{"id":34365,"date":"2020-03-15T10:44:18","date_gmt":"2020-03-15T10:44:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34365"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:07:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:07:52","slug":"35-micro-tacticas-que-os-narcisistas-utilizam-para-controlar-as-suas-vitimas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/35-micro-tacticas-que-os-narcisistas-utilizam-para-controlar-as-suas-vitimas\/","title":{"rendered":"35 Micro t\u00e1cticas que os narcisistas usam para controlar as suas v\u00edtimas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>1. O narcisista amea\u00e7a-o para o intimidar. Quer que deixe de pensar por si pr\u00f3prio e que o ou\u00e7a cegamente.<\/p>\n<p>2. They are capable of going at you for putting up with someone\u2019s ill-treatment, while at the same time, they disrespect you on a daily basis without thinking that it\u2019s their problem.<\/p>\n<p>It can never be their problem. It\u2019s always someone else\u2019s.<\/p>\n<p>3. Fazem elogios suspeitos, que na maior parte das vezes t\u00eam mais o objetivo de soar como um insulto do que como um elogio.<\/p>\n<p>4. They sabotage you because they can\u2019t handle your success. In their world, they are the best, the smartest, and the prettiest; everyone else is worthless.<\/p>\n<p>5. Criam uma imagem exterior perfeita de si pr\u00f3prios. Para um completo estranho, parecem impec\u00e1veis e bem-sucedidas.<\/p>\n<p>6. They will go to all lengths just to keep the image they\u2019ve built alive. If that means they have to crush someone to achieve it, they won\u2019t think twice about it.<\/p>\n<p>7. They will never initiate something. Kindly enough, they will let you tackle the problem and after you solve it, they\u2019ll convince you that you did a lousy job and they could have done it so much better.<\/p>\n<p>8. They don\u2019t even think of you as a person, as an independent individual. They consider you an extension of themselves.<\/p>\n<p>9. O medo \u00e9 a sua principal arma. Usando o medo, eles t\u00eam controlo total sobre ti.<\/p>\n<p>10. Whenever something is wrong, they blame you and tell you that you\u2019re too emotional to handle life.<\/p>\n<p>11. Vulnerability is not a plus; it\u2019s a weakness in the eyes of every narcissist because they are wired differently.<\/p>\n<p>12. A sua confian\u00e7a n\u00e3o \u00e9 falsa. Eles pensam verdadeiramente que s\u00e3o o melhor que se pode obter.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85487\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"homem s\u00e9rio a olhar \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>13. They will blow some past event out of proportion and convince you it happened just the way they told you, only you forgot it because you were \u2018too emotional.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>14. They set traps for you on purpose so they can appear as your \u2018savior\u2019 when you fall.<\/p>\n<p>15. They\u2019ll hurt you on purpose so that they can use their carefully thought-out plan to \u2018apologize\u2019 \u2013 in other words, to win you over.<\/p>\n<p>16. Nunca deixam passar a oportunidade de o humilhar publicamente.<\/p>\n<p>17. Amea\u00e7am partir ou levar as suas coisas.<\/p>\n<p>18. Humilham-no sempre que podem e ainda se perguntam porque \u00e9 que a sua confian\u00e7a \u00e9 t\u00e3o baixa.<\/p>\n<p>19. N\u00e3o conseguem controlar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es porque n\u00e3o est\u00e3o em contacto com elas.<\/p>\n<p>20. They are always threatening to walk out on you because they want you to beg them to stay. They need to hear you need them and you can\u2019t live without them.<\/p>\n<p>21. One way to ensure they have complete control over you is to make sure you think you\u2019re unlovable. They need you to think so little of yourself and that you thank God you have them in your life. Because according to your narcissist, you\u2019re lucky anyone loves you really.<\/p>\n<p>22. Eles <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-signs-you-are-being-verbally-abused-and-how-to-walk-away-from-it\/\">abusar verbalmente<\/a> you every time you don\u2019t do what they want you to do.<\/p>\n<p>23. Your entire relationship revolves around control. Narcissists need to have control. If they don\u2019t, they are ready to emotionally destroy you to the point you can\u2019t recognize yourself, just to get you to entertain their every whim.<\/p>\n<p>24. If at any point of your relationship you sober up and try to find a way out, if you stand up to them, they won\u2019t have it. Right after your rebellion, they will punish you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85490\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem zangado a apontar o dedo a uma mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>25. Apanham-nos na sua teia e tornam quase imposs\u00edvel soltarmo-nos.<\/p>\n<p>26. When it suits them, they show emotions and they give love, but when it doesn\u2019t, they take it away, which is heartbreaking for anyone who isn\u2019t a sociopath.<\/p>\n<p>27. S\u00e3o respons\u00e1veis pelas finan\u00e7as.<\/p>\n<p>28. Est\u00e3o sempre a investigar nas suas costas porque precisam de saber tudo o que se passa \u00e0 sua volta.<\/p>\n<p>29. Every decision you make, they will second-guess. It\u2019s not because they don\u2019t trust you, it\u2019s because they want you to doubt yourself after a number of \u2018you\u2019re not capable of anything\u2019 remarks.<\/p>\n<p>30. Certificam-se de que sermos n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios \u00e9 inaceit\u00e1vel. Querem mudar quem somos e esmagar a nossa autoestima para que comecemos a acreditar que temos de mudar, porque quem somos realmente n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom.<\/p>\n<p>31. They constantly point out your flaws and they tell you right to your face that you need to change what they don\u2019t like.<\/p>\n<p>32. Every mistake you make will be used against you. It\u2019s like you\u2019re not allowed to make a mistake, while on the other hand, their mistakes don\u2019t count because they will never admit to making them.<\/p>\n<p>33. Se experimentar o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/a-obstrucao-e-um-metodo-de-tratamento-silencioso-perfeito-para-os-narcisistas\/\">tratamento silencioso<\/a>A partir do momento em que o seu filho \u00e9 um homem de neg\u00f3cios, ele far\u00e1 tudo para o provocar e para o fazer falar, de modo a poder dar a volta \u00e0 situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>34. Eles nunca o deixar\u00e3o em paz porque precisam desta rela\u00e7\u00e3o muito mais do que voc\u00ea.<\/p>\n<p>You are their narcissistic supply, something they can\u2019t live without.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, v\u00e3o sugar-se de si, ao mesmo tempo que o pressionam a ir-se embora e tentam mant\u00ea-lo por perto.<\/p>\n<p>35. Sadly, in the end, the good person ends up emotionally beaten while the bad guy moves on to the next victim, looking perfect in a stranger\u2019s eyes.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85484\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest-2.jpg\" alt=\"35 Micro t\u00e1cticas que os narcisistas usam para controlar as suas v\u00edtimas\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest-2.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest-2-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85483\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"35 Micro t\u00e1cticas que os narcisistas usam para controlar as suas v\u00edtimas\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. A narcissist threatens you to intimidate you. He wants you to stop thinking for yourself and to blindly listen to him. 2. They are capable of going at you for putting up with someone\u2019s ill-treatment, while at the same time, they disrespect you on a daily basis without thinking that it\u2019s their problem. 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