{"id":34299,"date":"2019-03-14T11:41:28","date_gmt":"2019-03-14T11:41:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34299"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:36:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:36:04","slug":"um-dia-seras-tao-feliz-como-finges-que-es-agora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/um-dia-seras-tao-feliz-como-finges-que-es-agora\/","title":{"rendered":"Um dia, ser\u00e1s t\u00e3o feliz como finges que \u00e9s agora"},"content":{"rendered":"

For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve always been known as this rapariga dura<\/a> who can\u2019t be easily hurt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

As a girl who is going through life carrying a wide smile on her face, a girl who will do everything possible to make someone else\u2019s day better and a girl who makes everyone laugh.
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Mesmo quando nos acontecem coisas m\u00e1s, conseguimos sempre ter for\u00e7a para as ultrapassar da forma mais f\u00e1cil poss\u00edvel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Somehow, you always manage to jump over every obstacle and not to let life\u2019s negativity affect your inner state.
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Pelo menos, \u00e9 o que se pensa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, o que ningu\u00e9m sabe \u00e9 que tudo isto n\u00e3o passa de uma m\u00e1scara. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ningu\u00e9m sabe nada sobre as tuas lutas e sobre tudo o que tiveste de passar na vida. <\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tudo o que v\u00eaem \u00e9 o rosto de uma rapariga feliz, sem preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es, sem nunca se darem ao trabalho de investigar o que se passa \u00e0 superf\u00edcie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tudo o que conseguem ver \u00e9 uma mulher durona sem se aperceberem de uma pequena rapariga vulner\u00e1vel escondida no seu interior.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ningu\u00e9m sabe que tens medo de mostrar as tuas verdadeiras cores ao mundo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Que tem medo de se despir emocionalmente em frente de algu\u00e9m que possa usar isso contra si.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Que tem pavor de expor as suas vulnerabilidades porque est\u00e1 convencido de que se vai aproveitar de si. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That you don\u2019t want to show your true emotions because you assume that everyone around you will start considering you weak as soon as you do so.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sim, todos v\u00eaem a forma como tem a sua vida organizada e v\u00eaem como consegue lidar com os diferentes problemas. <\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, nobody is there to witness your sleepless nights, your tears which you can\u2019t control and the moments when you feel like you\u2019ve reached your <\/strong>ponto de rutura<\/strong><\/a> and as if you can\u2019t take it anymore.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Those closest to you have no idea about all the pain you\u2019ve buried deep inside of you, which you keep hidden even from yourself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Todos v\u00eaem o seu exterior feliz sem nunca se esfor\u00e7arem por lidar com o seu interior infeliz.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bem, antes de mais, quero dizer-vos que devem orgulhar-se de v\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios e do vosso poder pessoal e lembrar que as almas mais fortes sofrem em sil\u00eancio. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pense em todas as tretas que passou sem ningu\u00e9m a segurar-lhe a m\u00e3o, a dizer-lhe que tudo iria correr bem.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, isso n\u00e3o significa, de forma alguma, que n\u00e3o tenha o direito de sentir o que sente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know that people got used to the happy version of you and you are probably freaked out about how they will accept the misery you\u2019ve been feeling.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Em segundo lugarPe\u00e7o-vos que tenham f\u00e9, tanto em Deus como em v\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t know whether you are going through a brutal break-up right now, if you have a family emergency or a work crisis\u2014the point is the same.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A dor que vos consome \u00e9 total. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The worst part is that you can\u2019t share this sadness with anyone.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al\u00e9m disso, est\u00e1 convencido de que mostrar as suas verdadeiras emo\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e9 um sinal de fraqueza. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, many people probably have it worse than you do but that doesn\u2019t mean you don\u2019t have the right to feel bad.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Est\u00e1 convencido de que tem de sair por a\u00ed com uma m\u00e1scara de felicidade no rosto, porque ningu\u00e9m poderia suportar a profundidade da sua tristeza. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Que os outros nunca aguentariam ver-te assim e nunca aceitariam o teu verdadeiro eu.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well let me tell you one thing\u2014maybe it\u2019s time for you to stop running away from pain because it will catch up with you sooner or later. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Est\u00e1 na altura de o olhares diretamente nos olhos e lhe dizeres que \u00e9s mais forte e que tens o que \u00e9 preciso para o derrotar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 tempo de come\u00e7ar a acreditar num amanh\u00e3 melhor e de ter f\u00e9 em si pr\u00f3prio.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You might not believe me but one day, you\u2019ll wake up and feel as if all of this weight has finally left you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll see that for the first time in ages, your smile is completely honest and that it comes from the bottom of your soul.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Antes que se aperceba, tudo se encaixar\u00e1 magicamente no seu lugar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

As coisas v\u00e3o encontrar uma maneira de se resolverem e todas as pe\u00e7as que faltam neste puzzle chamado vida v\u00e3o aparecer.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So please, don\u2019t ever give up on yourself or in your pursuit of happiness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t allow the a dor para o definir<\/a> ou para vos comer vivos.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Confie em mim, um dia destes, ser\u00e1 verdadeiramente feliz sem ter de o fingir. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And you know why? Because that is the least you deserve after everything you\u2019ve been through.<\/strong>
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