{"id":34886,"date":"2020-06-28T08:44:16","date_gmt":"2020-06-28T08:44:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34886"},"modified":"2022-06-01T20:04:58","modified_gmt":"2022-06-01T20:04:58","slug":"sera-que-ainda-o-amo-5-sinais-claros-de-que-esta-na-altura-de-o-deixar-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sera-que-ainda-o-amo-5-sinais-claros-de-que-esta-na-altura-de-o-deixar-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Ser\u00e1 que ainda o amo? 5 sinais claros de que est\u00e1 na altura de o deixar ir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ser\u00e1 que ainda <\/em>am\u00e1-lo<\/em><\/a> ou estou apenas a ficar com ele por raz\u00f5es pr\u00e1ticas e de conveni\u00eancia?<\/em><\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 uma pergunta que j\u00e1 fiz a mim pr\u00f3prio v\u00e1rias vezes na vida e nem uma vez foi f\u00e1cil para mim encarar os factos.<\/p>\n

Breakups are just the worst, and I have to say, there have been times where I deluded myself into thinking it was a smart idea to stay in a doomed relationship just so I wouldn\u2019t have to go through all that inevitable heartbreak.<\/p>\n

I mean, who in this world wouldn\u2019t do everything in their power to try and salvage a relationship that you feel has potential to go the distance?<\/em><\/p>\n

Nothing is perfect, no relationship is without its glitches and faults, so why wouldn\u2019t you work on saving it instead of just <\/em>desist\u00eancia<\/em><\/a> ao primeiro sinal de problemas e decidir que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o o ama?<\/em><\/p>\n

Infelizmente para mim, o meu instinto estava sempre certo.<\/p>\n

De alguma forma, sempre me indicou que devia desistir, mas o meu rabo teimoso ignorou-o, esperando que estivesse errado.<\/p>\n

Se est\u00e1 a passar por este dilema imposs\u00edvel neste momento e se est\u00e1 constantemente a perguntar a si pr\u00f3prio, \"Ser\u00e1 que ainda o amo?<\/a> ou estou apenas a prolongar o inevit\u00e1vel?<\/em>\u201d just listen to what your gut feeling is telling you.<\/p>\n

O teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o vai sempre querer ficar e exercitar-se<\/a> os seus problemas.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, h\u00e1 tanto amor, hist\u00f3ria e bons momentos entre voc\u00eas os dois que seria uma parvo\u00edce deixar de lado o taco! Mas h\u00e1 alturas em que simplesmente sabemos. No fundo, tens a tua resposta.<\/p>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve just buried it so deep, hoping it wouldn\u2019t resurface and you could keep living your fantasy, avoiding the harsh reality that has come upon you.<\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m o pode censurar. Todos queremos o nosso \"felizes para sempre\" e far\u00edamos tudo o que fosse preciso para o encontrar e manter.<\/p>\n

But sometimes what you don\u2019t realize is that what you are actually doing is sacrificing your happiness and your joy.<\/p>\n

Ao manter-se numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que n\u00e3o se sente realizado, est\u00e1 a negar a si pr\u00f3prio o direito de ser verdadeiramente feliz.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t settle for mediocre love. Don\u2019t settle for broken communication and half the effort on his part.<\/em><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stay where you don\u2019t feel like your authentic self and where your spirit is crushed.  <\/em>Deves a ti pr\u00f3prio encontrar essa pessoa que te deixa todo contente por dentro e por fora.<\/em><\/p>\n

And if your current partner is not doing that, you\u2019re with the wrong person, and that\u2019s okay!<\/p>\n

You are still a good person if where you currently are isn\u2019t where you want to stay forever. You are the only one who knows what sparks joy in you.<\/p>\n

If your gut is telling you that you\u2019re not where you\u2019re meant to be, listen to it! It\u2019s almost always right.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re wondering whether you still love him or if you should finally deix\u00e1-lo \u00e0 solta<\/a>, here are 5 signs that point out it\u2019s time for you to move on to better things:<\/em><\/p>\n

As vossas discuss\u00f5es tornaram-se demasiado frequentes e intensas<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Todos os casais lutam.<\/a> Arguments are a normal occurrence in healthy long-term relationship because they are a way to get your partner to see things from your point of view and to get them to understand where you\u2019re coming from.<\/p>\n

It is not a way to make the other partner feel bad about themselves or kick them while they\u2019re down. You\u2019re going to fight. That\u2019s a fact.<\/p>\n

But what matters is that you do it with some ground rules that ensure that you\u2019re actually trying to make things better without worsening the situation or diminishing your partner\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar, certifique-se de que a dire\u00e7\u00e3o da sua discuss\u00e3o \u00e9 no sentido de uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o conjunta com o m\u00ednimo de danos para a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Nada de golpes baixos. Nada de trazer \u00e0 baila argumentos antigos (resolvidos) s\u00f3 para provar o seu ponto de vista.<\/p>\n

Focus on the problem at hand and nothing else. Secondly, try to see things from your partner\u2019s perspective.<\/p>\n

Try to understand what he\u2019s trying to tell you and always keep in mind that he is not trying to magoar-vos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 apenas a tentar fazer com que veja as coisas de forma um pouco diferente. Os argumentos n\u00e3o s\u00e3o uma desculpa para ser abusivo de forma alguma.<\/p>\n

They are not an excuse to make your partner feel like shit and violate their trust. If this is what your relationship has come to, it\u2019s time to take a break.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 qualquer esfor\u00e7o da sua parte para que resulte<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

You can love him all you want, but when you\u2019re the only one actively putting in effort and working on your relationship while he\u2019s just sliding along, it\u2019s time to rethink this whole thing.<\/p>\n

When you realize that he doesn\u2019t even ask how you are anymore nor does he try to do the little things that would go a long way, now that is a sign of a broken relationship.<\/p>\n

You can still love him, but when he can\u2019t be bothered to equally participate in the partnership you\u2019re both in, he\u2019s not worth your time.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o se esfor\u00e7ar e nem sequer se preocupar com isso \u00e9 um sinal claro de desrespeito.<\/p>\n

You can make all the excuses you want for him, but when a man loves you, he\u2019s not just going to sit there while you\u2019re busting your ass trying to fix things.<\/p>\n

Um homem que a ama n\u00e3o vai deix\u00e1-la ser a \u00fanica a investir na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, porque sabe como \u00e9 doloroso sentir-se sozinha quando deveria sentir-se apoiada por o seu homem<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And quite frankly, if he isn\u2019t trying, he probably doesn\u2019t even care enough about you anyway.<\/p>\n

Take that as your biggest sign to leave, and don\u2019t ever think about settling for this treatment again.<\/p>\n

In this situation, even if you do still love him, he\u2019s just not the guy for you. Recognize that, respect yourself enough, and let him go.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t say \u201cI love you\u201d anymore<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Naturally, you don\u2019t need to say those three words all the time in order for them to be true.<\/p>\n

After a while, you both just feel it so intensely, that there\u2019s no need to throw it around as much.<\/p>\n

Ainda se faz quest\u00e3o de o dizer, mas simplesmente n\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de o for\u00e7ar. O amor est\u00e1 l\u00e1 e os dois sabem-no.<\/p>\n

But when you notice that you can\u2019t remember the last time you heard him say \u201cEu amo-te<\/a>\u201d or vice versa, now that\u2019s a sign that you should start worrying about your relationship and joint future.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t feel the need to say it to him anymore, start wondering why that is.<\/p>\n

Normalmente, quando deixamos de sentir o que costum\u00e1vamos sentir, deixamos gradualmente de o dizer sem sequer nos apercebermos.<\/p>\n

And if this is the case on both parts, that could be a sign that you\u2019re both falling out of love.<\/p>\n

Try saying it to him and pay attention to how it makes you feel.  If you have to force it and it doesn\u2019t really feel natural, you may no longer feel it.<\/p>\n

Quando tem de se pressionar para expressar o seu amor ao seu parceiro, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que o amor j\u00e1 n\u00e3o exista.<\/p>\n

Quanto mais cedo o admitir, melhor se sentir\u00e1 quando se libertar do que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o o faz crescer.<\/p>\n

A rela\u00e7\u00e3o tornou-se mais uma rotina<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

There is nothing better than finding that one person you want to spend every waking moment with and experience everything life has to offer by each other\u2019s side.<\/p>\n

Waking up together and facing life\u2019s challenges just seems better when you\u2019re together.<\/p>\n

Granted, there are going to be days that won\u2019t feel like such a rush of emotions where you can\u2019t wait to see them, but even on those days you\u2019ll know that it\u2019s all normal and you still love him just as much as you did before.<\/p>\n

However, when your relationship feels like it\u2019s numa rotina<\/a> and there is no more excitement to see each other, talk about all the things that have happened to you that day, and you don\u2019t even feel the need to change it, you might have a problem.<\/p>\n

When things become boring, there is nothing that makes you happy about going home to him, and you don\u2019t even feel like that\u2019s a problem, your relationship may have just become nothing but a daily routine.<\/p>\n

You might even avoid intimacy to the point where snuggling together doesn\u2019t even sound appealing anymore.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 se faz sexo em determinados dias e, mesmo assim, \u00e9 preciso obrigar-se a faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that he\u2019s pressuring you, more like it\u2019s become a robotic routine that you feel you should do at times, even though the need is no longer there.<\/p>\n

Love is not supposed to feel like a routine, so if you feel this has become your reality, it\u2019s time to end it ASAP.<\/p>\n

When you think about your future, he\u2019s simply not in it<\/h2>\n

\"Rapariga<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 o sinal mais claro de todos. \u00c9 natural imaginar o que o futuro nos reserva, e quando isso acontece, se o seu parceiro simplesmente n\u00e3o est\u00e1 presente, ent\u00e3o provavelmente tem uma boa raz\u00e3o para se ir embora.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been in a relationship for a while, it is perfectly normal to think about your joint future and how you plan to level up in your relationship.<\/p>\n

But if you don\u2019t feel like he belongs in your life for the long haul, you probably shouldn\u2019t even be asking yourself if you still love him. You clearly don\u2019t!<\/p>\n

O homem que amas e com quem queres estar durante muito tempo \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que estaria na linha da frente dos teus planos para o futuro!<\/p>\n

Mas se tiver de se for\u00e7ar a coloc\u00e1-lo nos seus pensamentos sobre o futuro, provavelmente ser\u00e1 melhor se romper<\/a> com ele.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean there is something wrong with him, it simply means that your relationship has run its course and it\u2019s time to move on to better things!<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t feel bad. Anything that\u2019s not making you happy or fulfilled doesn\u2019t belong in your life.<\/p>\n

Better things will come along and when you find the one who\u2019s supposed to be in your life for good, you\u2019ll just know because you\u2019ll never have to wonder about him.<\/p>\n

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