{"id":34813,"date":"2020-03-26T13:46:22","date_gmt":"2020-03-26T13:46:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34813"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:54:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:54:42","slug":"nao-vou-ficar-a-espera-que-estejas-pronta-para-uma-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-vou-ficar-a-espera-que-estejas-pronta-para-uma-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o vou ficar \u00e0 espera que estejas pronto para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 perdi demasiado tempo e demasiados sentimentos e desejos para permitir que isto continue por mais tempo.<\/p>\n

It was so easy to fall into this emotional limbo with you and now I am forever stuck somewhere between a friend and a lover and that\u2019s not where I want to be.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want things to be either or\u2014I want everything.<\/p>\n

I want to hear the words \u201cgirlfriend\u201d, \u201cus\u201d and \u201cIn the future, we will…\u201d come out of your mouth.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want this mess of on-again-off-again. This quente e frio<\/a>O facto de estarmos juntos e depois n\u00e3o estarmos juntos est\u00e1 a deixar-me louca.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to make excuses for why you haven’t texted or called. I don\u2019t want to be here only when it\u2019s convenient.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be your stop along the way, I want to be your destination.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t force you to do anything, I know that love can\u2019t be forced but I won\u2019t stay if you are not one hundred percent committed to me. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to play games, I think I am a bit too old for that.<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t communicate your feelings and tell me what it is that you want from me, you are not the man for me.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to guess your feelings from the way you say or text things. I don\u2019t want to read between the lines.<\/p>\n

Quero abertura e clareza, para variar.<\/p>\n

Yes, I want commitment but that doesn\u2019t mean I want you to marry me. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Isso significa que quero que nos d\u00eas uma oportunidade de ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Significa que quero tentar e ver onde isto nos leva.<\/p>\n

Significa que quero que me digas que somos exclusivos e que s\u00f3 tens olhos para mim.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t see a reason here for your unreadiness. I don\u2019t see that there is something to fear or run away from.<\/p>\n

I am tired of thinking of all the things that we could be but we\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Estou farto de desejar que as coisas sejam o que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o. <\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s time for you to decide whether you want us to be together or not. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t settle for bits and pieces of your love, I want all of it.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to beg for your time, I want you to show me that you want to spend time with me.<\/p>\n

Quero que corresponda aos meus esfor\u00e7os e investimentos, nada mais, nada menos.<\/p>\n

I am not going to wait around for you to be ready, I can\u2019t do that anymore. <\/strong><\/p>\n

If we can\u2019t be in a real relationship, we won\u2019t be in an almost one either. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Estou farto de me vender por baixo.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Estou farta de pensar que talvez n\u00e3o seja suficiente porque Eu sou mais do que suficiente<\/a> e eu sou, como qualquer outro ser humano, digno de amor.<\/p>\n

Eu mere\u00e7o mais. Mere\u00e7o ter tudo. Agora sei disso.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I am asking you to choose. That\u2019s why I am ready to say goodbye to everything that\u2019s holding me close to you.<\/p>\n

No final, quero que saibas que n\u00e3o me arrependo de nada quando se trata de mim e de ti. Estou feliz por ter acontecido.<\/p>\n

Estou grata por todas as belas recorda\u00e7\u00f5es e momentos felizes.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I just can\u2019t live for those moments anymore. I need the whole package. I need a real relationship; anything else is just not enough. <\/strong><\/p>\n

If you decide to let me go, that\u2019s OK too.<\/p>\n

It will hurt like hell, it will rip my heart into pieces but I\u2019ll be all right because what we have now is also causing me more pain than bliss.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t force you to be ready but I can stand alone. I\u2019ll be good on my own because if I am being honest with myself, I never really had you.<\/p>\n

Eu tinha a ideia de n\u00f3s, tinha a vis\u00e3o do que poder\u00edamos ser, tinha partes do teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o mas nunca foi inteiramente meu.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s all I want from you, your entire heart, and if I can\u2019t have that then I don\u2019t need anything from you.<\/p>\n

If I can\u2019t have that, I wish you all the luck in life but your life won\u2019t include me, not anymore.<\/p>\n

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I\u2019ve already wasted too much time and too many feelings and wishes to allow this to continue any longer. It was so easy to fall into this emotional limbo with you and now I am forever stuck somewhere between a friend and a lover and that\u2019s not where I want to be. I don\u2019t want…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":82087,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34813","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/I\u2019m-Not-Going-To-Wait-Around-For-You-To-Be-Ready-For-A-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34813","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34813"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34813\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82087"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34813"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34813"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34813"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}