{"id":34073,"date":"2020-08-11T08:25:29","date_gmt":"2020-08-11T08:25:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34073"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:59:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:59:21","slug":"nao-se-esta-pronto-para-a-pessoa-certa-ate-se-sair-com-a-pessoa-errada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-se-esta-pronto-para-a-pessoa-certa-ate-se-sair-com-a-pessoa-errada\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o est\u00e1s pronto para \"a pessoa certa\" at\u00e9 sa\u00edres com \"a pessoa errada\""},"content":{"rendered":"

O problema com \"o errado\" \u00e9 que ele n\u00e3o vem com um sinal de aviso anexado.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t immediately know how toxic he is and it\u2019s easy enough to confuse him for \u201cthe one.\u201d<\/p>\n

The thing is, the wrong one won\u2019t show his true face right away.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s even more confusing is the fact that he was perfect at the beginning of your relationship and only once you were head over heels for him, he started to change.<\/p>\n

You couldn\u2019t believe the transformation. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Your prince charming became a toad and that\u2019s not how the fairytale was supposed to go.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Passou muito tempo \u00e0 espera que as coisas voltassem a ser como eram.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Pensava que aquele homem doce, amoroso e carinhoso ainda estava algures dentro dele.<\/p>\n

Infelizmente, a verdade \u00e9 que esse homem nunca existiu.<\/p>\n

He pretended he was something he\u2019s not, and you fell for it.<\/p>\n

Nunca terias ficado t\u00e3o interessada nele se ele tivesse mostrado as suas verdadeiras cores no in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n

Nunca teria ca\u00eddo no mau comportamento, nos esfor\u00e7os m\u00ednimos e nos jogos mentais que se seguiram.<\/p>\n

By then it was already too late \u2013 you were already in love with him.<\/p>\n

Amava-o por aquilo que pensava que ele era.<\/p>\n

You loved the false image of a man he created, but that wasn\u2019t true love. He wasn\u2019t the one for you.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Agora est\u00e1 destro\u00e7ada, a apanhar os peda\u00e7os do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e da sua vida, a tentar aguentar tudo porque ele a arruinou emocionalmente.<\/p>\n

It hurts \u2013 it will hurt for a long time \u2013 but the best thing he could have done for you is be out of your life for good.<\/p>\n

I know you wish it wasn\u2019t like this, that you can just skip the bad part and get to the moment in future where you are living your happily ever after.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Unfortunately, good things don\u2019t come easy and without the bad times, you would never grow, evolve, and become the person your alma g\u00e9mea<\/a> vai apaixonar-se loucamente.<\/p>\n

Confie em mim, chegar\u00e1 um dia em que ficar\u00e1 grato por tudo ter acontecido como aconteceu.<\/p>\n

One day you will be able to look back and give the wrong man a big thank you because he paved the road to the right one\u2026 to the one you are supposed to spend your forever with.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You see…<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

A pessoa errada mostrou-te o que o amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 e nunca deveria ser<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deu-vos calor, depois mostrou-vos a pior frieza que alguma vez experimentaram na vossa vida.<\/p>\n

Ele baixou a sua autoestima e f\u00ea-la sentir que tem de se esfor\u00e7ar mais para o manter na sua vida.<\/p>\n

O amor nunca \u00e9 cruel e nunca deve ser usado como uma arma para manipular algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Em vez de apreciar e retribuir os seus sentimentos por ele, ele usou-os contra si.<\/p>\n

O seu n\u00facleo est\u00e1 podre e ele nunca foi digno de si, e n\u00e3o o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

O errado ensinou-o a reconhecer as bandeiras vermelhas<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"morena<\/p>\n

You are now more careful. You will see the signs you missed when you were with him; you won\u2019t ignore your inner voice telling you that something isn\u2019t right.<\/p>\n

Someone\u2019s constant mood swings, inconsistency, lies and controlling or abusive behavior will trigger the alarms inside of you and tell you to run as far away from that person as you humanly can.<\/p>\n

De certa forma, o seu ex salvou-a de se envolver com um homem como ele.<\/p>\n

O errado tornou-te mais forte<\/strong><\/p>\n

It won\u2019t seem like that at first; you will be sad, confused, disillusioned on the whole idea of love.<\/p>\n

Mas continuar\u00e1 a avan\u00e7ar; voltar\u00e1 a remendar-se; recome\u00e7ar\u00e1 a sua vida do zero.<\/p>\n

Mais importante ainda, aprender\u00e1 a apreciar-se a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Crescer\u00e1 no amor-pr\u00f3prio; florescer\u00e1 e aprender\u00e1 com a sua dor. Tornar-se-\u00e1 a melhor vers\u00e3o de si mesmo por causa disso.<\/p>\n

O errado far\u00e1 com que aprecie o certo <\/strong>Your forever person will be everything your ex didn\u2019t know how to be.<\/p>\n

Ele ser\u00e1 o dobro do homem que o teu ex foi. Ele vai dar-te for\u00e7a e fazer-te sentir bonita, aceite e acarinhada.<\/p>\n

He will be your strength \u2013 on the other hand, you\u2019ll be his weakness.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que o ajudar\u00e1 a baixar a guarda masculina e a mostrar o seu lado sens\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like an exchange of power.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s reciprocity. It\u2019s togetherness. It\u2019s love in its purest form. It\u2019s all you needed and never had with the homem errado.<\/a><\/p>\n

The right one \u2013 the one \u2013 will show you what love is all about<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Precisas de um homem que seja respeitador, de confian\u00e7a e coerente.<\/p>\n

Precisa de um homem que a fa\u00e7a sentir-se segura e cuidada, e ter\u00e1 isso quando conhecer o homem certo.<\/p>\n

Quando estiveres com a pessoa certa, ver\u00e1s porque \u00e9 que nunca funcionou com mais ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

You will be thankful because you will know that all the tears, struggles, and pain weren\u2019t in vain.<\/p>\n

Quando estiveres com a pessoa certa, ter\u00e1s algu\u00e9m que te enxugar\u00e1 as l\u00e1grimas e estar\u00e1 ao teu lado nos momentos dif\u00edceis.<\/p>\n

Ter\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que se esfor\u00e7ar\u00e1 ao m\u00e1ximo para o fazer feliz.<\/p>\n

Now tell me, isn\u2019t that special someone worth the wait?<\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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