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<\/p>\r\n\r\nNunca se contente com menos do que merece!<\/p>\r\n
Have you ever stopped and really thought about why you\u2019re doing the complete opposite?<\/p>\r\n
Quer dizer, ningu\u00e9m o obriga a faz\u00ea-lo, ningu\u00e9m o pro\u00edbe de pedir o que merece. Ent\u00e3o, mais uma vez, porque \u00e9 que se est\u00e1 a acomodar?<\/p>\r\n
When you exclude emotions from reason, it\u2019s more than logical to abandon a relationship that is making you unhappy.<\/p>\r\n
It\u2019s perfectly normal to leave with no strings attached and find your happiness elsewhere. Sadly, nothing is that simple as long as emotions get the better of you.<\/p>\r\n
Even if you don\u2019t love the person you\u2019re unhappy with, you\u2019ve grown used to them and there is no way you could just leave without feeling something\u2026 anything.<\/p>\r\n
That\u2019s when emotions make a big deal and guilt you into staying unhappy. You feel sorry for the person; you feel sorry for the lost time and you keep hoping that something will gradually change.<\/p>\r\n
You don\u2019t want to just quit and let everything you\u2019ve worked hard for go to waste.<\/p>\r\n
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Normalmente, os culpados s\u00e3o os sentimentos, mas o mais comum \u00e9 que as pessoas que se contentam com menos s\u00e3o incrivelmente inseguras<\/strong> e fazem-no porque t\u00eam pouca ou nenhuma f\u00e9 em si pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\r\n We all have that seed of doubt, the mistrust in ourselves, planted deep inside us, but the way we\u2019re handling it is what counts.<\/p>\r\n Alguns mant\u00eam as suas inseguran\u00e7as sob controlo e outros deixam que as suas d\u00favidas os comam vivos. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n For as long as you don\u2019t put an end to it, you aren\u2019t going to be happy.<\/p>\r\n Change your attitude from \u201cI\u2019m not good enough to be with someone\u201d to \u201cI want someone who actually deserves me\u201d and your unhappiness is going to come to an end.<\/p>\r\n That part of your life will turn into nothing more than a huge mistake from which you\u2019ve learned the most important lesson.<\/p>\r\n The reason why you\u2019re settling can be this, or it can be because you\u2019re just medo de ser solteiro<\/strong>.<\/p>\r\n I understand it\u2019s scary, especially if you\u2019ve spent most of your life as part of a duo and now you have to go back to the game, but you\u2019re not sure if the rules have changed.<\/p>\r\n You\u2019re not sure if you\u2019re going to make it. Let me tell you something, every change is scary, but you can never know for sure that it\u2019s a bad thing.<\/p>\r\n E todos n\u00f3s somos assim. Todos assumimos, de imediato, que se as coisas est\u00e3o a mudar e a transformar-se em algo com que n\u00e3o estamos familiarizados, isso \u00e9 mau para n\u00f3s.<\/p>\r\n That is a load of crap! That is the fear talking out of you \u2013 the fear that is your biggest enemy.<\/p>\r\n Something that is pulling you down and pulling you back, something that isn\u2019t allowing you to grow.<\/p>\r\n Este medo de ser solteiro est\u00e1 intimamente relacionado com o medo do abandono<\/strong>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n We are \u2013 and I\u2019m using \u201cwe\u201d because I\u2019m talking about all of us, not just you \u2013 we are all putting an enormous amount of pressure on ourselves because of these abandonment issues.<\/p>\r\n Estamos a tentar salvar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o destru\u00edda, mesmo que isso signifique encontrar desculpas para um comportamento t\u00f3xico. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n To anyone else, leaving a loveless relationship seems the right road to take, but for you, it\u2019s a dark path full of obstacles and challenges.<\/p>\r\n It\u2019s the leap to the unknown; it\u2019s a huge risk you aren\u2019t willing to take just yet!<\/p>\r\n\r\n I bet you\u2019ve thought exactly the same as what I\u2019m I about to say: \u201cIt\u2019s better to be in a crappy relationship than spend the rest of your life alone!\u201d<\/p>\r\n This is when everything goes to hell. This one sentence craps all over your life. This one sentence defines you who you are and how you\u2019re going to deal with love.<\/p>\r\n Este tipo de atitude coloca-nos numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o da qual \u00e9 muito dif\u00edcil sair. I have a story to share with you\u2026 <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n Eu estava numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem amor. No in\u00edcio, era como qualquer outra rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n Est\u00e1vamos na nossa fase de lua de mel e \u00e9ramos t\u00e3o felizes. Parecia que nada nos poderia separar.<\/p>\r\n Sadly, as time passed by, I fell out of love. He wasn\u2019t that interesting anymore because he didn\u2019t try hard enough, which led me to believe he didn’t care.<\/p>\r\n![\"Mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Thoughtful-woman-looking-through-window.jpg\")
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