{"id":34251,"date":"2020-07-14T08:04:17","date_gmt":"2020-07-14T08:04:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34251"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:31:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:31:09","slug":"6-razoes-pelas-quais-nao-consegues-deixar-de-o-amar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-razoes-pelas-quais-nao-consegues-deixar-de-o-amar\/","title":{"rendered":"6 raz\u00f5es pelas quais n\u00e3o consegues deixar de o amar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nunca \u00e9 f\u00e1cil deixar de amar algu\u00e9m que se \u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/11-coisas-subconscientes-que-os-homens-fazem-quando-se-apaixonam-perdidamente-por-uma-mulher\/\">apaixonados de paix\u00e3o <\/a>com.<\/p>\n<p>Even if he took you for granted and hurt you, you can\u2019t forget all about him overnight.<\/p>\n<p>Precisar\u00e1 de algum tempo para ultrapassar tudo isto e encontrar finalmente a sua pr\u00f3pria paz.<\/p>\n<p>If you are one of those women who doesn\u2019t know why you can\u2019t stop loving him after all that he did to you, I suggest you read further.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Habituou-se a ele<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97381\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-depressed-facial-expression-sitting-and-holding-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com express\u00e3o facial deprimida, sentada e a segurar o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-depressed-facial-expression-sitting-and-holding-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-depressed-facial-expression-sitting-and-holding-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-depressed-facial-expression-sitting-and-holding-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-depressed-facial-expression-sitting-and-holding-her-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-depressed-facial-expression-sitting-and-holding-her-phone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando se est\u00e1 numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura, \u00e9 muito f\u00e1cil habituarmo-nos ao nosso parceiro.<\/p>\n<p>Sentimo-nos seguros porque sabemos que eles estar\u00e3o sempre presentes e sabemos que, enquanto estivermos com eles, estaremos bem.<\/p>\n<p>But when you two break up, your whole world falls apart because you got attached to your partner and now you don\u2019t know how to move on alone.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t know how to make yourself happy and satisfied anymore because he was the one who always provided you with that.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how much you want to forget him and stop loving him, you can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>You catch yourself thinking about him all the time and no matter what you do, you can\u2019t get him out of your head.<\/p>\n<p>O pior \u00e9 que este processo \u00e9 longo e ter\u00e1 de reunir muita for\u00e7a e energia para ultrapassar tudo isto.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"><strong>Continuas a pensar que ele \u00e9 o homem mais perfeito do mundo<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97382\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste deitada com a cabe\u00e7a no sof\u00e1 da sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uma outra raz\u00e3o que a impede de deixar de o amar \u00e9 a sua opini\u00e3o sobre ele.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que n\u00e3o estejam juntos e mesmo que ele a tenha magoado, continua a pensar que ele \u00e9 simplesmente o melhor.<\/p>\n<p>Acredita que ele \u00e9 o seu par perfeito e que nunca encontrar\u00e1 um homem t\u00e3o bonito ou inteligente como ele.<\/p>\n<p>Isso acontece porque tens uma baixa autoestima ou porque o idolatraste demasiado.<\/p>\n<p>Seja qual for a raz\u00e3o, n\u00e3o \u00e9 bom nem saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>If you continue to think that he is the best man you will ever be with, you surely won\u2019t give anyone else a chance to try be with you.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez muitos bons rapazes estejam a caminhar mesmo ao seu lado enquanto se agarra ao errado.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 quando disser a si pr\u00f3pria que deve seguir em frente e deix\u00e1-lo ir \u00e9 que ser\u00e1 capaz de o fazer.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 ent\u00e3o encontrar\u00e1 o que procurava h\u00e1 tanto tempo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Continua a contactar a fam\u00edlia dele<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97383\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-wearing-white-shirt-and-talking-on-her-phone-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher s\u00e9ria com camisa branca e a falar ao telem\u00f3vel no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-wearing-white-shirt-and-talking-on-her-phone-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-wearing-white-shirt-and-talking-on-her-phone-outside-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-wearing-white-shirt-and-talking-on-her-phone-outside-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-wearing-white-shirt-and-talking-on-her-phone-outside-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-wearing-white-shirt-and-talking-on-her-phone-outside-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se ainda tem algum tipo de contacto com a fam\u00edlia dele, \u00e9 \u00f3bvio que vai ser dif\u00edcil esquec\u00ea-lo e deixar de o amar.<\/p>\n<p>A sua fam\u00edlia estar\u00e1 sempre do seu lado e contar-lhe-\u00e1 todas as hist\u00f3rias bonitas sobre ele.<\/p>\n<p>O que quer que tenha acontecido entre voc\u00eas os dois parecer\u00e1 menos horr\u00edvel quando falar com a irm\u00e3 ou a m\u00e3e dele, por exemplo.<\/p>\n<p>Provavelmente, dir-lhe-\u00e3o que devem passar algum tempo separados, mas que t\u00eam a certeza de que o vosso lugar \u00e9 juntos.<\/p>\n<p>Dir-lhe-\u00e3o que o amam e que o querem sempre por perto.<\/p>\n<p>So, having non-stop communication with his family won\u2019t help you a bit to stop loving him.<\/p>\n<p>Estar\u00e3o sempre presentes para tentar convencer-te de que o teu lugar \u00e9 ao lado dele. Se eu fosse a ti,<\/p>\n<p>Queimaria todas as pontes com ele e com a sua fam\u00edlia, pois s\u00f3 assim conseguiria atingir o seu objetivo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Acredita que \u00e9 culpado por todos os problemas da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97384\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"morena triste com cabelo encaracolado em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you think that you are the guilty one for all the bad stuff that happened in your relationship, you will always try to save things that simply can\u2019t be saved.<\/p>\n<p>A sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, por exemplo.<\/p>\n<p>Se algo est\u00e1 condenado desde o in\u00edcio, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 como fazer nada para o melhorar.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, deixar de amar algu\u00e9m enquanto nos culpamos por ele n\u00e3o estar presente pode ser uma miss\u00e3o imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>Gastar\u00e1 muito do seu tempo e energia para que tudo funcione, mas nunca ser\u00e1 perfeito como deseja.<\/p>\n<p>My advice is to let it all go because it obviously didn\u2019t work out from the beginning.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O seu foco principal \u00e9 ele<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97385\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"casal junto ao lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Colocou-o num pedestal desde o primeiro dia. Para ti, ele era tudo o que podias desejar.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca olhaste para outros homens porque ele era o homem perfeito para ti. Mas espera. Ele era mesmo?<\/p>\n<p>If he really was, you wouldn\u2019t be here now, trying to forget him and stop loving him.<\/p>\n<p>Now you are stuck in a place you don\u2019t want to be in and you are trying your utmost to stop loving the man you are madly in love with.<\/p>\n<p>Se conseguisse concentrar-se noutra coisa, seria muito mais f\u00e1cil ultrapass\u00e1-lo e esquec\u00ea-lo o mais rapidamente poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, se quiser fazer isso, tem de mudar a sua vis\u00e3o da vida e concentrar-se em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Dessa forma, resolver\u00e1 todos os seus problemas e aprender\u00e1 finalmente a amar-se e a colocar-se em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pensa que n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom para outra pessoa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97386\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaning-on-a-black-wooden-wall.jpg\" alt=\"mulher encostada a uma parede de madeira preta\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaning-on-a-black-wooden-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaning-on-a-black-wooden-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaning-on-a-black-wooden-wall-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaning-on-a-black-wooden-wall-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O que se passa \u00e9 que ainda est\u00e1 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/e-por-isso-que-achas-que-ainda-o-amas-depois-de-tudo-o-que-ele-fez\/\">apaixonada por ele<\/a> and you believe that you won\u2019t be good for someone else.<\/p>\n<p>Pensa que n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bonita ou boa e que nunca ningu\u00e9m a amar\u00e1 como ele a amou.<\/p>\n<p>Deep down you know that he didn\u2019t give you the love you deserved, but you still want him close.<\/p>\n<p>You are not letting yourself get over him and as long as you continue thinking in that way, things won\u2019t get better.<\/p>\n<p>My advice is to focus on yourself more and to let go of the one who doesn\u2019t accept you completely.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97379\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Simply-Cant-Stop-Loving-Him-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"6 raz\u00f5es pelas quais n\u00e3o consegues deixar de o amar\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Simply-Cant-Stop-Loving-Him-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Simply-Cant-Stop-Loving-Him-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Simply-Cant-Stop-Loving-Him-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is never easy to stop loving someone you are head over heels in love with. Even if he took you for granted and hurt you, you can\u2019t forget all about him overnight. You will need some time to get over it all and to finally find your own peace. If you are one of&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":97380,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34251","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Simply-Cant-Stop-Loving-Him.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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