{"id":34258,"date":"2020-03-14T08:18:26","date_gmt":"2020-03-14T08:18:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34258"},"modified":"2022-03-24T01:53:23","modified_gmt":"2022-03-24T01:53:23","slug":"e-por-isso-que-nunca-se-deve-perdoar-o-seu-rabo-de-traidor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-por-isso-que-nunca-se-deve-perdoar-o-seu-rabo-de-traidor\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que NUNCA deves perdoar o seu rabo arrependido e traidor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ele tamb\u00e9m me fez isso a mim. Teve o descaramento de me trair e ir \u00e0 procura de algo que j\u00e1 tinha mas que n\u00e3o apreciava.<\/p>\n

Ele s\u00f3 tinha de ver o que mais havia por a\u00ed. Ele s\u00f3 tinha de me arrancar o cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Quando acabou, pediu-me desculpa.<\/p>\n

Well…save it for someone who cares. Maybe he thought I\u2019d never find out.<\/p>\n

Maybe that\u2019s why he was so brave and consistent in his persuasions that it isn\u2019t true and that it\u2019s not his fault.<\/p>\n

First, he said it\u2019s not true, and then he said it wasn\u2019t his fault. What am I, a complete idiot?<\/p>\n

You heard that story too, didn\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

Sim, todos eles dizem as mesmas frases e t\u00eam as mesmas desculpas esfarrapadas. E a parte mais engra\u00e7ada?<\/p>\n

Todos eles esperam que acreditemos neles. Acham que podem safar-se de tudo.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 que acontece a seguir? O que vais fazer a seguir?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not an emotionless robot, and you can\u2019t switch off your feelings just like that. You can\u2019t forget you ever loved him.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Depois de a raiva ter desaparecido, you\u2019re going to miss him<\/a>. O que \u00e9 que vais fazer ent\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll tell you what I did. I fought with my demons.<\/p>\n

Lutei comigo mesma contra a minha solid\u00e3o, que me estava a empurrar de novo para as m\u00e3os de um batoteiro.<\/p>\n

Lutei tanto para n\u00e3o cair na press\u00e3o de voltar para o homem que eu sabia que me ia magoar mais uma vez.<\/p>\n

Quando penso no facto de ter querido perdoar-lhe, fico doente.<\/p>\n

I really wanted to let it go and give him another chance\u2014which I knew then and I know now\u2014he didn\u2019t deserve.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be like me. Don\u2019t even think about forgiving him. His \u2018I\u2019m sorry; it was a mistake\u2019 <\/strong>A desculpa esfarrapada \u00e9 uma mentira.<\/p>\n

If you take a look at the sentence itself, it really doesn\u2019t make any sense.<\/p>\n

First, he\u2019s not sorry. Maybe he\u2019s sorry that he got caught, and second, was it really a mistake? Think about it.<\/p>\n

Ele tinha de a conhecer primeiro. Ele tinha de ter algum tipo de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o antes de saltar para a cama dela.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

So you see, it wasn\u2019t a mistake. It was all carefully planned, and he knew from the start what he was doing.<\/p>\n

Uma coisa que aconteceu uma vez pode ser chamada de erro, e uma vez que o cometemos, sabemos que nunca mais vamos fazer a mesma coisa est\u00fapida.<\/p>\n

But going to her place over and over again, kissing her so many times cannot be a mistake\u2014it\u2019s an intention.<\/p>\n

What do you think…how many lies has he told you over time? <\/strong>Acreditas mesmo em alguma coisa do que ele diz?<\/p>\n

Who knows for how long he\u2019s been cheating on you and for how long he\u2019s been telling you lies?<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 Deus sabe se houve algum momento na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que ele vos tenha dito a verdade.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still thinking about forgiving him, just remember that every time ele estava com outra pessoa<\/a>, you weren\u2019t in his mind.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o estavas nem perto. Pensa no esfor\u00e7o que ele fez para a conquistar.<\/p>\n

Pense na quantidade de aten\u00e7\u00e3o que ela estava a receber antes de ir para a cama com ele.<\/p>\n

And now ask yourself: didn\u2019t you deserve that attention and that effort to be directed to you and not someone else?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t this alone more than enough reason to forget he exists?<\/p>\n

Not only did he lie to you and sneek behind your back, but he also disrespected and diminished you by assuring her he doesn\u2019t love you and that soon it will be over.<\/p>\n

Em breve, ele vai deix\u00e1-la para ficar com ela, porque n\u00e3o sente nada por si. Fez-vos aos dois de parvos.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still thinking about forgiving him, please stay with me\u2026.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

If it really was a one-time thing, that\u2019s still not an excuse. Just remember everything he had to do to keep you in the dark, to keep you clueless.<\/p>\n

Pensa no n\u00famero de mentiras que te contaram para nunca descobrires o segredo sujo dele. E se ele estivesse b\u00eabedo? E se fosse s\u00f3 uma noite? Continuava a ser uma decis\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Mesmo assim, foi algo que ele escolheu fazer, apesar de te ter na vida dele. Ele decidiu magoar-te naquele momento de embriaguez.<\/p>\n

Talvez o facto de estar b\u00eabado tenha facilitado ainda mais a tarefa.<\/p>\n

That one drunken night revealed who he really is and what he really wants\u2014and that\u2019s not you.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, there is still one thing I bet you\u2019re dying to find out: why did he cheat, why?!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Cheaters can say they love you, but the truth is they don\u2019t. In fact, many can say they love, but rarely any of them really do.<\/p>\n

Words don\u2019t mean anything; actions matter. Now, let\u2019s take a step back.<\/p>\n

He tells you he loves you. He says that he\u2019s sorry, and he cheated on you. <\/strong>That\u2019s two sentences against an action.<\/p>\n

Tell me, what will win – an action or a statement? <\/em>He cheated because he doesn\u2019t respect you.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care about what is going to happen to you or whether it is going to hurt. That\u2019s why he cheated.<\/p>\n

Now…I dare you, give him a second chance.<\/p>\n

This is it. I\u2019ve told you everything I felt the need to say. Ultimately, the decision is up to you. I just want you to really think about your situation.<\/p>\n

Do you truly want to be with someone who thought you weren\u2019t interesting enough to be with?<\/p>\n

Can you be in a relationship knowing he cheated\u2014and you forgave him\u2014and make it work anyway?<\/p>\n

Podes confiar nele?<\/p>\n

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He did it to me, too. He had the nerve to betray me and go looking for something he already had but didn\u2019t appreciate. He just had to see what else was out there. He just had to rip my heart out. When he was done, he said he was sorry. Well…save it for someone…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":79047,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34258","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/This-Is-Why-You-Should-NEVER-Forgive-His-Sorry-Cheating-Ass.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34258","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34258"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34258\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/79047"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34258"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34258"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34258"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}