{"id":34114,"date":"2020-03-12T08:07:01","date_gmt":"2020-03-12T08:07:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34114"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:43:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:43:24","slug":"se-queres-conquistar-o-homem-namora-como-um-homem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-queres-conquistar-o-homem-namora-como-um-homem\/","title":{"rendered":"Se queres ficar com o homem, namora como um homem"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quem quer que tenha dito que os homens e as mulheres v\u00eam de planetas diferentes sabia exatamente do que estava a falar.<\/p>\r\n

Estamos apenas ligados de forma diferente e, na maior parte das vezes, comunicamos mal as coisas com mestria.<\/p>\r\n

In addition to that, the dating world today has become a man\u2019s world and it seems like women are running a greater risk of getting hurt in this difficult game of love.<\/p>\r\n

The thing is we don\u2019t want to play games; we don\u2019t want to resort to manipulation tactics to get the man of our dreams.<\/p>\r\n

The good news is we don\u2019t have to do that\u2026 but we have to do something.<\/p>\r\n

Temos de come\u00e7ar a namorar como homens.<\/p>\r\n

E a melhor forma de o conseguirmos \u00e9 tentar compreend\u00ea-las.<\/p>\r\n

I know it sounds impossible, but it\u2019s really not all that complicated. We have to refuse to play games and adopt the things that they are good at.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

1. Don\u2019t chase\u2026 become chasable<\/h2>\r\n

\"mulher<\/p>\r\n\r\n

J\u00e1 reparou que quanto mais corre atr\u00e1s de uma coisa na vida, mais depressa ela se afasta de si.<\/p>\r\n

Bem, os homens s\u00e3o iguais. S\u00e3o ca\u00e7adores natos e perdem o interesse ou intimidam-se se se sentirem como presas.<\/p>\r\n

Por outro lado, se encontrarem uma mulher que possua as caracter\u00edsticas de que gostam<\/a>, they will pursue her and they won\u2019t stop at anything to win her over.<\/p>\r\n

If you wonder how to become chasable, it\u2019s actually quite easy \u2013 and I\u2019ll be brutally honest here \u2013 live your own life.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t quit on your dreams, friends, or interests.<\/p>\r\n

Look at him as your equal and not someone on a pedestal. Invest as much as he does; don\u2019t overdo it.<\/p>\r\n

Fa\u00e7a dele uma parte da sua vida, n\u00e3o todo o seu universo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

2. Baixar um ou dois n\u00edveis<\/h2>\r\n

\"mulher<\/p>\r\n\r\n

As mulheres tendem a ir mais al\u00e9m quando est\u00e3o realmente interessadas em algu\u00e9m, por isso exageram.<\/p>\r\n

They try too hard, while the other side does nothing. If you see yourself in this description, it\u2019s time to kick it down a notch or two.<\/p>\r\n

Siga o seu exemplo. Investir tanto quanto ele est\u00e1 a investir.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t send a follow-up text when he is not responding. Don\u2019t plan uma noite fora<\/a> if he isn\u2019t planning one.<\/p>\r\n

This is not about playing games, it\u2019s about something much more important and that\u2019s RECIPROCITY.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

3. Evitar as zonas cinzentas<\/h2>\r\n

\"Rapariga<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Men hardly ever find themselves in the gray area. To them, it\u2019s all black and white and they are quite clear about what they want.<\/p>\r\n

That\u2019s one of the parts of dating like a man that is essential to adopt. When you are meh about someone, don\u2019t date them at all.<\/p>\r\n

When you detect the red flags and see some behavior in a man you don\u2019t wish to tolerate, cut them out of your life.<\/p>\r\n

Men do that; they don\u2019t even need a reasonable explanation. When something doesn\u2019t feel good, they move on.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

4. Don\u2019t treat him like your boyfriend until he mans up and says he is completely yours<\/h2>\r\n

\"jovem<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Antes de ter a certeza de que os dois s\u00e3o exclusivos, mantenha as suas op\u00e7\u00f5es em aberto.<\/p>\r\n

Deus sabe que os homens fazem-no sempre e isso torna menos doloroso o facto de serem rejeitados.<\/p>\r\n

Why wouldn\u2019t you do the same or something similar?<\/p>\r\n

Pode sair com outras pessoas ao mesmo tempo e explorar as suas op\u00e7\u00f5es, ou pode simplesmente manter um contacto casual com outros homens que considere atraentes.<\/p>\r\n

You never know how it will all end and it\u2019s always good to have options at the end of the day.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

5. Switch into \u201cThank you, next\u201d mode<\/h2>\r\n

\"mulher<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Os homens tamb\u00e9m se lamentam um pouco se forem rejeitados pela mulher de quem gostam. Mas antes que se d\u00ea conta, eles voltam a sair e come\u00e7am a namorar novamente.<\/p>\r\n

If you\u2019ve been on a few dates with someone and they disappeared on you, there is no reason for you to look at the empty screen waiting for a text.<\/p>\r\n

H\u00e1 muitos homens por a\u00ed, feitos de carne e osso, que ficariam mais do que felizes em fazer parte da sua vida.<\/p>\r\n

A man who doesn\u2019t see that doesn\u2019t deserve a place in your world.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

6. Don\u2019t flaunt your flaws<\/h2>\r\n

\"maquilhagem<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Provavelmente nunca ouviu um homem falar sobre as coisas que o fazem sentir inseguro no in\u00edcio da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n

Eles sabem que, se tudo correr bem, haver\u00e1 muito tempo para o fazer.<\/p>\r\n

Por isso, far\u00e3o tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para o impressionar e real\u00e7ar os seus pontos fortes e as suas virtudes.<\/p>\r\n

Os homens est\u00e3o a perceber alguma coisa.<\/p>\r\n

Ao ser demasiado aberto desde o in\u00edcio, n\u00e3o est\u00e1 apenas a tornar-se vulner\u00e1vel, est\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m a lan\u00e7ar uma nota depressiva sobre toda a sua experi\u00eancia de namoro.<\/p>\r\n

Por isso, mantenha os temas divertidos e descontra\u00eddos. As coisas s\u00e9rias vir\u00e3o mais tarde, \u00e0 medida que se forem conhecendo melhor.<\/p>\r\n

Al\u00e9m disso, as coisas que considera serem os seus defeitos podem estar longe disso aos olhos dele. Deixe que seja ele a decidir a forma como a v\u00ea.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

7. Don\u2019t settle for someone who is not \u201cThe One\u201d for you<\/h2>\r\n

\"mulher<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Provavelmente nunca ouviu uma hist\u00f3ria sobre um homem que se contentou com menos porque tinha 30 anos e estava na altura de casar, ter filhos ou, pelo menos, ir viver com uma namorada.<\/p>\r\n

Este cen\u00e1rio acontece t\u00e3o raramente que quase parece um mito.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t settle for less than true love because you are scared of loneliness, because \u201cit\u2019s time,\u201d or because society expects something from you.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s a pressure you don\u2019t need in your life.<\/p>\r\n

Silencie todos os coment\u00e1rios maldosos e todos os seus medos interiores e siga o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t date Sr. Errado<\/a> and don\u2019t stay with him; you miss out on the real deal.<\/p>\r\n

When you are with someone right, you\u2019ll know it and you will have no doubt about it.<\/p>\r\n

\"Se<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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