However, for generations, men have been using the same clich\u00e9d break-up excuses and these are the most common ones.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
1. \u201cIt\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\nBe honest: how many times have you heard the infamous phrase, \u201cYou are too good for me,\u201d?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
How many times have you been dumped by the sentence \u201cIt\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me,\u201d?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Embora sejam frequentemente utilizadas por homens que querem evitar ferir os seus sentimentos, muitas vezes deixam-na com d\u00favidas sobre a verdade.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Is there something he didn\u2019t like about you but he doesn\u2019t want to tell you? Why is he really breaking up with you?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Quando o seu futuro ex-namorado usa esta frase, provavelmente est\u00e1 a tentar faz\u00ea-la sentir-se melhor e quer assumir ele pr\u00f3prio toda a responsabilidade pela separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
However, it will probably just make you feel worse\u2014it leaves you wondering what the thing is that bothers him so much that he can\u2019t even get himself to verbalize it?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
2. \u201cI have been hurt in the past\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\nQuando os homens ficam com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido uma vez, \u00e9 o fim do mundo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Of course something like this leaves consequences on your entire being but come on\u2014don\u2019t get yourself involved in a new relationship until you sort things out with your past.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
No entanto, \u00e9 exatamente isso que muitos homens fazem.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Andam por a\u00ed a carregar a sua bagagem emocional consigo em todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es que iniciam e acabam por magoar outra pessoa. because they\u2019ve been hurt<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\nClaro que, quando algu\u00e9m acaba connosco desta forma, ficamos furiosos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Why couldn\u2019t he have realized that he has some past related traumas before leading you on?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Why do you have to pay for someone else\u2019s mistakes?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Why can\u2019t you get a chance to prove your own worth without being judged based on some other girl\u2019s actions?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
3. \u201cI don\u2019t know what I want\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\nA s\u00e9rio? Mas ele sabia o que queria quando estava a fazer tudo o que estava ao seu alcance para entrar nas tuas cal\u00e7as.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
He knew what he wanted when he pretended to be someone he\u2019s not just to make you fall for him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
However, now that he\u2019s noticed that things are getting more and more serious, he has chickened out.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Of course, this is something he won\u2019t confess so he\u2019ll use this excuse and tell you that he can\u2019t make up his mind and that he doesn\u2019t want to string you along any further.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
4. \u201cI can\u2019t commit\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\nOK, let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014everybody CAN commit, they just DON\u2019T WANT TO DO SO.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
E o mesmo se aplica a todos os tipos que usaram essa frase contigo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
However, he doesn\u2019t have what it takes to tell you how things really are.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
He can\u2019t be honest by saying that he wants to spend a few more years banging everyone he gets the chance to and that he prefers the life of a bachelor to being monogamous.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
He can\u2019t tell you that he is an immature guy who chooses short-term lust over long-term love so he chooses to blame everything on his fobia de compromisso<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n5. \u201cI don\u2019t have time for a relationship right now\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\nRemember one thing\u2014whoever wants you in his life will make the time and a place for you in it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Tudo o resto s\u00e3o tretas e desculpas vazias.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
So when a man tells you he\u2019s too busy for a relationship right now, it is just a nice way of saying that you aren\u2019t important enough for him to make some rearrangements in his life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
A way of telling you that he doesn\u2019t want to make time for you right now.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
6. \u201cIt\u2019s the wrong timing\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\nQuantas vezes sa\u00edste com um homem que te disse que eras a pessoa certa na altura errada?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
That the two of you would have been perfect together if you\u2019d met a little sooner or a little later?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
If a guy tells you that you are the one he hopes to end up with but that he isn\u2019t ready to give you what you need at this moment\u2014run as fast as you can.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 mais do que uma forma de ele te manter como plano de reserva.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Quando os homens ficam com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido uma vez, \u00e9 o fim do mundo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Of course something like this leaves consequences on your entire being but come on\u2014don\u2019t get yourself involved in a new relationship until you sort things out with your past.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
No entanto, \u00e9 exatamente isso que muitos homens fazem.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Andam por a\u00ed a carregar a sua bagagem emocional consigo em todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es que iniciam e acabam por magoar outra pessoa. because they\u2019ve been hurt<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Claro que, quando algu\u00e9m acaba connosco desta forma, ficamos furiosos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Why couldn\u2019t he have realized that he has some past related traumas before leading you on?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Why do you have to pay for someone else\u2019s mistakes?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Why can\u2019t you get a chance to prove your own worth without being judged based on some other girl\u2019s actions?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n A s\u00e9rio? Mas ele sabia o que queria quando estava a fazer tudo o que estava ao seu alcance para entrar nas tuas cal\u00e7as.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n He knew what he wanted when he pretended to be someone he\u2019s not just to make you fall for him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n However, now that he\u2019s noticed that things are getting more and more serious, he has chickened out.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Of course, this is something he won\u2019t confess so he\u2019ll use this excuse and tell you that he can\u2019t make up his mind and that he doesn\u2019t want to string you along any further.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n OK, let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014everybody CAN commit, they just DON\u2019T WANT TO DO SO.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n E o mesmo se aplica a todos os tipos que usaram essa frase contigo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n However, he doesn\u2019t have what it takes to tell you how things really are.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n He can\u2019t be honest by saying that he wants to spend a few more years banging everyone he gets the chance to and that he prefers the life of a bachelor to being monogamous.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n He can\u2019t tell you that he is an immature guy who chooses short-term lust over long-term love so he chooses to blame everything on his fobia de compromisso<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Remember one thing\u2014whoever wants you in his life will make the time and a place for you in it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Tudo o resto s\u00e3o tretas e desculpas vazias.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n So when a man tells you he\u2019s too busy for a relationship right now, it is just a nice way of saying that you aren\u2019t important enough for him to make some rearrangements in his life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n A way of telling you that he doesn\u2019t want to make time for you right now.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Quantas vezes sa\u00edste com um homem que te disse que eras a pessoa certa na altura errada?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n That the two of you would have been perfect together if you\u2019d met a little sooner or a little later?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n If a guy tells you that you are the one he hopes to end up with but that he isn\u2019t ready to give you what you need at this moment\u2014run as fast as you can.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 mais do que uma forma de ele te manter como plano de reserva.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n3. \u201cI don\u2019t know what I want\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
4. \u201cI can\u2019t commit\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
5. \u201cI don\u2019t have time for a relationship right now\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
6. \u201cIt\u2019s the wrong timing\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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