{"id":34990,"date":"2020-04-02T07:43:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-02T07:43:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34990"},"modified":"2022-06-06T15:19:38","modified_gmt":"2022-06-06T15:19:38","slug":"12-maneiras-de-lhe-dar-espaco-sem-medo-de-o-perder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/12-maneiras-de-lhe-dar-espaco-sem-medo-de-o-perder\/","title":{"rendered":"D\u00ea-lhe espa\u00e7o: 12 maneiras de evitar o medo de o perder"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>Quer saber como lhe dar espa\u00e7o, mas sem correr o risco de o perder no processo? Est\u00e1 no s\u00edtio certo.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Tal como em qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica real e duradoura, pode chegar uma altura em que as coisas de repente parecem n\u00e3o estar bem.<\/p>\n<p>Ele pode come\u00e7ar a agir de forma distante, as coisas que normalmente pareciam estar bem s\u00e3o tudo menos isso, e a rela\u00e7\u00e3o entre os dois parece estar um pouco quebrada.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/se-o-seu-homem-faz-estas-10-coisas-provavelmente-esta-na-altura-de-o-deixar\/\">O seu homem<\/a> is acting differently, but you just can\u2019t seem to figure out what the hell is going on.<\/p>\n<p>Is it you? Is it something you did or is he simply struggling with something internally and he doesn\u2019t know how to handle it right?<\/p>\n<p>Quando a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 saud\u00e1vel e um dos parceiros age fora das suas normas sem dar uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o v\u00e1lida para o seu comportamento, a rela\u00e7\u00e3o pode ser afetada.<\/p>\n<p><i>Sente que ele <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/porque-e-que-os-homens-precisam-de-espaco-numa-relacao-e-como-lidar-com-isso\/\"><i>precisa de espa\u00e7o<\/i><\/a><i> e quer mesmo dar-lha, mas teme que ele goste demasiado e que se v\u00e1 embora. Ent\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 que faz?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>How do you give him the space that he clearly needs, yet at the same time, still make sure he knows you\u2019re there for him, and you desperately want to get to the bottom of whatever is bugging him? How to know what your <\/i><i>o homem quer<\/i><i> de si?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>The first thing that\u2019s important to note here is that guys handle their problems much differently from women.<\/p>\n<p>Normalmente, gostam de se afastar um pouco e tratar dos seus assuntos internamente.<\/p>\n<p>Entregam-se aos seus trabalhos um pouco mais do que o habitual, como forma de se distra\u00edrem do que os incomoda.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t like to hash it over too much, and they rely on their own abilities to solve their issues. Men are just wired differently.<\/p>\n<p>As dificuldades emocionais n\u00e3o s\u00e3o f\u00e1ceis de enfrentar, por isso, quando come\u00e7am a sentir a tens\u00e3o de tudo isto, manifestam-na de formas que podem ser prejudiciais para as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas.<\/p>\n<p>They usually don\u2019t mean to be that way; it\u2019s just a result of their inability to cope with their issues openly and honestly like women do.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78431 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-puts-hand-on-mans-arms-and-looking-at-him-in-street-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"mulher p\u00f5e a m\u00e3o nos bra\u00e7os de um homem e olha para ele num caf\u00e9 de rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-puts-hand-on-mans-arms-and-looking-at-him-in-street-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-puts-hand-on-mans-arms-and-looking-at-him-in-street-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-puts-hand-on-mans-arms-and-looking-at-him-in-street-cafe-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ouve, infelizmente, tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/o-teu-amor-nao-pode-mudar-um-homem-ate-que-ele-proprio-decida-faze-lo\/\">can\u2019t change<\/a> como o seu parceiro \u00e9. Ele \u00e9 quem \u00e9, e voc\u00ea precisa de aceitar isso como parte dele e perceber que n\u00e3o tem nada a ver consigo.<\/p>\n<p>Everybody has their own way of working out their issues, and you cannot control what happens in somebody\u2019s head and how they react to things and resolve them.<\/p>\n<p><i>Mas o que se pode controlar \u00e9 como <\/i><i>tu<\/i><i> reagir a elas.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Pode optar por deixar que estas coisas o afectem de uma forma negativa, sentar-se calmamente e amuar, ou pode <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-dura-realidade-de-acabar-com-um-narcisista-e-como-lidar-com-ela\/\"><i>lidar com eles<\/i><\/a><i> como a mulher adulta que \u00e9 e tente fazer com que o processo de lhe dar o espa\u00e7o que ele tanto deseja seja o menos doloroso poss\u00edvel.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 prov\u00e1vel que seja apenas uma fase e que passe. Ele vai encontrar uma sa\u00edda para o seu dilema emocional e pedir\u00e1 desculpa depois por ter deixado que isso afectasse a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>You are going to realize that you\u2019ve made a big deal out of nothing, and you\u2019ll be perfectly fine and secure in what you have.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t always trust your head when it goes into panic mode. Sometimes it\u2019s just a little glitch, and it\u2019s only a matter of time before things get resolved.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t panic if you feel like you need to give him some space. That can actually prove to be healthy for your relationship in the long run.<\/p>\n<p>He is going to realize what a great woman he has by his side\u2014one that selflessly lets him deal with his stuff without nagging, and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-esperem-por-ele-ele-nao-vale-a-pena\/\">espera por ele<\/a> with zero judgment when he\u2019s back to his old self.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody\u2019s perfect, and we all go through our own shit. What really matters is how you choose to come out of it.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00ea-lhe o espa\u00e7o de que ele precisa, mas fa\u00e7a tudo o que for preciso para se manter com um esp\u00edrito positivo durante todo o processo.<\/p>\n<p><i>Aqui est\u00e3o 12 maneiras de lhe dar espa\u00e7o, com o m\u00ednimo risco de o perder:<\/i><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">D\u00ea-lhe espa\u00e7o e afaste-se um pouco<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78429 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/silhouette-of-woman-looking-at-sky.jpg\" alt=\"silhueta de mulher a olhar para o c\u00e9u\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/silhouette-of-woman-looking-at-sky.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/silhouette-of-woman-looking-at-sky-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/silhouette-of-woman-looking-at-sky-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A forma mais \u00f3bvia, mas mais eficaz, de lhe dar algum espa\u00e7o \u00e9 fazer exatamente isso.<\/p>\n<p>Accept that this is how it is at this very moment and adjust. Don\u2019t text him all the time, and don\u2019t call too much.<\/p>\n<p>If he isn\u2019t texting you first, don\u2019t initiate conversation every single day because that is the exact opposite of what you\u2019ve promised him.<\/p>\n<p>Se est\u00e1 a pensar no que o seu homem quer neste momento, ou\u00e7a o seu instinto.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you think you will never be able to help him, the next day you won&#8217;t think like that.<\/p>\n<p>Let him figure it all out, and don\u2019t pry too much. I understand it\u2019s extremely difficult backing off from <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/e-por-isso-que-se-deve-lutar-por-quem-se-ama\/\">aquele que amas<\/a>, but just remember that you\u2019re doing it all for the sake of your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Se continuares a comportar-te assim, ele acabar\u00e1 por voltar. E esse era o teu plano desde o in\u00edcio, certo?<\/p>\n<p>Let him know you\u2019ll be spending time with your best friend on Saturday, so if he has no plans, you can have brunch on Sunday, but don\u2019t pressure him.<\/p>\n<p>Be casual and chill. He should see you as a source of support and not somebody who can\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/dar-lhe-3-dias\/\">dar-lhe um pouco de tempo para si pr\u00f3prio<\/a> when that\u2019s all he really needs.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s going to be tricky not receiving that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/25-cute-and-endearing-goodnight-texts-for-him-and-her\/\">texto de boa noite<\/a> from him every night, but it\u2019s crucial that you keep to your word and make him see he can trust you. It\u2019s all going to be okay in the end.<\/p>\n<p>Be supportive of his struggles, respect his space, and let him know that whenever he\u2019s ready, you\u2019re here to talk it all out and figure out where you stand.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Concentre-se em si pr\u00f3pria e deixe de arranjar desculpas para o contactar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78430 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-drinking-coffee-beside-window-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a beber caf\u00e9 junto \u00e0 janela em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-drinking-coffee-beside-window-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-drinking-coffee-beside-window-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-drinking-coffee-beside-window-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve made a conscious decision to give him space, do just that. You don\u2019t need to make ridiculous excuses to text and call at all times because he will see right through them.<\/p>\n<p>If you keep badgering him after promising to step away for a bit, he\u2019s going to feel pressured and attacked, and it can only negatively affect how things will continue after this.<\/p>\n<p>No, he didn\u2019t forget that you exist, and no, he is not going to get used to a life without you because that is not the point of it all.<\/p>\n<p>The point is that he figures himself out\u2014alone. That&#8217;s why you should give him the boyfriend space he craves so much.<\/p>\n<p>No final do dia, ele pensar\u00e1 de uma forma diferente e poder\u00e1 voltar para si antes de pensar que isso \u00e9 poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o tem nada a ver consigo ou com qualquer outro terceiro.<\/p>\n<p>He is going to reach out when he\u2019s ready, and you\u2019ll talk then. If he doesn&#8217;t call you today, it doesn&#8217;t mean he won&#8217;t call you the next day.<\/p>\n<p>Mantenha a positividade e as coisas acabar\u00e3o por ser melhores do que pensava.<\/p>\n<p>Anything else is just too needy and insecure, and you know that\u2019s not <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/se-sentires-que-ja-nao-sabes-quem-es-le-isto\/\">quem \u00e9s<\/a> ou como queres que ele te veja.<\/p>\n<p>Tamb\u00e9m deve ser capaz de desfrutar da sua vida sozinho. H\u00e1 tantas coisas para ver e tanto para fazer, por isso concentra-te em tudo isso e o tempo voar\u00e1!<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re focused on the positives and choose to see the beauty in everything, it usually translates into real life.<\/p>\n<p>Mant\u00e9m o \u00e2nimo e encontra sempre um motivo para sorrir!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Nada de persegui\u00e7\u00f5es nas redes sociais!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78432 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-typing-on-his-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a escrever no seu smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-typing-on-his-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-typing-on-his-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-typing-on-his-smartphone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Isto \u00e9 contraproducente para lhe dar espa\u00e7o. N\u00e3o est\u00e1s no liceu, a enviar-lhe mensagens de amor e a perguntar-lhe quando \u00e9 que ele te vai ver.<\/p>\n<p>Trata-se de uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o grave, que deve ser tratada em conformidade.<\/p>\n<p>It may seem innocent enough, but if you can\u2019t peel your eyes off his Facebook and Instagram accounts, you\u2019re going to make yourself go mad. The no contact rule is a lifesaver in situations like this.<\/p>\n<p>Seja paciente e d\u00ea-lhe espa\u00e7o para pensar em tudo.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t stalk him. Don\u2019t keep tabs on who he\u2019s following, whose photos he liked, and the comments he might have posted on somebody\u2019s video. Don&#8217;t even try to be sweet and cute by saying &#8216;hi&#8217; on Snapchat. I<\/p>\n<p>know a lot of women would do something like this, but now you know that it isn&#8217;t the right thing.<\/p>\n<p>Por muito que o desejes, desiste de lhe enviar mensagens. Porque, se passar tanto tempo concentrada nele, vai perder toda a divers\u00e3o da sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t mess with your head by imagining scenarios that aren\u2019t real, based on what you see on his <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/heres-what-his-social-media-posts-reveal-about-him-and-your-relationship\/\">redes sociais<\/a> perfis.<\/p>\n<p>Just because he went out with his friends the night before, does not mean he\u2019s not struggling.<\/p>\n<p>All it means is he needed a breather. Sympathize with that, and don\u2019t judge.<\/p>\n<p>Lembre-se que est\u00e1 a deix\u00e1-lo sozinho durante algum tempo porque ele precisa de espa\u00e7o. Se ele gosta de passar tempo com certas pessoas, aceite isso.<\/p>\n<p>As I\u2019ve already mentioned, people deal with their issues in their own ways. Nobody is right or wrong here. We\u2019re all just finding our way.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t overanalyze things, and keep an open mind. Nobody said it would be easy, but do your best to keep a level head.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 est\u00e1 a piorar a sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o. Portanto, nada de redes sociais e nada de persegui\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>Deixe as coisas correrem ao seu pr\u00f3prio ritmo e confie no seu homem. Confia em mim, no final do dia vais ficar muito orgulhosa de ti pr\u00f3pria se conseguires lidar com tudo desta forma.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t interrogate him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78426 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-woman-talking-to-a-man-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"mulher s\u00e9ria a falar com um homem num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-woman-talking-to-a-man-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-woman-talking-to-a-man-in-cafe-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-woman-talking-to-a-man-in-cafe-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t go into it too aggressively. You don&#8217;t know the real reasons why your man is pulling away. Maybe he has some issues he doesn&#8217;t want to share with you.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a que nem ele sabe o que raio se passa na sua cabe\u00e7a, por isso as suas 20 perguntas n\u00e3o v\u00e3o fazer ningu\u00e9m sentir-se melhor.<\/p>\n<p>The hardest part is not taking it personally. All you want to know is why he isn\u2019t talking to you and why he can\u2019t just confide in you. What did you do?<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s your first mistake. You didn\u2019t do anything. This is his internal problem and he is the only one who can fix it for himself.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t do anything until he takes the initiative and works on his own shit.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00eaem-lhe espa\u00e7o e vejam o que acontece a seguir. Pense nisto desta forma.<\/p>\n<p>If you were mentally (or in any other way) struggling with something but you didn\u2019t really want to talk about it, how would it make you feel if he invaded your personal space and didn\u2019t give you a second to figure it out by yourself?<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o agrad\u00e1vel, n\u00e3o \u00e9 verdade? Por isso, n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a disso sempre que o quiser atormentar com perguntas e exercer press\u00e3o desnecess\u00e1ria sobre ele.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re going to give him space, try to respect that, and let him come to you when <i>ele<\/i> est\u00e1 pronto.<\/p>\n<p>Acredite em mim, a pior coisa que pode acontecer \u00e9 obrig\u00e1-lo a fazer coisas para as quais n\u00e3o est\u00e1 preparado.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t chase after him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78428 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-woman-with-tied-hair-standing-beside-window-and-looking-out.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de uma mulher com o cabelo atado, de p\u00e9 junto \u00e0 janela e a olhar para fora\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-woman-with-tied-hair-standing-beside-window-and-looking-out.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-woman-with-tied-hair-standing-beside-window-and-looking-out-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-woman-with-tied-hair-standing-beside-window-and-looking-out-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s the point? If he\u2019s going to find his way back, he\u2019s going to do it on his own.<\/p>\n<p>If he chooses someone else, it is okay as well. Love can&#8217;t be forced, so why try in the first place?<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make him feel suffocated and pressured into making a decision before he\u2019s ready.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t spend so much time focusing on him. I know a lot of women do this, but I am begging you not to do it. Trust me, it won&#8217;t bring you where you want to be. Just do your own thing in your own space.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t resort to any grand gestures or ways to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-chamar-a-atencao-dele-7-metodos-comprovados-que-funcionam-sempre\/\">chamar a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>That is below you. You know him better than anyone, so you know how that\u2019s going to make him feel.<\/p>\n<p>Mant\u00e9m a cabe\u00e7a erguida e as esperan\u00e7as ainda mais altas.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel like texting him, just think about it. Will it help you to make him run into your arms? I don&#8217;t think so.<\/p>\n<p>Persegui-lo vai fazer o contr\u00e1rio do que pretende. Vai afast\u00e1-lo ainda mais e \u00e9 muito pouco prov\u00e1vel que ele queira <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/20-sinais-claros-de-que-o-seu-ex-vai-acabar-por-voltar\/\">voltar<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make yourself seem desperate and incapable of being on your own.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o \u00e9 uma carater\u00edstica atractiva e deve ficar bem sozinho durante algum tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Just leave the situation as it is, and don\u2019t try to impact the way things turn out. It\u2019s not up to you.<\/p>\n<p>Just have faith he\u2019ll come back to you, and keep yourself preoccupied in the process. Trust me, no contact is what both of you need right now!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quit thinking you\u2019re losing him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78433 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-during-night-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel durante a noite em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-during-night-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-during-night-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-during-night-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know it\u2019s stronger than you and that it\u2019s hard to control the scenarios your mind creates. But that is the worst thing that you can do now.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s daunting, imagining what he\u2019s up to and what he\u2019s doing without you, but please, quit thinking the worst.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, it\u2019s a fair possibility that he might leave. But giving him his guy space is a must because that is the only way he can stay alone with his thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>Infelizmente, o facto de ele optar por ficar sozinho \u00e9 um resultado poss\u00edvel e deve estar preparada para isso. Mas nada \u00e9 definitivo.<\/p>\n<p>That is merely the worst case scenario, and guess what? You\u2019ll survive if it comes to it!<\/p>\n<p>Se continuar a entrar em modo de p\u00e2nico, pode ser apenas o seu medo a vir \u00e0 superf\u00edcie e a levar a melhor sobre si.<\/p>\n<p>It is normal to fear losing your partner, but just because it scares you, doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/o-que-e-a-dependencia-emocional-10-formas-de-a-ultrapassar-com-sucesso\/\">super\u00e1-lo.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you can\u2019t help but be a complete and total wreck, perhaps this is not the healthiest relationship for you. Just think about that.<\/p>\n<p>True love doesn\u2019t make you feel nauseated. It doesn\u2019t create twisted scenarios in your head and play <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/recuso-me-a-ser-vitima-dos-vossos-jogos-mentais\/\">jogos mentais<\/a> convosco.<\/p>\n<p>And most importantly, love doesn\u2019t make you feel insecure. It makes you feel safe, protected, and secure in what you have.<\/p>\n<p>Se se sente mal quando ele est\u00e1 por perto e quando n\u00e3o est\u00e1, isso significa que ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 a pessoa certa para si. Talvez fosse muito mais feliz com outra pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>Even during a \u201ctimeout,\u201d you wouldn\u2019t be going through this.<\/p>\n<p>Think about that while you\u2019re on your own and try to figure out what it is that\u2019s really scaring you.<\/p>\n<p>E lembre-se que \u00e9 voc\u00ea que gere a sua pr\u00f3pria vida e que lhe \u00e9 permitido tomar todas as decis\u00f5es que considere correctas.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Deslocar a sua energia para si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78422 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/back-view-woman-spreading-her-hands-outside.jpg\" alt=\"vista traseira de uma mulher a abrir as m\u00e3os no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/back-view-woman-spreading-her-hands-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/back-view-woman-spreading-her-hands-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/back-view-woman-spreading-her-hands-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A repeti\u00e7\u00e3o constante de tudo isto na sua cabe\u00e7a vai drenar toda a sua energia e positividade.<\/p>\n<p>Thinking about the reasons why men pull away won&#8217;t help you to bring your man back.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re going to be left jaded and frustrated. Stop while you\u2019re still you! Focus on yourself. Your world is so much bigger than that one person!<\/p>\n<p>I know he\u2019s not just anyone and he\u2019s extremely important to you, but so are many other people, yourself included!<\/p>\n<p>While you\u2019re giving him space, do the same for yourself. Don&#8217;t contact him, don&#8217;t send text messages and don&#8217;t go to places he might be.<\/p>\n<p>Try to find what it is that keeps you happy when he\u2019s not around.<\/p>\n<p>Descubra quais s\u00e3o as suas paix\u00f5es e de onde vem o seu entusiasmo pela vida.<\/p>\n<p>Concentre-se nos seus sentimentos. Tente colocar-se no lugar mais saud\u00e1vel poss\u00edvel, mental e emocionalmente.<\/p>\n<p>Try to just close your eyes, wash those worries away, and appreciate what\u2019s around you.<\/p>\n<p>Passe o seu tempo livre com os seus melhores amigos e concentre-se mais neles e em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s really easy to be happy; all you need to do is give it a shot! He is special, and he is amazing, but so are you, and so is the rest of your world.<\/p>\n<p>Encontrar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/entertainment\/qual-e-a-chave-para-a-sua-felicidade\/\">a vossa felicidade <\/a>noutros s\u00edtios, e de repente sentir-se-\u00e1 um milh\u00e3o de quilos mais leve.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, sabe que vais ficar bem<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78423 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/cute-woman-sitting-in-cafe-and-looking-out.jpg\" alt=\"mulher gira sentada num caf\u00e9 e a olhar para fora\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/cute-woman-sitting-in-cafe-and-looking-out.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/cute-woman-sitting-in-cafe-and-looking-out-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/cute-woman-sitting-in-cafe-and-looking-out-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Remember all those things you didn\u2019t think you\u2019d ever survive? Well, look at you now! Alive, healthy, and thriving! This is the exact same thing.<\/p>\n<p>It may seem like losing him could be the end of the world, but it\u2019s really not.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you did lose him, you\u2019d find your way back to happiness again.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s important to know is that you do not need another person to feel whole.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 precisa de um pouco de espa\u00e7o para organizar os seus pensamentos e, ao mesmo tempo, dar-lhe algum espa\u00e7o masculino. Confie em mim, este \u00e9 o melhor conselho que pode receber numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re already a complete, functioning human being all by yourself. Nothing can change that.<\/p>\n<p>Once you are able to be happy and fulfilled when you\u2019re on your own, only then will you be truly ready for whatever may come your way.<\/p>\n<p>While you\u2019re waiting to see if he can find his way back to you, keep your thoughts positive.<\/p>\n<p>Tu \u00e9s o \u00fanico respons\u00e1vel pela tua pr\u00f3pria vida e s\u00f3 tu podes fazer com que te sintas bem na tua pele.<\/p>\n<p>Make yourself aware that you\u2019ve already survived so much, and you can handle this as well.<\/p>\n<p>So if he chooses a different path, you\u2019ll be ready and able to cope with it in a healthy way.<\/p>\n<p>And if he comes back, you\u2019ll know that you don\u2019t <i>necessidade<\/i> para que sejas feliz, mas adoras que ele te mantenha assim.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Have faith that things always end up the way they\u2019re supposed to<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78420 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"Uma jovem triste sentada sozinha numa pedra ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Just because he seems perfect and your relationship is making you so happy, doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that he is perfect for <i>tu<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>Ele ainda pode ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-beleza-de-conhecer-um-bom-rapaz-depois-de-uma-relacao-toxica\/\">um bom rapaz<\/a>n\u00e3o \u00e9 bom para ti. Confia que tudo se resolver\u00e1 pelo melhor.<\/p>\n<p>If he can\u2019t seem to find his way back and decides to break it off with you, have some faith that this is how it\u2019s supposed to be.<\/p>\n<p>A guy who is right for you would never leave and decide that you\u2019re not <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-podes-perder-o-homem-que-esta-destinado-a-ser-teu\/\">destinado a ser<\/a> together, don\u2019t you think?<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t control how a person feels. When he\u2019s not where you are, it\u2019s only fair to let him go.<\/p>\n<p>Let him find what\u2019s right for him, and give yourself a chance to find somebody who will never leave.<\/p>\n<p>Right now, it\u2019s difficult to see this as a fact because you are too emotionally invested, but one day down the line, you\u2019re going to realize that this was in fact true.<\/p>\n<p>When enough time has passed, and when you\u2019re with somebody new who can appreciate you and make you feel secure, you\u2019re going to see how you\u2019re supposed to feel beside the one who\u2019s right for you.<\/p>\n<p>And then, you\u2019ll never let your mind play tricks on you again. People who are meant to be will always gravitate towards each other.<\/p>\n<p>Uma boa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 dif\u00edcil de desenvolver, pelo que deve ter paci\u00eancia suficiente se quiser ser feliz no amor.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You can\u2019t change how somebody feels, no matter how hard you try<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78440 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-sitting-beside-man-on-a-park-bench.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada sentada ao lado de um homem num banco de jardim\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\"><\/p>\n<p>If your man is going through some serious issues and he is really taking his time, accept that you can\u2019t just change how he feels.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t interrogate him about why men pull away and why he is acting like that.<\/p>\n<p>Ele \u00e9 o \u00fanico que tem o poder de se sentir melhor.<\/p>\n<p>Ele s\u00f3 precisa de um pouco de espa\u00e7o para organizar os seus pensamentos e pensar no que vai fazer a seguir.<\/p>\n<p>Alguns rapazes enfrentam coisas destas no liceu, enquanto outros as enfrentam quando j\u00e1 s\u00e3o completamente maduros.<\/p>\n<p>It sucks, and it\u2019s so frustrating, but all you can really do is just give him space, take a step back, and hope it all works out in your favor.<\/p>\n<p>Espero que consigas recuperar o teu homem e que nunca mais tenhas de passar por isto.<\/p>\n<p>But at the same time, if things just don\u2019t go the way you want them to, that is okay, too.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes things need to fall apart in order for you to see what\u2019s really <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/as-vibracoes-nao-mentem-se-sentes-que-ele-nao-e-a-pessoa-certa-para-ti-provavelmente-nao-e\/\">adequado para si<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, deixar de lado o que parece bom para si \u00e9 exatamente o que precisa para ver o que realmente \u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Never force anything. That is not the foundation upon which you want to base your relationship. If it\u2019s not working out, let it go.<\/p>\n<p>Enquanto est\u00e1 ocupada a encontrar formas de o fazer regressar, a vida passa-lhe ao lado.<\/p>\n<p>Open your eyes to it, and you just might find what you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n<p>De que serve ter uma excelente rela\u00e7\u00e3o com outra pessoa quando se tem uma excelente rela\u00e7\u00e3o consigo pr\u00f3prio?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio que tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o quer realmente ter<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78427 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-beautiful-woman-sitting-on-table-with-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de uma mulher bonita sentada numa mesa com um computador port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-beautiful-woman-sitting-on-table-with-laptop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-beautiful-woman-sitting-on-table-with-laptop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-beautiful-woman-sitting-on-table-with-laptop-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O tipo de homem que precisa muito de espa\u00e7o \u00e9 algu\u00e9m com quem quer mesmo estar?<\/p>\n<p>Gosta de como se sente ao estar com uma pessoa que n\u00e3o tem a certeza sobre si e sobre o tempo que passam juntos? Pensa nisso por um segundo.<\/p>\n<p>Giving him space is a noble gesture, and sometimes it\u2019s what\u2019s needed, but if he is taking his time, and he demands space more than just that one time, is he really somebody you want to be with?<\/p>\n<p>Is it possible that maybe you\u2019re just not right for each other? That does not have to be the case at all, but if it\u2019s in the least bit possible, it\u2019s worth thinking about.<\/p>\n<p>Que tipo de homem procuras? V\u00ea isso nele?<\/p>\n<p>Se a resposta for sim, ent\u00e3o esperem por ele e mantenham a vossa f\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>But if he is leaving you uncomfortable and insecure, perhaps you\u2019re not as happy as you\u2019d like while <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/if-you-have-to-bend-over-backward-to-be-with-him-hes-not-the-one\/\">estar com ele<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Analise as suas op\u00e7\u00f5es, pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio o que quer de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o e procure exatamente isso.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Passar tempo com pessoas que o fazem feliz<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78425 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/group-of-smiling-friends-taking-selfie.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos sorridentes a tirar uma selfie\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/group-of-smiling-friends-taking-selfie.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/group-of-smiling-friends-taking-selfie-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/group-of-smiling-friends-taking-selfie-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 a oportunidade perfeita para passar tempo de qualidade com aqueles que tornam a sua vida um pouco melhor e o fazem rir um pouco mais.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t forget about your family and friends. While he is searching for his way back, you focus on other people that you cherish in life.<\/p>\n<p>Go on a night out with your besties, and put your worries to the side! Go visit your family if they don\u2019t leave nearby, and spend a weekend unwinding with them.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00ea um passeio pela cidade, sente-se num parque e leia um bom livro.<\/p>\n<p>Mas fa\u00e7am o que fizerem, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-piores-mensagens-de-texto-para-enviar-a-ele-durante-uma-briga\/\">don&#8217;t send him any text messages<\/a> quando se fica sozinho. Isso vai estragar tudo.<\/p>\n<p>E sim, isto \u00e9 algo que todos os treinadores de rela\u00e7\u00f5es aconselham, o que faz com que seja um dos melhores conselhos sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-um-velho-amigo-nos-contacta-do-nada\/\">P\u00f4r a conversa em dia com velhos amigos<\/a> you may have neglected a bit. You\u2019ll see how little it takes to just <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-pessoa-certa-nao-te-vai-obrigar-a-passar-pelo-inferno-para-seres-feliz\/\">ser feliz<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>And then, whatever he decides, you\u2019ll be able to handle it all right, knowing you have an amazing support system around you that\u2019s not going to let you wander in sorrow.<\/p>\n<p>Isto tamb\u00e9m o lembrar\u00e1 de como \u00e9 amado e de como as pessoas gostam de si.<\/p>\n<p>A sua autoestima voltar\u00e1 ao topo e a sua alma simplesmente florescer\u00e1.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78424 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Give-Him-Space-12-Ways-To-Avoid-The-Fear-Of-Losing-Him-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"D\u00ea-lhe espa\u00e7o: 12 maneiras de evitar o medo de o perder\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Give-Him-Space-12-Ways-To-Avoid-The-Fear-Of-Losing-Him-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Give-Him-Space-12-Ways-To-Avoid-The-Fear-Of-Losing-Him-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Want to know how to give him space but not risk losing him in the process? You\u2019re in the right place. Just like in any real, long-term romantic relationship, there might come a time in yours where things suddenly just seem to be off. He may start acting distant, things that normally seemed fine are&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":78437,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34990","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Give-Him-Space-12-Ways-To-Avoid-The-Fear-Of-Losing-Him.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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