{"id":34154,"date":"2019-03-12T10:37:52","date_gmt":"2019-03-12T10:37:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34154"},"modified":"2022-01-09T19:46:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T19:46:00","slug":"a-verdade-e-que-nao-se-pode-fazer-com-que-um-homem-nos-ame-a-nao-ser-que-ele-proprio-o-faca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-verdade-e-que-nao-se-pode-fazer-com-que-um-homem-nos-ame-a-nao-ser-que-ele-proprio-o-faca\/","title":{"rendered":"A verdade \u00e9 que n\u00e3o se pode fazer um homem amar-nos a n\u00e3o ser que ele pr\u00f3prio o fa\u00e7a"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Desde que te lembras, pensavas que o amor era muito simples - recebes o que d\u00e1s.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Por isso, basicamente, se algu\u00e9m nos ama verdadeiramente, vai dar-nos todo o seu amor de volta.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The same goes for boyfriends, family, friends and everyone else\u2014if you give someone the care and the attention they need, everything will work out just fine.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You just have to give your best\u2014you have to show them that you are ready to do whatever it takes to make them happy and that they can count on you, no matter what.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This especially goes for guys\u2014if you treat your partner the way you\u2019d like to be treated, he will love you back for sure.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c9 preciso ser honesto, leal, fiel e estar disposto a comprometer-se e, mais cedo ou mais tarde, tudo se encaixar\u00e1.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ele ver\u00e1 tudo o que est\u00e1 a fazer por ele, apreciar\u00e1 todos os seus sacrif\u00edcios e compreender\u00e1 que \u00e9 a \u00fanica pessoa digna do seu amor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Desde que se lembra, est\u00e1 convencido de que tem de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/e-por-isto-que-vale-a-pena-lutar-pelo-amor-verdadeiro\/\">lutar pelo amor verdadeiro<\/a>\u2014that you have to be ready to do whatever it takes to keep it alive.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Disseram-lhe que tinha de ultrapassar muitos obst\u00e1culos e vencer v\u00e1rios desafios para conseguir o seu final feliz.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But no matter what, your happy ending will eventually come, if you just try hard enough, won\u2019t it?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I hate to be the one to burst your bubble but the truth is that things don\u2019t always work like that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The truth is that sometimes, no matter how much of yourself you give to a man, he simply can\u2019t or doesn\u2019t know how to love you back. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>At least, he can\u2019t do it the way he should and the way you need him to.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>A verdade \u00e9 que, por vezes, \u00e9 poss\u00edvel mover montanhas por uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o que est\u00e1 simplesmente condenada ao fracasso. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Por uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 destinada a ser e que nunca ser\u00e1 bem sucedida, por muito que se queira.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00e3o estou a dizer que se deva ir embora no momento em que as coisas se tornam dif\u00edceis ou que se deva abandonar algu\u00e9m de quem se gosta muito ao primeiro sinal de inconveni\u00eancia.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No entanto, por vezes, temos de aceitar que as nossas lutas s\u00e3o em v\u00e3o e que estamos a lutar contra os moinhos de vento. &nbsp;<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00e3o estou a dizer que se deva ser uma cabra total s\u00f3 para que um tipo em quem se est\u00e1 interessada v\u00e1 atr\u00e1s de si.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00e3o estou a dizer que se deve fazer de dif\u00edcil ou que mostrar as suas verdadeiras emo\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e9 errado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>However, you have to be aware of one thing\u2014no matter how much love you give away, it will never be enough for the wrong man. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Por muito que se tente ou por muito esfor\u00e7o que se fa\u00e7a, nunca se conseguir\u00e1 ensinar um homem t\u00f3xico a amar verdadeiramente. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>You can never make him become someone he\u2019s not and<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-se-pode-amar-alguem-para-que-nos-ame\/\"> you can\u2019t force him to give you his entire heart<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most importantly, what you need to realize is the fact that some asshole can\u2019t love you isn\u2019t your fault.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You shouldn\u2019t waste your energy on trying to figure out why this man doesn\u2019t love you, after everything you\u2019ve done to deserve his love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why can\u2019t you be enough for him to start treating you differently and for him to open up a place in his heart for you?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Por isso, em vez de se culparem a si pr\u00f3prios, <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/she-left-you-because-she-finally-saw-her-worth\/\"><strong>lembra-te do teu valor<\/strong><\/a><strong>. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Remember that you don\u2019t need this man\u2019s love to make you happy and remember that it\u2019s his loss\u2014not yours.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yes, all of this is easier said than done. I know that it is difficult and painful to accept the fact that someone whom you care for so deeply doesn\u2019t give a damn about you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No entanto, por vezes, temos de olhar a verdade nos olhos e aceit\u00e1-la, por mais dura que seja.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes, you have to give up hope and realize that you\u2019ve done more than enough.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Realize that you\u2019ve done everything in your power and walk away, while you still have some dignity and pride.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sim, vai doer imenso. Mas tu <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/a-todas-as-raparigas-que-estao-a-sofrer-e-a-curar-ao-mesmo-tempo\/\"><strong>curar\u00e1<\/strong><\/a><strong>. And once you do, you\u2019ll wish you\u2019d done all of this sooner.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Once you heal, you\u2019ll understand that this was the only way for you to open your heart to the man who WILL LOVE YOU in all the ways you deserve to be loved. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>For the man you\u2019ll never have to chase or beg. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Para o homem que nunca te far\u00e1 questionar as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es, nem duvidar dos seus sentimentos. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Para o homem que est\u00e1 destinado a ser teu e que nunca te partir\u00e1 o cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-34157\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-12T113709.756-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"A verdade \u00e9 que n\u00e3o se pode fazer um homem amar-nos a n\u00e3o ser que ele pr\u00f3prio o fa\u00e7a\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-12T113709.756-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-12T113709.756-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-12T113709.756.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For as long as you can remember, you thought of love as pretty simple\u2014you get what you give. So, basically, if someone truly loves you, they will give you all of their love back. The same goes for boyfriends, family, friends and everyone else\u2014if you give someone the care and the attention they need, everything&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":34155,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34154","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/StockSnap_IS2NXEIDJV.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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