{"id":35144,"date":"2019-04-08T09:25:57","date_gmt":"2019-04-08T09:25:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35144"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:22:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:22:18","slug":"ultrapassar-o-desconhecido-para-tornar-a-sua-relacao-duradoura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ultrapassar-o-desconhecido-para-tornar-a-sua-relacao-duradoura\/","title":{"rendered":"Ultrapassar o desconhecido para tornar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura"},"content":{"rendered":"

Talvez a coisa mais temida quando se entra numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o seja a inevitabilidade de incerteza<\/em>.<\/b> And yet it\u2019s a natural part of every relationship, romantic or not, and therefore unavoidable. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you feel like you need some direct answers as to why you and your partner aren\u2019t gelling, you\u2019re sick of trying to read his mind all the time, or you can\u2019t understand why you two aren\u2019t communicating as you should, you\u2019re certainly not alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The question is \u2013 how can you get what you need from this connection and from your partner without pulling away?<\/b> Muitas vezes, quando nos sentimos frustrados, distanciamo-nos inadvertidamente e acabamos por magoar a pessoa de quem gostamos, talvez de forma permanente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se nos sentirmos pouco \u00e0 vontade para exprimir as nossas necessidades, n\u00e3o o fazer n\u00e3o \u00e9 de todo a resposta.<\/b> There are effective ways to manage difficult conversations, so your bond can grow stronger rather than abruptly dissolving. Don\u2019t let doubt take over. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aprenda a ser assertivo sem ser demasiado agressivo, para que possa criar confian\u00e7a no par e resistir at\u00e9 aos momentos mais dif\u00edceis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es, pela sua pr\u00f3pria natureza, podem ser assustadoras.<\/b> Podem provocar uma montanha russa de emo\u00e7\u00f5es. O medo da perda de independ\u00eancia, do desgosto, de se perder a si pr\u00f3prio ou ao seu parceiro no processo, s\u00e3o todos muito reais. Isto porque n\u00e3o se pode controlar outra pessoa. S\u00f3 se tem controlo sobre si pr\u00f3prio e sobre a sua metade do todo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Learning to set boundaries is vital so others understand what you are willing to accept and what you\u2019re not without being too forceful and pushing away.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s important to remember that no one, yourself included, is perfect, and you can\u2019t expect to change anyone over time. Never enter into a relationship thinking you\u2019ll be able to \u201cfix\u201d your partner\u2019s flaws and everything will \u201ceventually\u201d be perfect. That\u2019s simply not the case. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If there are things in the very beginning that you would consider to be red flags, walk away. Those things that gave you pause at the start aren\u2019t likely to simply dissipate with time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, pode deixar de ficar obcecado com o desconhecido melhorando a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o, em vez de se afastar sempre que sentir uma m\u00e1 vibra\u00e7\u00e3o da outra pessoa.<\/b> There may be things that come up which don\u2019t sit well with you but aren\u2019t necessarily significant enough to justify throwing in the towel. These are the things that can improve with healthy interaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

By learning to stand your ground while being willing to listen to your partner\u2019s side of the story and remaining open to compromise, you can build a solid foundation. This way you\u2019re not always walking away, left alone, trying to figure out when that perfect person might show up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s important to make time for some self-reflection, too. If you are always the one walking away feeling defeated and as if you\u2019ll never find someone who will make you happy, you have to try to understand where this perspective is coming from. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Seja honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio e esteja disposto a reconhecer padr\u00f5es pouco saud\u00e1veis que podem ser trabalhados para melhorar a sua vida rom\u00e2ntica. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019ve recently entered into a new relationship and are having second thoughts, take the time to reflect on your current relationship and what you like and dislike about it. You can ask yourself the following to see if your connection is worth hanging onto or if it\u2019s truly not right for you:
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O que \u00e9 que eu sinto por esta pessoa? Preocupo-me verdadeiramente com ela?
Serei eu a pessoa certa para ele?
Ser\u00e1 que o quero fazer feliz?
Quando essa pessoa est\u00e1 feliz, isso faz-me feliz em troca?
Do I miss him when he\u2019s gone?
Posso confiar nele?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you have genuine feelings for this person but are still feeling as if you should walk away, ask yourself what\u2019s missing. What\u2019s lacking? What could be improved?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se acha que pode melhorar as coisas se comunicar efetivamente com a outra pessoa, experimente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re stuck on something that you are not comfortable discussing, is this also something that you can live without? If not, and if your partner cannot offer it to you, maybe it truly is time to move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The bottom line is, all relationships take work, and some work better than others. However, you\u2019ll have to stay open and honest with yourself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re always walking away, wondering when you\u2019ll meet that perfect person who will make you happy indefinitely, is there something about yourself that is causing continual disappointment? Por vezes, uma maior compreens\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio \u00e9 tudo o que precisa para perceber como fazer com que uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o perdure.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Perhaps the most dreaded thing about entering into a new relationship is the inevitability of uncertainty. And yet it\u2019s a natural part of every relationship, romantic or not, and therefore unavoidable. If you feel like you need some direct answers as to why you and your partner aren\u2019t gelling, you\u2019re sick of trying to read…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":35162,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35144","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/adolescent-converse-all-star-converse-all-star-1021145-1024x686.jpg",1024,686,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35144","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35144"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35144\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35162"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35144"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35144"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35144"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}