{"id":34457,"date":"2019-03-18T09:27:59","date_gmt":"2019-03-18T09:27:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34457"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:30:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:30:48","slug":"5-razoes-pelas-quais-saltar-de-um-ex-para-um-proximo-e-uma-ma-ideia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-razoes-pelas-quais-saltar-de-um-ex-para-um-proximo-e-uma-ma-ideia\/","title":{"rendered":"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais saltar de um ex para outro \u00e9 uma m\u00e1 ideia"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quantas vezes j\u00e1 ouviu dizer que a melhor e mais f\u00e1cil maneira de ultrapassar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o falhada \u00e9 ir voltar \u00e0 piscina dos encontros<\/a> o mais rapidamente poss\u00edvel? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Que encontrar algu\u00e9m novo para ocupar a sua mente e o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a forma mais r\u00e1pida de ultrapassar um ex?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, apesar desta opini\u00e3o popular, na maioria dos casos, saltar de um ex para um pr\u00f3ximo revelou-se contraproducente, e aqui est\u00e3o 5 raz\u00f5es para isso.
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1. A cura \u00e9 um processo<\/strong>
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Antes de mais, \u00e9 preciso compreender que \u00e9 preciso tempo para esquecer verdadeiramente uma pessoa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you stopped loving your ex\u2014he is still the guy who\u2019s been a part of your life for a while, and if nothing more, you got used to him, so you need time to accept his absence.
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\u00c9 claro que existe a possibilidade de estar convencida de que esse homem desapareceu completamente do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, just because you are convinced you are over him, doesn\u2019t make it true.
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Na verdade, o facto de se sentir assim provavelmente n\u00e3o \u00e9 mais do que um sinal de que est\u00e1 a mentir a si pr\u00f3prio, fingindo que est\u00e1 bem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In this case scenario, all the negative emotions you keep pushing down will catch up with you sooner or later when you think you\u2019ve forgotten about them completely.
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Por isso, em vez de reprimir as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e esperar que elas desapare\u00e7am por magia, permita-se curar de forma saud\u00e1vel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead of pushing yourself too hard, accept that moving on doesn\u2019t happen overnight, and that this is a process which takes time and patience.
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2. Your pain won\u2019t go away<\/strong>
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Se pensa que todas as n\u00f3doas negras do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o assustado v\u00e3o desaparecer assim que conhecer um novo rapaz, pense melhor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you expect your next boyfriend to appear in your life with a magic wand which will resolve all of your problems and make all of your worries go away, one thing is clear\u2014you are definitely n\u00e3o est\u00e1 preparado para uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.
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Quando se est\u00e1 a sofrer e se tem saudades do ex, esperar que outro homem a ajude a ultrapass\u00e1-lo e a preencher o vazio deixado pelo ex \u00e9 uma das coisas mais t\u00f3xicas que se pode fazer a si pr\u00f3pria. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I hate to break your bubble but this new man won\u2019t ease your pain. Instead, he will only intensify it.
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3. A sua bagagem emocional ter\u00e1 impacto na sua nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong>
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N\u00e3o se pode esperar ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel se ainda se carrega um peso pesado do passado. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nunca se pode mostrar a algu\u00e9m novo o nosso verdadeiro potencial enquanto houver uma bagagem emocional a pesar sobre n\u00f3s.
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Eu sei que pensa que est\u00e1 pronta para uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o assim que deixa de amar o seu ex, mas acredite que \u00e9 preciso muito mais para o deixar ir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You are not ready to commit to someone new until you become certain that you\u2019ve gotten rid of all the fears, trust, and abandonment issues from your past relationship because these are all the things that have a huge impact on your future, even when you are not aware of it.
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4. Vais magoar o teu novo namorado<\/strong>
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Let\u2019s face it\u2014nobody enjoys being a rebound, and your new boyfriend is no exception. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Seria absolutamente injusto aproveitar-se de algu\u00e9m apenas para o ajudar a ultrapassar o seu ex, e este \u00e9 um crime que nunca deve sequer pensar em cometer. \u00a0
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If you think that this new guy won\u2019t sense that you are still holding on to the past, you can\u2019t be more wrong. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trust me\u2014men also have intuition, and he will definitely realize that you are not completely dedicated to this relationship.
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Al\u00e9m disso, a \u00faltima coisa que queres fazer \u00e9 magoar um tipo simp\u00e1tico s\u00f3 porque o teu ex te magoou. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ve been through a separa\u00e7\u00e3o brutal<\/a>, and you don\u2019t want to be the same as the guy who broke your heart, do you?
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5. Ser solteiro \u00e9 o m\u00e1ximo<\/strong>
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Another reason why jumping from one relationship to another is never a good idea is the fact that this way, you don\u2019t get chance to enjoy your single life, which can be amazing if you play it right. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando terminamos uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, precisamos de algum tempo a s\u00f3s, especialmente se for uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura.
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You need some time to get your act together, to figure out what is it that you want and don\u2019t want from life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Precisas (e mereces) algum tempo para concentrar toda a tua energia em ti, e isso s\u00f3 \u00e9 poss\u00edvel quando \u00e9s solteiro.
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