{"id":34703,"date":"2019-03-25T08:14:11","date_gmt":"2019-03-25T08:14:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34703"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:27:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:27:45","slug":"sabes-o-meu-nome-nao-a-minha-historia-por-isso-pensa-antes-de-julgares","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sabes-o-meu-nome-nao-a-minha-historia-por-isso-pensa-antes-de-julgares\/","title":{"rendered":"Conheces o meu nome, mas n\u00e3o a minha hist\u00f3ria, por isso pensa antes de julgares"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sabes o meu nome, mas n\u00e3o a minha hist\u00f3ria. Ent\u00e3o porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 t\u00e3o r\u00e1pido a julgar?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The person that I am and how I choose to condone myself is the result of numerous circumstances and tough shit I\u2019ve been through in life, which I guess could be said for a lot of people out there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Many a time, I\u2019ve heard stories about people from those who weren\u2019t in the least bit personally involved with them and every single time it baffled the shit out of me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve heard judgment, hate and trash-talk about people that I knew first-hand weren\u2019t true.
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\"Conheces<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Fiquei sempre calado porque percebi que discordar de pessoas teimosas e julgadoras era um profundo desperd\u00edcio do meu f\u00f4lego.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sei que muitos de v\u00f3s podem simpatizar com esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How many of you have been talked about and judged based on the uneducated opinions of malicious people who have nothing better to do in life but stick their nose into other people\u2019s business?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

E quantas vezes j\u00e1 se sentiu profundamente magoado com esses coment\u00e1rios maldosos, sabendo que h\u00e1 pessoas que v\u00e3o formar uma opini\u00e3o errada sobre si com base nisso?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 uma treta, eu sei. Eu sou doente e cansado<\/a> de pessoas que s\u00f3 conhecem o meu nome, pensando que conhecem toda a hist\u00f3ria da minha vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Conheces<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

They don\u2019t and I\u2019ve finally found a way to make peace with that and not let it disturb me as much as it used to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quem eu sou como pessoa n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com o facto de as pessoas dizerem mal de mim. Lembrem-se sempre disso quando as merdas come\u00e7arem a afetar-vos. Isso ajuda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I have a big mouth. When something gets to me, I run my mouth off in so many directions that it\u2019s hard for me to stop myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I am extremely passionate about the people and things that I love and when I have something to say, I usually don\u2019t mince my words. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And guess what? I\u2019m fucking proud of that!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Podem pensar o que quiserem sobre o assunto, mas eu protejo ferozmente a minha sa\u00fade mental, os meus entes mais pr\u00f3ximos e queridos e aqueles que sinto que est\u00e3o a ser julgados injustamente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nunca vou pedir desculpa por ser assim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se <\/em>can\u2019t handle<\/em><\/a> me at my most passionate, you don\u2019t deserve me at my calmest.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00e3o sou o tipo de rapariga que se limita a sentar-se calmamente na sala de estar, \u00e0 espera que o seu homem chegue a casa do trabalho para lhe fazer o jantar e agradar-lhe de todas as formas poss\u00edveis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu adoro o meu homem<\/a>. E eu vou estar sempre aqui para ele. Mas, de vez em quando, tamb\u00e9m mere\u00e7o que cuidem de mim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tamb\u00e9m eu tenho dias maus. Tamb\u00e9m eu lido com merdas dif\u00edceis e tamb\u00e9m eu fico emocionado e frustrado.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ent\u00e3o, ser\u00e1 que \u00e9 demasiado pedir que cuidem de mim de vez em quando? Isso faz de mim uma mulher dif\u00edcil de amar?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Conheces<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

I really don\u2019t think it does. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And whoever feels that I\u2019m not entitled to my own shit and my own emotions doesn\u2019t have a place in my mind or especially in my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve dealt with pain. I\u2019ve experienced loss. I\u2019ve let myself get broken into so many pieces\u2026 but I\u2019ve also picked myself up every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve had days where I didn\u2019t want to live. I\u2019ve had days where waking up in the morning felt like the most pointless thing I could do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mas levantei-me sempre e aqui estou eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Still alive and still kicking life\u2019s ass.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So don\u2019t you dare begin to think you know my story, when all you know is my name!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ve been told about me but what do you really know? How deeply does that individual really know me? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pergunte isso a si pr\u00f3prio da pr\u00f3xima vez que ouvir uma hist\u00f3ria que parece demasiado rebuscada para ser verdade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu sou uma mulher forte<\/a>. Mais forte do que alguma vez pensei ser.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I may seem on the outside like I don\u2019t care much but those who know my story know that I care more than I should.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apenas tento escond\u00ea-lo do mundo para me proteger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Did you know that I\u2019ve had my heart broken more times than I am willing to admit?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Conheces<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Did you know that I\u2019ve been cheated on, lied to and manipulated by those who were supposed to be my rock?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I bet you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Porque n\u00e3o tenho qualquer interesse em gritar as minhas hist\u00f3rias pessoais ao mundo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

What is mine is mine and only those close to my heart get to know what\u2019s in it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acredito que s\u00e3o as minhas dificuldades e a forma como lido com elas que fazem de mim quem sou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s so easy letting shit get to you and bring you down. It\u2019s too easy letting bad people tear you apart piece by piece.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mas quando se aprende que nem toda a gente tem o mesmo cora\u00e7\u00e3o que n\u00f3s, torna-se mais f\u00e1cil ignorar esses coment\u00e1rios ofensivos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You just have to accept that people are always going to have something to say. There will always be those who think they\u2019re smarter than God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But karma is going to get them\u2026 I firmly believe in that. Everybody gets what they put out into the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E \u00e9 exatamente por isso que tento ser uma boa pessoa. Tento ser gentil, compassivo e cuidar daqueles que amo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vejo cada dia como uma nova oportunidade para fazer algo que valha a pena. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if I manage to put one smile on one person\u2019s face, I consider the day a success.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Conheces<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Sugiro o mesmo para si.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ser gentil, ser bom e fazer o bem aos outros. A vida \u00e9 mesmo assim t\u00e3o simples.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You know your story and don\u2019t let irrelevant people get you to doubt yourself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A sua maldade \u00e9 o reflexo da sua insatisfa\u00e7\u00e3o com a sua pr\u00f3pria vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuide de si, da sua fam\u00edlia e dos seus amigos e tenha sempre em mente que as coisas mais pequenas fazem a maior diferen\u00e7a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Isto ajudou-me a ultrapassar muita dor e frustra\u00e7\u00e3o e espero sinceramente que fa\u00e7a o mesmo por si.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My life, my story. And if you don\u2019t like it, tough! Because I really don\u2019t care anymore.<\/em>
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You know my name, not my story. So why are you so quick to judge? The person that I am and how I choose to condone myself is the result of numerous circumstances and tough shit I\u2019ve been through in life, which I guess could be said for a lot of people out there. Many…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":34713,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34703","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/cole-patrick-454572-unsplash.jpg",800,600,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34703","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34703"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34703\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/34713"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34703"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34703"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34703"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}