{"id":35224,"date":"2020-11-09T08:06:46","date_gmt":"2020-11-09T08:06:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35224"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:44:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:44:55","slug":"10-diferencas-fundamentais-entre-amar-alguem-e-estar-apaixonado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-diferencas-fundamentais-entre-amar-alguem-e-estar-apaixonado\/","title":{"rendered":"10 diferen\u00e7as fundamentais entre amar algu\u00e9m e estar apaixonado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Amamos realmente uma pessoa ou estamos apenas apaixonados por ela? Qual \u00e9 a diferen\u00e7a entre \"amor\" e \"apaixonado\"?<\/p>\n<p>Tal como muitos de v\u00f3s, apercebi-me demasiado tarde de que estar apaixonado por algu\u00e9m n\u00e3o \u00e9 o mesmo que am\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n<p>Precisei de alguns anos, de algumas separa\u00e7\u00f5es e de ter o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido repetidamente para perceber a dura verdade deste facto negligenciado de que existem realmente diferen\u00e7as significativas entre estes dois conceitos.<\/p>\n<p><em>Loving someone doesn\u2019t mean the person must be ours. Loving someone means if the person you love is happy, you will be happy too.<\/em> Sim.<\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 a maior e derradeira diferen\u00e7a entre os dois e, infelizmente, na maioria das vezes esquecemo-nos de ver o panorama geral da nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou romance.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/estar-apaixonado-pelo-seu-parceiro-nao-o-torna-compativel\/\">Estar apaixonado<\/a> com algu\u00e9m \u00e9 mais estar apaixonado pelo sentimento de estar apaixonado.<\/p>\n<p>Such relationships can be based on infatuation, possessiveness, and let\u2019s say obsession.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t live without each other, you feel lonely when they are not around, and you\u2019re the happiest in their arms.<\/p>\n<p>Sentimos que eles s\u00e3o a nossa droga e que precisamos deles.<\/p>\n<p>Ao contr\u00e1rio de estar apaixonado, amar algu\u00e9m significa dar sem condi\u00e7\u00f5es e vai para al\u00e9m da presen\u00e7a f\u00edsica.<\/p>\n<p>Amar algu\u00e9m est\u00e1 ligado \u00e0 nossa entrega desinteressada e ao amor supremo por outra pessoa que, se for correspondido, \u00e9 quase imposs\u00edvel de desaparecer.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-amazing-ways-make-deeper-emotional-bond-partner\/\">um la\u00e7o eterno<\/a> e felicidade no vosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o que requerem um esfor\u00e7o m\u00fatuo.<\/p>\n<p>Now, if you\u2019re still wondering whether you truly love someone or you\u2019re in love with them, keep reading the following 10 key differences that will open your eyes and help you understand it better!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>10 DIFEREN\u00c7AS FUNDAMENTAIS ENTRE AMAR ALGU\u00c9M E ESTAR APAIXONADO<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">You can\u2019t choose to be in love with someone, but you can choose to love someone<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124168\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"casal a beijar-se ao p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>O enamoramento acontece rapidamente e sem inten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>You become kind of addicted to that someone and all of a sudden you can\u2019t imagine your life without them.<\/p>\n<p>You become hooked on how they make you feel when you\u2019re with them and not how you are making them feel.<\/p>\n<p>But, loving someone is all about the decision to give all of yourself to them and become \u201caddicted\u201d to that feeling of making someone utterly happy.<\/p>\n<p>Amar algu\u00e9m tem a ver com reciprocidade e com a escolha de fazer tudo para que essa pessoa se sinta amada e apreciada.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s about choosing to stay faithful to them and earning their trust.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Estar apaixonado \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o de conveni\u00eancia, enquanto que amar algu\u00e9m \u00e9 coloc\u00e1-lo em primeiro lugar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124169\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-on-the-swingset-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado no baloi\u00e7o na praia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-on-the-swingset-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-on-the-swingset-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-on-the-swingset-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-on-the-swingset-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-on-the-swingset-on-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-on-the-swingset-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-on-the-swingset-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-on-the-swingset-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Estar apaixonado \u00e9 estar presente porque precisamos que eles nos fa\u00e7am sentir como nos fazem sentir.<\/p>\n<p>Precisa deles para se sentir realizado e feliz, porque sente que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o consegue funcionar corretamente sem eles.<\/p>\n<p>Estar apaixonado significa muitas vezes n\u00e3o estar preparado para persistir em salvar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o quando \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n<p>Amar algu\u00e9m \u00e9 dar prioridade a essa pessoa e coloc\u00e1-la em primeiro lugar, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s about fighting for them and being there for them always, not only when it\u2019s convenient.<\/p>\n<p>Amar algu\u00e9m tem a ver com <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/real-men-dont-make-excuses-they-make-an-effort\/\">fazer um esfor\u00e7o constante<\/a> para ultrapassar todos os problemas que possam surgir numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e n\u00e3o perder a esperan\u00e7a ao primeiro obst\u00e1culo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Estar apaixonado \u00e9 uma correria, mas amar algu\u00e9m \u00e9 constante<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124170\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz abra\u00e7ado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>O conceito de estar apaixonado est\u00e1 intimamente ligado ao desejo constante de querer mais e mais do seu parceiro e da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 como se fosse uma corrida ao limbo onde nunca se consegue encontrar a paz interior ou a sa\u00edda.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re in a constant rush toward perfection, the feeling of infatuation, and the ideal relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Pelo contr\u00e1rio, amar algu\u00e9m \u00e9 est\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t only want more of a relationship, but you are also inclined to roll up your sleeves and start working on it.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 disposto a trabalhar arduamente para que as coisas tenham sucesso, mas tamb\u00e9m est\u00e1 consciente do facto de que nada \u00e9 perfeito.<\/p>\n<p>Aceita o seu parceiro pelo que ele \u00e9 e ama os seus defeitos. O vosso amor \u00e9 est\u00e1vel, equilibrado e aben\u00e7oado.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Estar apaixonado \u00e9 precisar de algu\u00e9m, enquanto amar algu\u00e9m \u00e9 querer algu\u00e9m<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124171\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-lying-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz deitado na cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-lying-on-the-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-lying-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-lying-on-the-bed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-lying-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-lying-on-the-bed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-lying-on-the-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-lying-on-the-bed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-lying-on-the-bed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Estar apaixonado significa amar algu\u00e9m porque precisamos dessa pessoa, enquanto amar algu\u00e9m significa am\u00e1-la porque a queremos.<\/p>\n<p>Sabes, estar apaixonado \u00e9 sobre <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-deixar-de-ser-pegajoso-e-carente-8-maneiras-de-o-fazer\/\">precisar de algu\u00e9m,<\/a> needing their presence, their love and affection \u2013 it makes you feel good and spending time with them is simply the best feeling in the world.<\/p>\n<p>Mas amar algu\u00e9m \u00e9 querer essa pessoa mais do que a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>I know it sounds confusing, but I\u2019ll try to explain it better.<\/p>\n<p>Amar algu\u00e9m significa amar a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de o fazer feliz e querer continuar a faz\u00ea-lo porque, por sua vez, tamb\u00e9m o faz feliz.<\/p>\n<p>To truly love someone has nothing to do with receiving. It is much more than that. It\u2019s about selfless, unconditional giving.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Estar apaixonado \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o de posse, enquanto amar algu\u00e9m \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o de parceria<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124173\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-love-holding-hands-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"casal apaixonado de m\u00e3os dadas no sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-love-holding-hands-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-love-holding-hands-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-love-holding-hands-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-love-holding-hands-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-love-holding-hands-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-love-holding-hands-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-love-holding-hands-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-love-holding-hands-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>When you\u2019re in love, you become possessive and you would do anything to keep them in your life, no matter if they themselves are not happy with you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s all about ownership, which causes the feeling of \u201cfake concern,\u201d\u2019 meaning that you\u2019re more worried about them leaving you than you\u2019re worried about them being happy without you.<\/p>\n<p>Loving someone is all about partnership. It\u2019s about two souls who choose to commit to each other and praise their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s never about possession or any other way of control because you don\u2019t have the need for it.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 disposto a fazer tudo por eles para os fazer felizes, mesmo que isso signifique deix\u00e1-los.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Estar apaixonado tem a ver com a forma como nos fazem sentir, amar algu\u00e9m tem a ver com a forma como o fazemos sentir<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124174\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-hugging-with-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita e sorridente abra\u00e7ada ao namorado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-hugging-with-boyfriend.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-hugging-with-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-hugging-with-boyfriend-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-hugging-with-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-hugging-with-boyfriend-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-hugging-with-boyfriend-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-hugging-with-boyfriend-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-hugging-with-boyfriend-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Being in love is about how you perceive yourself when you\u2019re with them. It is about how they make you feel when you\u2019re spending time with them.<\/p>\n<p>Trata-se tamb\u00e9m de saber como se sente quando deixam de lhe dar o que precisa.<\/p>\n<p>A maior parte das vezes, quando deixam de nos dar aten\u00e7\u00e3o e deixamos de sentir o que sentimos, perdemo-lo.<\/p>\n<p>Mas amar algu\u00e9m tem mais a ver com a forma como o fazemos sentir.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s about helping them fulfill their dreams, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ficar-solteiro-ate-conhecer-a-pessoa-que-o-faz-rir-tanto-que-lhe-doi-o-estomago\/\">faz\u00ea-los rir<\/a>, levantando-os quando est\u00e3o tristes.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s about feeling constant bliss because of selfless giving and not only receiving.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Estar apaixonado \u00e9 uma batalha constante, mas amar algu\u00e9m \u00e9 f\u00e1cil<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124176\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-man-hugging-tight-smiling-woman.jpg\" alt=\"jovem abra\u00e7a mulher sorridente e apertada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-man-hugging-tight-smiling-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-man-hugging-tight-smiling-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-man-hugging-tight-smiling-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-man-hugging-tight-smiling-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-man-hugging-tight-smiling-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-man-hugging-tight-smiling-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-man-hugging-tight-smiling-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-man-hugging-tight-smiling-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Estar apaixonado \u00e9 uma batalha constante e uma montanha-russa onde se luta para se compreender a si pr\u00f3prio e ao seu parceiro.<\/p>\n<p>Lutamos para conquistar a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o apenas porque queremos que continuem a amar-nos.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 uma batalha constante entre quem est\u00e1 errado e quem est\u00e1 certo, e dar prioridade \u00e0 nossa pr\u00f3pria felicidade.<\/p>\n<p>Por outro lado, amar algu\u00e9m \u00e9 muito f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n<p>Even though you\u2019re making giant efforts to make things function, it is still effortless to you, since you are doing it because you genuinely want to love them and not only for them to keep loving you.<\/p>\n<p>Amar algu\u00e9m \u00e9 sempre f\u00e1cil porque \u00e9 algo natural para n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">When you\u2019re in love with someone, you can fall out of love with that someone, whereas loving someone is forever<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124177\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-hugging-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem a abra\u00e7ar um homem\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-hugging-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-hugging-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-hugging-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-hugging-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-hugging-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-hugging-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-hugging-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-hugging-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>I know, the first thing that probably popped in your mind is: how is it even possible to fall out of love with someone when you\u2019re in love with someone?<\/p>\n<p>Mas, esta parece-me ser auto-explicativa.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re in love with someone you can fall out of love with someone because you didn\u2019t choose to love them in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Your mind has fallen in love with them and your mind has decided to romanticize your partner and the relationship you\u2019re in.<\/p>\n<p>E quando a nossa mente decide que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o est\u00e1 entretida ou quando as coisas se tornam dif\u00edceis, \u00e9 a\u00ed que nos apaixonamos.<\/p>\n<p>Amar algu\u00e9m \u00e9 o verdadeiro oposto. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/grande-diferenca-entre-ligar-alguem-que-ama-alguem\/\">Amar algu\u00e9m<\/a> \u00e9 para sempre.<\/p>\n<p>When you love someone, they become a part of you, wherever you go, and whatever you do. You simply can\u2019t stop loving them.<\/p>\n<p>Eles podem partir, mas nunca sair\u00e3o do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ou da sua mente. O seu amor por eles vive para sempre.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Loving someone is all about mutual trust and commitment, while being in love doesn\u2019t have to be<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124178\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-hugging-smiling-man-who-works-on-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"mulher abra\u00e7a um homem sorridente que trabalha num computador port\u00e1til\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-hugging-smiling-man-who-works-on-laptop.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-hugging-smiling-man-who-works-on-laptop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-hugging-smiling-man-who-works-on-laptop-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-hugging-smiling-man-who-works-on-laptop-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-hugging-smiling-man-who-works-on-laptop-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-hugging-smiling-man-who-works-on-laptop-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-hugging-smiling-man-who-works-on-laptop-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-hugging-smiling-man-who-works-on-laptop-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Amar algu\u00e9m baseia-se na confian\u00e7a m\u00fatua, no compromisso e na liga\u00e7\u00e3o profunda que partilham um com o outro.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s never about trying hard not to screw things up; it is about trying hard to keep giving and making them happy.<\/p>\n<p>Being in love doesn\u2019t have to be based on mutual trust and commitment.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re in love because your mind has decided so and you have no real influence over it.<\/p>\n<p>Mas, para amar verdadeiramente algu\u00e9m, a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o tem de ser constru\u00edda com base na confian\u00e7a e na reciprocidade m\u00fatua.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando amamos algu\u00e9m, nunca duvidamos da nossa decis\u00e3o de nos entregarmos totalmente a essa pessoa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124179\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/charming-couple-cuddling-in-bed-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"casal encantador a abra\u00e7ar-se na cama e a conversar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/charming-couple-cuddling-in-bed-and-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/charming-couple-cuddling-in-bed-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/charming-couple-cuddling-in-bed-and-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/charming-couple-cuddling-in-bed-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/charming-couple-cuddling-in-bed-and-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/charming-couple-cuddling-in-bed-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/charming-couple-cuddling-in-bed-and-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/charming-couple-cuddling-in-bed-and-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Estar apaixonado est\u00e1 muitas vezes associado a arrependimentos, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/a-vida-e-demasiado-curta-para-perder-tempo-com-aldraboes\/\">tempo perdido<\/a>, e similares.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 muitas vezes associada a demasiados \"e se\" e a uma reavalia\u00e7\u00e3o das suas decis\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>Quando as coisas come\u00e7am a desmoronar-se e a n\u00e3o corresponder \u00e0s suas expectativas, arrepende-se de estar apaixonado por elas.<\/p>\n<p>Mas, quando se ama verdadeiramente algu\u00e9m, nunca se questiona a decis\u00e3o de dar tudo de si a essa pessoa, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n<p>Fez tudo isso porque quis e porque lhe pareceu correto faz\u00ea-lo; \u00e9 por isso que nunca se arrependeu de nada.<\/p>\n<p>Amar algu\u00e9m significa amar desinteressadamente com todo o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, corpo e alma e nunca se arrepender, mesmo que tudo \u00e0 sua volta esteja a desmoronar.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124167\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/10-Key-Differences-Between-Loving-Someone-And-Being-In-Love-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"10 diferen\u00e7as fundamentais entre amar algu\u00e9m e estar apaixonado\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/10-Key-Differences-Between-Loving-Someone-And-Being-In-Love-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/10-Key-Differences-Between-Loving-Someone-And-Being-In-Love-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/10-Key-Differences-Between-Loving-Someone-And-Being-In-Love-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you really love someone or you\u2019re just in love with them? What is the difference between \u2018love\u2019 and \u2018in love\u2019? Like many of you out there, too late did I realize that being in love with someone is not the same as loving them. It took me a few years, a few breakups, and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":124180,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35224","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/10-Key-Differences-Between-Loving-Someone-And-Being-In-Love-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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