. It\u2019s like a vicious circle you can\u2019t get out of\u2026<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\nOs narcisistas t\u00eam uma forma de nos arrastar para a sua teia de mentiras e manipula\u00e7\u00e3o com tanta facilidade que n\u00e3o nos podemos culpar se acabarmos por cair na armadilha.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\u00c0 partida, nunca aparecem como realmente s\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
They wear a mask up until the moment they know they\u2019ve got you hooked, and that\u2019s when their real face is finally out in the open.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Para o ajudar a deixar de se apaixonar por estes idiotas sociopatas, eis as qualidades mais comuns que todos os narcisistas partilham.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Isto deve ajud\u00e1-lo a reconhec\u00ea-las a tempo e a poupar-se \u00e0 inevit\u00e1vel mis\u00e9ria e arrependimento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
1. They don\u2019t give a shit how they make you feel<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Causar dor \u00e0s pessoas d\u00e1-lhes alegria. Podem tentar escond\u00ea-lo, mas raramente o conseguem.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
O narcisista n\u00e3o s\u00f3 n\u00e3o se importa se as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es ou palavras o magoam, como tamb\u00e9m se diverte se o fizerem!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Isto \u00e9 como combust\u00edvel para eles. Quanto mais o virem reagir negativamente a algo que fizeram, mais felizes e mais satisfeitos ficam consigo pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Muitas vezes, ele far\u00e1 tudo o que for preciso para te magoar, s\u00f3 para se poder deleitar com isso.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
It\u2019s sick and twisted and if you notice your guy secretly doing this. Dump his conniving ass this minute.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
2. Nunca mostrar\u00e3o arrependimento pelas suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es de merda<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Esta \u00e9 a sua \u00e1rea de especializa\u00e7\u00e3o. Por muito mau que seja o que fazem, convencer-se-\u00e3o de que est\u00e3o no caminho certo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
And in their head, they can do no wrong, because they\u2019re simply better than you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Regardless of how negatively it has affected you or anyone else, they don\u2019t believe in apologies and they will never show any signs of regret for how they make you feel.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
And if you ever do hear \u201csorry\u201d from them, it\u2019s going to be the fakest apology you\u2019ve ever heard!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
They\u2019ll make sure you notice how much they don\u2019t mean it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
3. They\u2019re like a ticking time bomb (you never know when they\u2019ll go off!)<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n No fundo, os narcisistas s\u00e3o extremamente vulner\u00e1veis, no sentido em que a mais pequena coisa pode perturb\u00e1-los para al\u00e9m das palavras e lev\u00e1-los a um ataque de raiva.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
They may seem calm and collected on the surface, but one wrong word, and they\u2019ll go off on you like crazy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
You\u2019re always left wondering if the next thing you say or do is going to be that thing that sets them off and you\u2019re always secretly afraid because you don\u2019t know how badly they\u2019re going to react.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
They have so much pent-up anger inside that it\u2019s never safe upsetting them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
E se pensarmos em ir embora, sabemos muito bem o quanto isso os pode enlouquecer, por isso limitamo-nos a seguir o que eles dizem e tentamos mant\u00ea-los felizes \u00e0 nossa pr\u00f3pria custa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
4. Fazem um grande alarido de tudo<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n They are known to believe they are better than anyone else, but just in case, they\u2019ll make up stories that will make them appear that way and convince you of it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
They are masters of manipulation and they can turn any story into an event of a lifetime, intriguing you so much that you\u2019ll actually believe it\u2019s true, which it rarely is.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Precisam de ter o seu ego sempre elevado e de manter a sua autoestima em alta, pelo que muitas vezes exageram para manter a charada.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
5. Fazem-nos sentir in\u00fateis e incapazes de fazer algo de jeito<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n As if it\u2019s not already a complete nightmare being around them, they will go out of their way to point out what a useless piece of shit you are and bury you deeper in self-pity and despair.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Por muito que se tente agradar ao narcisista, nada do que se faz est\u00e1 certo e, mesmo que esteja, ele nunca o admitir\u00e1.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Tudo o que fazem \u00e9 fazer-nos sentir que nada do que fazemos \u00e9 suficiente, e isso \u00e9 apenas porque precisam de nos manter por perto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
If they made you feel good about yourself, they would risk giving you the courage and confidence to realize you\u2019re better than that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
So they keep you feeling like shit to make you stay, knowing you can\u2019t find better than them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
6. Eles controlam secretamente tudo o que fazes<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Eles s\u00e3o extremamente manipuladores e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que se possa fazer sem passar primeiro por eles. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Fazem-nos sentir culpados se fizermos planos com os nossos amigos sem os consultar, por isso acabamos sempre por pedir autoriza\u00e7\u00e3o para as coisas mais aleat\u00f3rias.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
You can\u2019t get out of the house without telling them exactly where you\u2019ll be and with whom, and even then, you need to check in with them hourly.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Sente-se encurralado e controlado, mas receia que, se lhes resistir, s\u00f3 vai piorar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
You are basically under their control, and you don\u2019t see the light at the end of the tunnel.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Se esta \u00e9 a sua realidade e reconhece algum destes tra\u00e7os cru\u00e9is, est\u00e1 a lidar com um mestre manipulador de tend\u00eancias narcisistas e precisa de fugir o mais depressa poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Don\u2019t be afraid to ask for help, and do whatever is best for you. Good luck!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\nIn order to be able to steer clear of narcissistic assholes once and for all, it\u2019s important to recognize certain traits and qualities that they all share, which will make it easier to notice them and keep away from them in future. Sometimes, it\u2019s easier to turn a blind eye and hope you\u2019ll be spared…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":35268,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35267","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/backlight-backlit-dawn-1204135.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35267","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35267"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35267\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35268"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35267"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35267"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35267"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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