{"id":35219,"date":"2019-04-09T06:48:59","date_gmt":"2019-04-09T06:48:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35219"},"modified":"2022-02-24T10:45:54","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T10:45:54","slug":"3-metodos-inteligentes-para-ser-mais-esperto-que-um-narcisista-e-deixar-a-relacao-para-sempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/3-metodos-inteligentes-para-ser-mais-esperto-que-um-narcisista-e-deixar-a-relacao-para-sempre\/","title":{"rendered":"3 m\u00e9todos inteligentes para ser mais esperto que um narcisista (e deixar o relacionamento para sempre)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Qual \u00e9 a principal chave para repelir um narcisista?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O m\u00e9todo da rocha cinzenta<\/a> \u2013 become as dull as dishwater.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Os narcisistas s\u00e3o atra\u00eddos por pessoas compassivas e carinhosas, pessoas que irradiam energia e transbordam de empatia.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quanto mais emo\u00e7\u00f5es uma pessoa mostrar, mais atraente ser\u00e1 para um narcisista.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A raz\u00e3o \u00e9 muito simples. Os narcisistas precisam de se abastecer. Precisam da aten\u00e7\u00e3o e da admira\u00e7\u00e3o das suas v\u00edtimas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s what feeds their egos and gives their lives meaning.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Por outras palavras, o narcisista est\u00e1 a usar o seu parceiro como uma fonte de abastecimento narc\u00edsico impessoal.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O amor n\u00e3o se encontra em lado nenhum nessas rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O facto de ser visto e percebido como uma fonte narc\u00edsica torna-o fraco e f\u00e1cil de controlar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Only if you let someone treat you like shit will you come out as a victim, but if you play your moves smart and sneaky as they do, you\u2019ll be able to outsmart a narcissist.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vivenciando uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o narc\u00edsica<\/a> is probably one of the worst things you\u2019ll live through in your life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Those people suck you dry; they steal every little emotion from you \u2013 that\u2019s the first step to gain complete control over you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando o conseguem, t\u00eam-no nas suas m\u00e3os. Controlam as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e os seus pensamentos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A partir desse momento, somos a sua marioneta, movemo-nos para onde eles nos mandam.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No in\u00edcio, pensavas que o amavas. Deu-lhe um mar de segundas oportunidades apesar das suas constantes trai\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Foi por causa de todos os t\u00e1cticas de aspira\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> e de culpabiliza\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That\u2019s what brought you back every time you decided to leave. But the fact is, you keep coming back until you hit rock bottom.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Enquanto tiveres um pouco de for\u00e7a, eles encontrar\u00e3o uma forma de te atrair de volta \u00e0 rela\u00e7\u00e3o para te tirarem o pouco que te resta.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando n\u00e3o tiveres absolutamente nada, s\u00f3 ent\u00e3o poder\u00e1s partir. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You won\u2019t be interesting anymore. You\u2019ll be dull and unimportant.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Only, you don\u2019t have to risk your sanity to deixar um narcisista<\/a>. You don\u2019t have to come to your lowest point to leave.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tente usar alguns destes m\u00e9todos inteligentes, mas baixos, para ser mais esperto do que um narcisista.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. O m\u00e9todo Gray Rock<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O objetivo \u00e9 tornar-se realmente uma pedra cinzenta. Uma pedra que \u00e9 t\u00e3o aborrecida e pouco atraente que ningu\u00e9m olharia para ela duas vezes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Using the grey rock method, you\u2019ll become completely unattractive for him to interact with.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O seu parceiro abusivo perder\u00e1 o interesse em si e acabar\u00e1 por a deixar em paz.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Look at it this way. Imagine him being a small boy and small boys want toys to play with \u2013 only a narc doesn\u2019t want toys because his toys are people.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ele brinca com as pessoas e com os seus sentimentos, e isso tem consequ\u00eancias graves.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

In a narc\u2019s eyes, you are the same as the toy. He knows he can do whatever he wants with you because he has the authority.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ele pode criar cen\u00e1rios a seu gosto e fazer-te dan\u00e7ar ao som da m\u00fasica que toca. Os narc\u00f3ticos t\u00eam controlo total sobre ti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Ignor\u00e1-lo<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Narcissists are unable to produce emotions, that\u2019s why they feed off of yours. It\u2019s in their interest to provoke any kind of reaction from you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if it\u2019s love or rage, the emotion is what counts. They need to see your reaction to their behavior.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As pessoas normais interpretariam o facto de estar chateado como algo que provavelmente fizeram de errado, mas n\u00e3o um narcisista.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Your every emotion, anger or happiness, they will see as love because they don\u2019t know what love is. They can\u2019t understand love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

By playing their game, you\u2019re only entering deeper into their trap. Another way to get rid of a narcissist is to tell them everything to their face.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se acha que lhe est\u00e3o a mentir, chame-lhe mentiroso \u00e0 frente de toda a gente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Deixem de corresponder \u00e0s suas expectativas e deixem de acreditar nas suas promessas e gestos grandiosos. Tudo isso \u00e9 uma mentira.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E enquanto dermos aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu comportamento, eles continuar\u00e3o a fazer a mesma coisa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Deixem de alimentar os seus egos, fazendo-os pensar que s\u00e3o importantes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mesmo quando se faz frente a um narcisista, o trabalho n\u00e3o est\u00e1 feito. A luta est\u00e1 apenas a come\u00e7ar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you show them they won\u2019t be able to control you that easily, they will come at you with everything they\u2019ve got.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Utilizar\u00e3o todas as t\u00e9cnicas e manipula\u00e7\u00f5es para o colocar de novo no seu caminho.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A primeira coisa que eles far\u00e3o \u00e9 tentar encontrar outra v\u00edtima para se alimentarem. N\u00e3o lhes est\u00e1 a dar suficiente suprimento narc\u00edsico e eles precisam muito disso.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They are like junkies in a desperate need of a fix. No matter what they have to do and who they have to hurt, they\u2019ll do it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If that plan fails, they will start behaving differently \u2013 they will start acting as normal people do in normal relationships.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pedir\u00e3o desculpa pelo seu comportamento e jurar\u00e3o nunca mais o fazer. Ajoelhar-se-\u00e3o e come\u00e7ar\u00e3o a pedir-lhe perd\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O seu medo \u00e9 real nesse momento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They are sincerely scared you\u2019re going to leave them, but not because they love you, but because they need their supply.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ignore those false emotions and don\u2019t be crazy to give them a second chance.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Louv\u00e1-lo<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Este \u00e9 o m\u00e9todo mais perigoso e arriscado a adotar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you really think you\u2019re able to lie like that without giving away your true intentions, then, by all means, do it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Not only will you succeed, but you\u2019ll ferir um narcisista<\/a> no processo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

D\u00ea-lhes aten\u00e7\u00e3o, d\u00ea-lhes tudo o que elas querem. Diga-lhes como s\u00e3o bonitas, atenciosas e inteligentes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lie all you want, but it\u2019s crucial to stay believable, otherwise he\u2019ll put you through hell.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ao mesmo tempo, planeie a sua fuga. Calcule cuidadosamente tudo at\u00e9 ao \u00faltimo pormenor antes de decidir partir.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Make sure he doesn\u2019t expect you to make that move, or else  the whole plan may go to waste.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

There is a way to leave a narcissist, but there isn\u2019t a way to do it without having consequences.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer na sua vida depois de namorar com um narcisista, prepare-se para sarar e come\u00e7ar a acreditar em si pr\u00f3pria novamente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

By using these methods, you\u2019ll be able to do it faster and maybe less painfully.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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