{"id":34582,"date":"2020-03-20T12:52:50","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T12:52:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34582"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:13:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:13:18","slug":"namorar-mulheres-mais-velhas-12-coisas-que-elas-realmente-querem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/namorar-mulheres-mais-velhas-12-coisas-que-elas-realmente-querem\/","title":{"rendered":"Namorar mulheres mais velhas: 12 coisas que elas realmente querem"},"content":{"rendered":"

Namorar quando se tem vinte anos e quando se tem quarenta s\u00e3o dois mundos diferentes.mLembra-se do caos que dominava a sua cabe\u00e7a quando era um jovem adulto?<\/p>\n

Lembra-se das coisas triviais que na altura pareciam ser problemas insuport\u00e1veis? Bem, a experi\u00eancia de namorar mulheres mais velhas \u00e9 diferente em todos os aspectos poss\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

I bet you\u2019d give anything to go back to having problems you thought were the biggest you\u2019ll ever face.<\/p>\n

Agora, quando olhamos para essas coisas de uma perspetiva diferente e com muito mais experi\u00eancia, a vers\u00e3o mais jovem de n\u00f3s parece t\u00e3o tentadora.<\/p>\n

Os encontros mudaram de um modo geral. Conhecer novas pessoas est\u00e1 mais dispon\u00edvel do que nunca. Basta olhar para o Tinder ou qualquer outra aplica\u00e7\u00e3o semelhante.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t like that when you were young. In your past, you didn\u2019t have a whole organization revolving around connecting people.<\/p>\n

If you met someone, you met them by accident and if you liked them, you went out on a date. That\u2019s how things worked.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, o que quero dizer \u00e9 que os encontros mudaram como um todo, mas os encontros tamb\u00e9m mudaram para si.<\/p>\n

Your priorities back then and now are in no way similar. And believe me, this is a good thing because\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2022 there\u2019s no more relationship drama;<\/p>\n

\u2022 the chances of a committed relationship are higher;<\/p>\n

\u2022 You\u2019re able to recognize a douche miles away.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

O \"tu\" de 40 anos e o \"tu\" de 20 s\u00e3o p\u00f3los opostos.<\/p>\n

Now, you are so much more aware of who you are and what you want \u2013 or better said, you know what you don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n

Talvez tenham sido necess\u00e1rios muitos erros e muito tempo para chegar a este ponto, mas conseguiu.<\/p>\n

There is no more relationship drama and it\u2019s much easier to recognize if you\u2019re facing a potentially serious relationship with a normal and earnest man.<\/p>\n

A ideia errada com que as mulheres se confrontam quando entram na casa dos quarenta \u00e9 que n\u00e3o t\u00eam o direito de escolher como podiam antes.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s a joke. You have every right to be picky and choose carefully with whom you\u2019re going to date.<\/p>\n

Penso que tem mais direito de o fazer agora do que quando era mais jovem.<\/p>\n

After so many years\u2019 experience, you deserve to get what you want.<\/p>\n

As mulheres mais velhas que s\u00e3o um sucesso nos encontros sabem exatamente o que querem. <\/strong><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re interested in finding out what that is, here are the personality traits that older women really look for in a man:<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

1. Um homem maduro<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

Uma mulher mais velha n\u00e3o est\u00e1 interessada em rapazes emocionalmente imaturos.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, ningu\u00e9m o \u00e9, especialmente uma mulher mais velha que est\u00e1 em ligeira vantagem quando se trata de reconhecer um homem emocionalmente imaturo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ela quer um homem am\u00e1vel, gentil e carinhoso. Algu\u00e9m que seja genu\u00edno e honesto n\u00e3o s\u00f3 para com ela, mas tamb\u00e9m para consigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

She wants a man who is emotionally independent because she doesn\u2019t need a child to take care of, but a man who will take care of her.<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t play mind games because she\u2019s passed that a long time ago.<\/p>\n

Men who can\u2019t handle their own problems don\u2019t even have to bother trying to date her because if you can\u2019t deal with your own issues, how are you supposed to be someone\u2019s support?<\/p>\n

2. Um homem com sentido de humor<\/h2>\n
\"casal<\/figure>\n

Por vezes, a vida pode tornar-se dif\u00edcil. As situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que nos encontramos podem tornar-se mais do que conseguimos aguentar e, precisamente nesses momentos, precisamos de nos libertar.<\/p>\n

In those situations, you need something to distract you and keep your mind off your problems \u2013 you need a laugh.<\/p>\n

Um homem com um bom sentido de humor far\u00e1 isso por si. Ele vai provocar um sorriso no seu rosto e vai anim\u00e1-la quando mais precisar.<\/p>\n

Also, a good sense of humor is a sign of intelligence. If he\u2019s funny, you can be sure he is more than just pretty to look at.<\/p>\n

3. Um homem independente<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

By independent, I mean give a woman some space to breathe. An older woman doesn\u2019t have the need to be by her man\u2019s side all the time.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s not insecure or afraid of being cheated on the moment her man leaves her sight.<\/p>\n

Procuram de bom grado algum espa\u00e7o e tempo para si pr\u00f3prios, para se afastarem do seu parceiro.<\/p>\n

Precisam de ter os seus passatempos, tempo a s\u00f3s e tempo de qualidade com os amigos.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re used to dating younger women who have the need to spend all their free time with you, get that idea out of your head because it\u2019s not how it\u2019s going to work with dating an older woman.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t want a clingy man who denies her right to autonomy.<\/p>\n

4. Um homem rom\u00e2ntico<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

Insecurity doesn\u2019t fade with years. It can be easier to control and it can appear less often, but it\u2019s always present. Where am I going with this?<\/p>\n

If a woman is a bit older than the average girls you\u2019ve dated, it doesn\u2019t mean she doesn\u2019t need romance in her life.<\/p>\n

She is a woman after all and a compliment or two every now and then wouldn\u2019t hurt. It would give her the confidence boost every woman needs.<\/p>\n

Numa nota mais importante, o romance \u00e9 o que torna os encontros divertidos. Como \u00e9 que seria sem ele?<\/p>\n

5. Um homem que n\u00e3o tem medo de telefonar<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

Texting is for insecure boys. When you don\u2019t have the guts to say something you want, you\u2019ll text it; it\u2019s so much easier.<\/p>\n

If she asks you something you don\u2019t have to answer right away, you can come up with the texto perfeito<\/a>ou a resposta que pensa que ela quer ouvir.<\/p>\n

You see, older women know this and if you text her rather than call her, she\u2019ll know that you are not serious about your relationship.<\/p>\n

Por isso, pegue no telefone como um homem, porque as mensagens de texto s\u00e3o para os rapazes.<\/p>\n

If you have something to say, be a man and call her or tell it to her face. Don\u2019t hide behind texts.<\/p>\n

6. A man who doesn\u2019t care about the past<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

She wants a man who doesn\u2019t care what happened before him.<\/p>\n

An older woman has a life behind her and it may be an unpleasant one \u2013 a life she\u2019s trying to let go of.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s probably been divorced or she has been in a toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

Whatever her past looked like, she has moved on from it and she doesn\u2019t need reminders and your questions about \u201cwhat happened.\u201d<\/p>\n

Se ela quiser que saibas, partilhar\u00e1 contigo.<\/p>\n

Neste momento, ela est\u00e1 \u00e0 procura de um novo come\u00e7o. Um novo come\u00e7o consigo.<\/p>\n

7. Um homem que presta aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

In a perfect world, this should be the customary behavior of a normal guy with a woman of any age, but it\u2019s especially important when dating an older woman.<\/p>\n

Ou\u00e7a as suas necessidades e desejos. Preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o quando ela fala, porque ela est\u00e1 a dizer muito mais do que aquilo que ouve \u00e0 primeira vista.<\/p>\n

Nunca a tome por garantida se quiser que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o tenha um final feliz.<\/p>\n

Preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o aos pormenores, que s\u00e3o definitivamente a chave para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida.<\/p>\n

8. Um homem que n\u00e3o se preocupa apenas com a apar\u00eancia<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

An older woman doesn\u2019t need superficial emotions. She wants to date a man who loves her for her personality.<\/p>\n

After all, if a man doesn\u2019t like his partner\u2019s personality traits, physical beauty will eventually fade.<\/p>\n

Se uma pessoa \u00e9 bem-humorada, am\u00e1vel e carinhosa, o seu exterior torna-se mais apelativo para algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why love at first sight usually fades. Beauty doesn\u2019t last forever.<\/p>\n

9. Um homem confiante<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

These women have seen everything there is to see. They\u2019ve encountered every possible type of a man there is.<\/p>\n

Nada os pode enganar, pois j\u00e1 viram tudo.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t try to hide anything from her and don\u2019t pretend to be someone you\u2019re not. She will see right through you from the first contact you make.<\/p>\n

Your approach alone and your first impression will give away who you really are. You can\u2019t make a fool out of her or play her in any way.<\/p>\n

If you want to ask her out, be confident and upfront. Believe in yourself, because if you don’t how do you expect her to believe in you?<\/p>\n

10. Um homem que quer melhorar a si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

As pessoas precisam de trabalhar sobre si pr\u00f3prias enquanto viverem. Estamos sempre a cometer erros e devemos sempre aprender com eles.<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma de melhorar e de se tornar melhor.<\/p>\n

The easiest thing you can do is to brush aside issues when things aren\u2019t peachy.<\/p>\n

You can turn off your phone and spend a few nights watching Netflix, but that won\u2019t keep you on top for long.<\/p>\n

Women don\u2019t want men like that by their side.<\/p>\n

As mulheres querem homens que trabalhem constantemente sobre si pr\u00f3prios, tentando encontrar a melhor solu\u00e7\u00e3o poss\u00edvel para cada situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que se encontrem.<\/p>\n

T\u00eam de se preocupar consigo pr\u00f3prios e com o seu sucesso. Precisam de se esfor\u00e7ar para se tornarem a melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

That way you\u2019re doing both yourself and the person you’re with a favor. By seeing you grow, they will wish to become more like you.<\/p>\n

11. Algu\u00e9m que seja o seu melhor amigo<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

O cerne de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria \u00e9 a amizade. Quando se trata de rela\u00e7\u00f5es duradouras, todas as mulheres mais velhas procuram tanto um amigo como um amante.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get this wrong and assume you can\u2019t have fun with an older woman.<\/p>\n

Ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 alheia a encontros de uma noite e a encontros ocasionais.<\/p>\n

Only, those things are not what she really wants \u2013 unless when it comes to blowing off some steam, anything goes.<\/p>\n

12. Um homem que tem a sua vida organizada<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

Okay, he can be a bit off course. After all, no one\u2019s perfect. But for the most part, he has it all sorted out and planned.<\/p>\n

As mulheres mais velhas, quando namoram, esperam que tenha algum tipo de plano para o futuro.<\/p>\n

They are not looking for a project to have fun with and they are definitely not planning to spend the best years of their lives on someone who hasn\u2019t grown up yet.<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

\"Namorar<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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