{"id":34303,"date":"2020-05-14T12:12:22","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T12:12:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34303"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:57:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:57:00","slug":"a-culpa-e-dele-por-te-ter-enganado-mas-a-culpa-e-tua-por-o-teres-deixado-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-culpa-e-dele-por-te-ter-enganado-mas-a-culpa-e-tua-por-o-teres-deixado-2\/","title":{"rendered":"A culpa \u00e9 dele por te ter levado, mas a culpa \u00e9 tua por o teres deixado"},"content":{"rendered":"

A verdade \u00e9 que este tipo tem estado a tratar-te como merda h\u00e1 muito tempo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Que ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 nem de longe o homem que tu mereces e que nunca te tratou como devia.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you come to think of it, from day one, you haven\u2019t known where you stand with this man. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9s a amiga dele com benef\u00edcios, n\u00e3o passas de um caso casual ou \u00e9s a namorada dele?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apesar de todos os vossos esfor\u00e7os para tornar as coisas oficiais e definir a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ele nunca quis rotul\u00e1-la. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He\u2019s never been fully committed to you and that has been eating you alive.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There is no doubt about one thing\u2014all of this is exclusively his fault. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You are not to blame for the fact that this asshole can\u2019t make up his mind and get his shit together.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, I assume you can\u2019t help but wonder why can\u2019t you be enough for this man. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

What is it you don\u2019t have and why can\u2019t he love you enough?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 o \u00fanico que tem estado a fazer algo de errado durante todo este tempo? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why can\u2019t this man have the decency to choose you?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014you shouldn\u2019t blame yourself for this asshole\u2019s actions and for his mistreatment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acredita em mim, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possas fazer para que ele mude de atitude ou para que se comprometa contigo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afinal de contas, \u00e9 preciso saber que nunca se pode fazer com que um homem nos ame<\/a> at\u00e9 que ele pr\u00f3prio decida faz\u00ea-lo.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, O que se deve culpar \u00e9 por o ter deixado brincar consigo durante todo este tempo.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

For allowing him to waste years of your life, for letting him treat you the way you don\u2019t deserve and for settling for someone who doesn\u2019t give a damn about you.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 a \u00fanica respons\u00e1vel por ter dado luz verde a este homem para continuar a mago\u00e1-la e a partir-lhe o cora\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The only one to blame for him still having a place in your heart, after everything he\u2019s done.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s be honest\u2014you are a smart girl and there doesn\u2019t exist the possibility that you don\u2019t see who this guy really is. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu sei que pensas que ele precisa de mais uma oportunidade e que um dia destes as coisas se v\u00e3o encaixar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know you want to believe in his empty promises and that you think you\u2019ll regret turning your back on him without giving it another shot now that you\u2019ve come so close to having him completely.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But let\u2019s face it\u2014deep down, you know very well that he will never change and that he\u2019ll never grow up into the man you need by your side. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You are pretty much aware that he\u2019ll keep leading you on as long as you let him do so.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, despite all of this, despite all the pain he\u2019s been causing you, you are the one who keeps giving him endless segundas oportunidades<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aquela que continua a perdoar-lhe e aquela que espera pacientemente para o aceitar de volta sempre que ele se afasta de si.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9s tu que continuas a justific\u00e1-lo e a arranjar desculpas para o seu comportamento de merda, que continuas a mentir a ti pr\u00f3pria que as coisas v\u00e3o acabar por melhorar e que continuas a fugir da verdade. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The one who keeps on hoping for this guy to make you happy even though deep down, you are very well aware that something like that won\u2019t happen in a million years.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aquela que aprofunda as suas pr\u00f3prias feridas e cicatrizes emocionais. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aquela que continua a agarrar-se a ele, sabendo que precisa de o deixar ir.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Detesto ser cruel, mas a verdade \u00e9 que este tipo continua a partir-te o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, mas tu \u00e9 que continuas a permitir que ele o fa\u00e7a. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sim, \u00e9 v\u00edtima dos seus actos, mas \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m v\u00edtima da sua pr\u00f3pria fraqueza para olhar a verdade nos olhos e aceit\u00e1-la finalmente. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A v\u00edtima da tua fraqueza para fazeres a diferen\u00e7a na tua vida e para te afastares de algu\u00e9m que nunca te poder\u00e1 dar o amor que mereces.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por isso, por favor, em vez de esperar que este homem ganhe ju\u00edzo, compreenda que \u00e9 voc\u00ea que precisa de se recompor. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Em vez de esperar que ele finalmente a escolha, <\/strong>escolher-se a si pr\u00f3prio em vez do seu quase amor<\/strong><\/a>. <\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead of waiting for him to appreciate everything you\u2019ve done for him, respect yourself enough to leave his sorry ass. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead of waiting for him to start valuing you, see your own worth and realize that you deserve more than someone who isn\u2019t sure about you. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Em vez de esperar que ele a ame de verdade, ame-se o suficiente para lhe dizer o seu \u00faltimo adeus.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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