bitterness and negativity you left behind.<\/p>\n

Even though I forgave you for abandoning me when I needed you the most, I can\u2019t force myself to forget about all the backstabbing, about the betrayal, about the abuse.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t seem to forget all the tears<\/a>, all the sleepless nights, all the insults, all the other women\u2026 Nor can I forgive you for any of this.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, a day will come when I\u2019ll let go of all the resentment. <\/strong><\/p>\n

A day when I won\u2019t wish the worst for you. A day when I\u2019ll stop seeking vingan\u00e7a<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A day will come when I\u2019ll finally be at peace with myself and with everything you did to me. <\/strong><\/p>\n

When I\u2019ll understand that I shouldn\u2019t give you any more credit for allowing you to affect me anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There will come a time when I\u2019ll get rid of all the insecurities and self-doubts you caused me to feel.<\/p>\n

When I\u2019ll start believing in love once again and when I\u2019ll finally tear down the walls I had to build because of you.<\/p>\n

A time when I\u2019ll let this guard down and when I\u2019ll go back to being the same girl I was before you stormed through my life.<\/p>\n

Um tempo em que a mulher em que me tornei depois de todos os danos que causaste ter\u00e1 desaparecido.<\/p>\n

Tenho f\u00e9 que todas as minhas feridas v\u00e3o sarar e que a minha alma vai recuperar.<\/p>\n

That sometime in the future, my heart will be clear from all this hate I still feel for you and that I\u2019ll finally free myself from the emotional baggage you left behind.<\/p>\n

Even though I\u2019m consumed by resentment now, I believe that one day, I\u2019ll figure out how to accept the apology I never got. <\/strong><\/p>\n

That one day, I\u2019ll perdoar-vos<\/a> por tudo o que me fizeste e deixar\u00e1s de existir na minha mente e no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When that happens, I\u2019ll know that I\u2019m completely recovered.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll know that I\u2019ve gotten over you and that I\u2019ve finally moved on.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll know that I\u2019ve closed this chapter of my life and that I\u2019ve left you in the past, where you belong.<\/p>\n

When that happens, I\u2019ll know that I\u2019m ready for the love I deserve.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Eu<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This is probably something I shouldn\u2019t be telling you after everything that went on. Something I should keep to myself as a secret, making sure you never find out about it. After all, you\u2019re my toxic ex \u2013 the one who broke my heart to pieces and the one who caused me more pain than…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":33948,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33940","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/wheat-field-1081914_1920.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33940","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33940"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33940\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33948"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33940"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33940"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33940"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}