Portanto, se you\u2019ve been single for a whil<\/a>e, you\u2019re probably very well familiar with all the benefits of such a lifestyle.<\/strong><\/p>\n You can go on a journey wherever you want and whenever you want, you don\u2019t have to worry about \u2018Seen\u2019 messages or unanswered calls, you don\u2019t have to be perfectly hairless (shaved) all the time, you don\u2019t have to worry if someone will see the bags under your eyes when you wake up in the morning and you don\u2019t have to worry about them a trair-te.<\/a><\/p>\n You are a free, independent human being and you choose what you\u2019re going to do, when and how!<\/p>\n Mas<\/strong> apesar de todas as vantagens acima referidas serem bastante apelativas, h\u00e1 alturas em que desejamos mais.<\/strong><\/p>\n There are times when you really want to have someone special in your life with whom you\u2019ll share all of your secrets, who will hug you tight and hold you in their arms forever, who will forget to call you back after you call them and who will get on your nerves so much that you would want to kill them but you can\u2019t because you love them too much.<\/p>\n \u00c9 ent\u00e3o que se sente realmente motivada para recome\u00e7ar a namorar, renova o seu guarda-roupa, compra o r\u00edmel mais recente, actualiza o seu perfil nas aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros, decide sair mais e, nesse processo, conhece alguns potenciais candidatos e d\u00e1-lhes a oportunidade de se apresentarem.<\/p>\n But somehow, every date ends up in disaster. Half of the time you fight to find a common language, you can\u2019t relax and even the people around you notice a lack of connection between the two of you.<\/p>\n Cansa-se e n\u00e3o v\u00ea qualquer interesse em continuar a namorar. E \u00e9 nessa altura que diz a si pr\u00f3prio: \u2018I will never <\/strong>apaixonar-se<\/strong><\/a> no matter what I do and I will never experience true love. I\u2019m going to be single forever!\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n Independentemente do que os outros pensem sobre o assunto, a verdade \u00e9 que tem todo o direito de se sentir assim.<\/p>\n It\u2019s really frustrating to constantly make efforts for the wrong people or for those who you\u2019re simply not compatible with.<\/p>\n Now, I know that it sounds unreal but, believe me, not all hope is lost! First of all, know that there is nothing wrong with being solo and you\u2019re definitely not going to be like this forever.<\/p>\n Someday in the near future, you will find your true love (I can promise you that)! Until then, here are some helpful things to remind you of whenever you feel like you\u2019ll be single forever!<\/p>\n A primeira coisa que precisa de compreender \u00e9 que \u00e9 perfeitamente normal sentir-se s\u00f3.<\/p>\n Mesmo as pessoas que t\u00eam uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o se sentem sozinhas (embora por raz\u00f5es diferentes).<\/p>\n The point is, no matter the circumstances, there will always be times when you\u2019ll feel lonely because it\u2019s a part of our human nature.<\/p>\n E sempre que se sentir s\u00f3 ou desejar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica, saiba que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 problema nenhum em sentir-se assim.<\/p>\n It may sound absurd but it\u2019s better to feel lonely because you are single than to feel lonely in a relationship.<\/p>\n Always look on the bright side and you\u2019ll see how everything makes perfect sense (though I know that sometimes we\u2019re just unable to see it that way).<\/p>\n Por isso, sempre que se sentir s\u00f3, respire fundo e diga a si pr\u00f3prio que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 problema em sentir-se assim e que isso vai passar.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t think there\u2019s any need to tell you that your potential partner will not just appear at your door, so always keep this in mind!<\/p>\n Lembre-se de que, se quiser fazer algo acontecer, tem de tomar certas medidas.<\/p>\n Se quiser conhecer algu\u00e9m novo, tem de estar preparado para sair mais, tem de ir sempre a s\u00edtios novos, talvez ir ao gin\u00e1sio de vez em quando, encontrar novos passatempos, considerar a possibilidade de se entregar a aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros e similares.<\/p>\n Seja qual for a a\u00e7\u00e3o que escolher, ela ser\u00e1 certamente ben\u00e9fica para si!<\/p>\n O pior que se pode fazer \u00e9 continuar a ser uma batata de sof\u00e1 e continuar a dizer que nada vai mudar.<\/p>\n Lembre-se que tudo est\u00e1 na sua mente. A mudan\u00e7a acontecer\u00e1 quando estiveres pronto para trabalhar para ela!<\/p>\n Nunca confunda amor verdadeiro com perfei\u00e7\u00e3o. Nunca procure a pessoa perfeita, porque talvez aquele rapaz ou rapariga que rejeitou no passado sem sequer lhe dar uma oportunidade fosse a sua potencial alma g\u00e9mea.<\/p>\n Relaxe e tenha em mente que a sua futura alma g\u00e9mea ser\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 longe da perfei\u00e7\u00e3o, como todos n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n Mas quando se apaixonar por eles, eles tornar-se-\u00e3o perfeitos para si.<\/p>\n All of their flaws and quirks will be invisible to your eye or you simply won\u2019t mind them because that\u2019s what makes them who they are.<\/p>\n Always be open to give a chance to everyone, even if they don\u2019t fit your definition of a real man at that moment because that\u2019s the only way to meet the one.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t meet the perfect person, they become one when you get to know them better.<\/p>\n Eu sei que apaixonar-se <\/a>parece t\u00e3o simples e de facto \u00e9, mas h\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m algumas coisas que exigem que se trabalhe nelas.<\/p>\n Quando se trata do mundo dos encontros, \u00e9 da maior import\u00e2ncia trabalhar o seu \"eu\" interior.<\/p>\n Ask yourself what types of people you are attracted to and why that is so, ask yourself if you are treating every potential date equally and whether you have difficulties trusting others or you\u2019re afraid of intimacy.<\/p>\n Basta ser honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio, aceitar as coisas como elas s\u00e3o e come\u00e7ar a trabalhar nelas.<\/p>\n But don\u2019t get me wrong. I\u2019m not saying that ser solteiro<\/a> deve significar que h\u00e1 algo de errado consigo.<\/p>\n On the contrary, most of you are single by choice but these are some essential questions that will boost your \u2018performance\u2019 when it comes to the dating world.<\/p>\n If you already were in a relationship and things didn\u2019t go really great, chances are that your past might be preventing you from enjoying the present.<\/p>\n Se a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o foi um verdadeiro desastre, \u00e9 perfeitamente normal que tenha avers\u00e3o a entrar numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Your mind might be telling you that it\u2019s time to move on but your heart is simply afraid to meet new people and I understand that completely but letting go of the past is one of the number one things you need to do if you want to refrescar a sua vida amorosa<\/a> e come\u00e7ar do zero.<\/p>\n If your previous relationships hurt you, don\u2019t think that this will happen again because the chance of such a thing is not that high.<\/p>\n Afinal de contas, as vossas dificuldades tornaram-vos dez vezes mais s\u00e1bios, pelo que n\u00e3o deixar\u00e3o que a mesma coisa volte a acontecer!<\/p>\n I will try to help you as much as I can but now I will ask you to promise me one thing and that is that you\u2019ll never forget that you deserve to be loved.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t ever think that you\u2019re not worthy of love just because someone in your past has made you feel so.<\/p>\n Tu \u00e9s suficientemente bom.<\/a> Tu \u00e9s fant\u00e1stica. \u00c9s um verdadeiro milagre. E aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, nunca te esque\u00e7as disso.<\/p>\n When you meet someone new, don\u2019t think that you have to go out of your way to deserve their love or win their affection. No!<\/p>\n It\u2019s true that you have to make an effort too (just like them) but don\u2019t ever think that you are unworthy if you\u2019re not giving 200% of yourself.<\/p>\n Accept the fact that the dating world is a cruel place and there are high chances that you won\u2019t find your special one on the first few dates but if you keep being persistent, I can promise you that you will!<\/p>\n O mais importante \u00e9 ser honesto consigo mesmo e admitir que o mundo dos encontros \u00e9 uma porcaria e que passar uma noite no sof\u00e1 com os seus programas de televis\u00e3o favoritos \u00e9 muito mais agrad\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n But no matter how much you are attached to your couch, it doesn’t have the same emotional needs as you have.<\/p>\n Por isso, arregace as mangas e lembre-se de que n\u00e3o ser\u00e1 f\u00e1cil, mas voc\u00ea consegue!<\/p>\n After all, you can never find the good until you\u2019ve experienced the bad.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o importa quantas vezes repetiste na tua cabe\u00e7a que you\u2019ll stay single forever<\/a>, please, don\u2019t forget to love yourself.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t hate yourself for the fact that all of your friends are taken or perhaps married. The same thing waits for you, too!<\/p>\n The only difference is that they have experienced it earlier than you which doesn\u2019t mean that you will.<\/p>\n Ama-te a ti pr\u00f3prio<\/a>O seu corpo e a sua alma, e pense sempre de forma positiva porque atrai o que pensa.<\/p>\n Se continuas a pensar que you\u2019ll stay single<\/a> Para sempre, atrair\u00e1 coisas negativas e continuar\u00e1 a desiludir-se.<\/p>\n Ame-se o suficiente para acreditar que as coisas v\u00e3o mudar em breve e que vai gostar de passar tempo com a sua cara-metade mais cedo do que pensa.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Embora n\u00e3o seja bom ter padr\u00f5es demasiado elevados, tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o \u00e9 bom n\u00e3o os ter de todo.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o se apaixone por todos os que demonstram um pouco de respeito e apre\u00e7o por si.<\/p>\n Lembre-se de que \u00e9 normal que eles ajam assim se quiserem conquist\u00e1-la e mostrar-lhe o seu afeto.<\/p>\n Feel free to be picky sometimes (but remember, sometimes!) and don\u2019t let your heart fall in love with every stranger with beautiful eyes and even more beautiful words.<\/p>\n Encontre o equil\u00edbrio entre o seu desejo de amar e as suas expectativas.<\/p>\n Apaixone-se por algu\u00e9m que o inspire a tornar-se uma pessoa melhor e que lute por si, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, n\u00e3o porque tem de o fazer, mas porque quer!<\/p>\n Don\u2019t let your single label prevent you from indulging in trying new exciting things and spicing up your life from time to time.<\/p>\n Fa\u00e7a uma viagem, aprenda novos passatempos, descubra novas receitas culin\u00e1rias, procure novos lugares interessantes para visitar ou o que mais lhe convier.<\/p>\n Ocupar-se com coisas novas \u00e9 algo que o ajudar\u00e1 a manter-se em contacto consigo mesmo e a refrescar a sua vida, bem como os seus h\u00e1bitos.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re all into finding new ways of divertir-se<\/a>, parecer\u00e1 instantaneamente dez vezes mais atraente e as pessoas \u00e0 sua volta tamb\u00e9m se aperceber\u00e3o disso!<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, lembre-se de que h\u00e1 uma diferen\u00e7a entre querer algo e precisar de algo.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re going on dates just because you need other people\u2019s approval or attention, this will not last long.<\/p>\n Em primeiro lugar, \u00e9 preciso trabalhar em si pr\u00f3prio e perceber o que o faz sentir-se assim.<\/p>\n No momento em que come\u00e7ar a querer algo s\u00f3 por querer, aumentar\u00e1 as suas hip\u00f3teses de sucesso na sua vida amorosa e o seu potencial parceiro tamb\u00e9m o reconhecer\u00e1.<\/p>\n I know it sounds silly but people will be attracted to becoming a part of your life just because you don\u2019t need them but you want them.<\/p>\n Know what you bring to the table and be someone who doesn\u2019t NEED others to be happy.<\/p>\n Lembre-se de encontrar primeiro a sua pr\u00f3pria felicidade e depois partilhe-a com os outros!<\/p>\n Seja sempre razo\u00e1vel no que diz respeito \u00e0s suas expectativas.<\/p>\n \u00c9 sempre melhor ter expectativas mais baixas do que imaginar que as coisas devem ser como as vemos e, quando nos apercebemos que n\u00e3o \u00e9 esse o caso, ficamos imediatamente desiludidos.<\/p>\n A regra de ouro quando se trata de encontros \u00e9 reduzir as suas expectativas.<\/p>\n When you don\u2019t have any assumptions or expectations about someone, you\u2019re much more stress-free and that way you are protecting yourself from future disappointments.<\/p>\n Just go with the flow and act accordingly and you\u2019ll see how much your love life will actually improve. Again, it\u2019s all in your head!<\/p>\n Don\u2019t let the dating world stress you out to the extent of giving up. ‘Love takes patience’ and never forget that.<\/p>\n O afeto inicial e a liga\u00e7\u00e3o que se pode partilhar com algu\u00e9m \u00e9 apenas o primeiro passo para o verdadeiro amor.<\/p>\n O verdadeiro amor requer tempo e paci\u00eancia.<\/p>\n Tem de estar preparado para investir todo o seu corpo e alma (e esperar o mesmo do seu parceiro) e, mesmo assim, haver\u00e1 alguns problemas menores com que ter\u00e1 de lidar.<\/p>\n So, don’t be discouraged when something unexpected happens because that is just a part of the big thing called ‘true love’ that waits for you impatiently.<\/p>\n![\"silhueta](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/silhouette-of-couple-dancing-outside.jpg\")
<\/p>\nIt\u2019s Perfectly Okay To Feel Lonely<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-woman-sitting-alone-in-the-back-outdoors-on-the-beach-of-a-tropical-island.jpg\")
<\/p>\nTomar medidas<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-drinking-water-and-sitting-at-gym.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEsque\u00e7a a perfei\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"morena](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/beautiful-brunette-staring-at-man-in-cafe.jpg\")
<\/p>\nTrabalhar o seu eu interior<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/relaxed-woman-taking-bath.jpg\")
<\/p>\nDeixar o passado para tr\u00e1s<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/figure>\nMereces ser amado<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEntrar na realidade<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nAma-te a ti pr\u00f3prio<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDon\u2019t Fall In Love With Everyone<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-hugs-woman-from-back.jpg\")
<\/figure>\nExperimentar coisas novas<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-cooking-in-the-kitchen.jpg\")
<\/p>\nDon\u2019t Be Needy<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-and-woman-eating-in-restaurant.jpg\")
<\/figure>\nDon\u2019t Expect Too Much<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nSer paciente<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n![\"casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-holding-hands-outside.jpg\")
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