{"id":34377,"date":"2019-03-15T11:33:15","date_gmt":"2019-03-15T11:33:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34377"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:32:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:32:41","slug":"8-perguntas-que-deve-fazer-a-si-proprio-se-esta-sempre-a-perder-o-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-perguntas-que-deve-fazer-a-si-proprio-se-esta-sempre-a-perder-o-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"8 perguntas que deves fazer a ti pr\u00f3prio se est\u00e1s sempre a perder o amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando amamos, dedicamo-nos sempre \u00e0 pessoa amada e nunca a tra\u00edmos nem fazemos nada que a entriste\u00e7a. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But there\u2019s this one problem that keeps popping up every time you find yourself in a relationship. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mant\u00e9m apaixonar-se<\/a> sem saber porqu\u00ea ou como.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You rewind your every single word or action to understand why this phenomenon keeps repeating over and over again but you can\u2019t find any valid reason for it. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And as a result, you become so tired of it, swearing that you\u2019ll stay forever single.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re wondering why this keeps happening, the only true reason is that you\u2019re probably giving too much of yourself in every relationship you enter, which makes you lose yourself and fall out of love soon. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you give too much without receiving the same, you lose a sense of yourself and you\u2019re no longer the same person.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

By going out of your way to meet other people\u2019s expectations and desires, you are destroying yourself and your chance to be happy and that is why you fall out of love every time this happens.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se suspeita que este pode ser o seu caso, ent\u00e3o deve colocar a si pr\u00f3prio as seguintes 8 quest\u00f5es para compreender o cerne deste problema!
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Encontra-se frequentemente em rela\u00e7\u00f5es em que as suas necessidades n\u00e3o s\u00e3o correspondidas?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Reciprocity is the most important and crucial thing when it comes to establishing a healthy relationship and if your relationship lacks it, you\u2019ll soon find yourself falling out of love. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No matter how much you give, you will never be able to save your relationship because that\u2019s not how things work. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Reciprocidade significa dar e receber desinteressadamente e n\u00e3o apenas receber.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you keep finding yourself in relationships where you\u2019re always the one who gives more and receives less, the reason behind it could be that you lost your sense of self-worth because your previous partners have made you feel like you\u2019re not suficientemente bom<\/a> e que nunca o ser\u00e1s, fa\u00e7as o que fizeres.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Est\u00e1 sempre a atrair fobias de compromisso<\/a>?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re constantly attracting commitment-phobes, then there must be a valid reason for it. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O mais prov\u00e1vel \u00e9 que continue a apaixonar-se por eles porque, inconscientemente, quer persuadi-los a comprometerem-se consigo, o que, mais uma vez, tem origem nas suas experi\u00eancias passadas.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You see, when you don\u2019t receive the same amount of love you keep giving to others, you subconsciously start thinking that you should be giving even more just to experience amor verdadeiro<\/a>. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E os f\u00f3bicos de compromissos s\u00e3o os melhores candidatos para isso.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Tem grandes expectativas em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu novo parceiro?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Por vezes, o amor \u00e9 sempre desfeito devido \u00e0s grandes expectativas que se tem antes de entrar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you meet someone new, do you always have this image in your mind of how things should look when you\u2019re together and what your future partner is supposed to do or not do?
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If yes, you\u2019re probably doing so because you\u2019re afraid that things will go in the wrong direction and you want everything to be perfect (which is totally understandable). <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But by doing so you\u2019re also creating the possibility of potential future disappointments, which will result in you falling out of love.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Esfor\u00e7a-se sempre por mudar o seu parceiro?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Embora seja completamente normal n\u00e3o gostar de todas as coisas ou defeitos do seu novo parceiro, n\u00e3o \u00e9 normal estar sempre a tentar mud\u00e1-lo drasticamente. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The reason why this occurs might be also related to your past experiences where you weren\u2019t treated right and with care and now you\u2019re trying to prevent yourself from reliving the same thing again. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Infelizmente, nunca se consegue realmente mud\u00e1-los e, a pouco e pouco, acabamos por nos apaixonar.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Tem sempre a tend\u00eancia para salvar o seu parceiro de si pr\u00f3prio, mesmo sabendo que a sua toxicidade lhe vai custar muito?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

D\u00e1 por si a preocupar-se mais com eles do que consigo pr\u00f3prio?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

D\u00e1 por si a comprometer a sua pr\u00f3pria felicidade em prol da felicidade deles?
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se sim, significa que tem constantemente a tend\u00eancia para os salvar, mesmo sabendo que a sua toxicidade acabar\u00e1 por o destruir. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mas o verdadeiro amor n\u00e3o consiste em salvarmo-nos um ao outro. Trata-se de estar pronto para retribuir e lutar com for\u00e7a m\u00fatua pelo que se tem.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. \u00c9 sempre o \u00fanico que se sacrifica e se esfor\u00e7a para salvar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You might keep falling out of love because you can\u2019t help making enormous efforts for the sake of saving your relationship. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You keep making excuses for your partner\u2019s unwillingness to do the same because you always do things on your own. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You don\u2019t wait for things to magically start functioning and this often costs you a lot.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Continuas a apaixonar-te por aqueles que te fazem dan\u00e7ar ao som da sua m\u00fasica?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Apaixonar-se por aqueles que nos fazem dan\u00e7ar ao seu som est\u00e1 profundamente enraizado no desejo de apaziguar. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You feel good while you\u2019re giving and you forget about your own happiness. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Esquece-se que o amor deve ser rec\u00edproco e n\u00e3o para agradar a algu\u00e9m. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E quando nos apercebemos de que, durante todo este tempo, temos estado a dar cegamente e a receber pouco em troca, apaixonamo-nos instantaneamente.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Do you feel like you\u2019re losing yourself while trying to meet their every need?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you\u2019ve been in a relationship for some time, you often start feeling like you no longer know who you are. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You feel like you\u2019re no longer in touch with your true self and your own desires. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And all of this happens because you\u2019re selflessly trying to meet your partner\u2019s every need without expecting them to do the same.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You fall out of love because you\u2019re afraid of apaixonar-se<\/a> de certa forma. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Damos sempre cem por cento de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios para que as coisas funcionem e, nesse processo, perdemos a no\u00e7\u00e3o de quem somos. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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