{"id":35283,"date":"2019-04-10T06:44:12","date_gmt":"2019-04-10T06:44:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35283"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:20:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:20:52","slug":"a-licao-de-amor-mais-amarga-que-o-seu-parceiro-toxico-lhe-ensinou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-licao-de-amor-mais-amarga-que-o-seu-parceiro-toxico-lhe-ensinou\/","title":{"rendered":"A li\u00e7\u00e3o de amor mais amarga que o seu parceiro t\u00f3xico lhe ensinou"},"content":{"rendered":"

A vida \u00e9 um turbilh\u00e3o imprevis\u00edvel de acontecimentos inesperados. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por vezes, acabamos por contar com a sorte e, outras vezes, acabamos por aprender li\u00e7\u00f5es dif\u00edceis mas inestim\u00e1veis.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ambos os momentos s\u00e3o igualmente necess\u00e1rios para nos mantermos de p\u00e9 e conscientes de que, por muito que tentemos planear a nossa vida, isso nunca funciona.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

O que \u00e9 destinado a n\u00f3s acaba sempre por nos encontrar, mas s\u00f3 depois de termos enfrentado algumas dificuldades dif\u00edceis que nos tornaram fortes, mulher corajosa<\/a> que \u00e9s hoje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O mesmo se aplica ao amor.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Damos sempre aquele salto de f\u00e9 para o desconhecido, rezando para que nos leve a um lugar novo, m\u00e1gico e seguro. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Somewhere we won\u2019t get hurt but rather shown the extent of the deepest love possible and thrive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mas antes de sermos aben\u00e7oados com esse tipo de amor especial, \u00fanico na vida, \u00e9 normal passarmos por algumas dificuldades que abalam o nosso mundo e nos fazem pensar que a nossa alma foi esmagada para sempre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Luckily, that is rarely the case but the toughest lesson you\u2019ve probably learned seemed so cruel and devastating at the time and now you are thankful, because all it did was made you stronger and much more resilient.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acontece sempre quando menos se espera.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You are beaming with joy and content and feel like you\u2019re on cloud nine most of the time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O seu homem<\/a> is showering you with love, affection and kindness and you\u2019ve never been happier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It kind of seems like things are too good to be true but somehow, it just works and you wouldn\u2019t dream of doing anything to jeopardize it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Until that one thing happens. Until the man you feel so blessed to have crushes you with those five painful words\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018\u2019I don\u2019t love you anymore.\u2019\u2019<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

E um dia, simplesmente p\u00e1ra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fica surpreendido.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t believe what you\u2019re hearing and you can\u2019t accept it.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O homem que a faz sentir a mulher mais feliz do mundo decidiu de repente que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o a ama e o que \u00e9 suposto fazer com isso?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Como \u00e9 que se deve reagir ao ouvir essas palavras que nos esmagam a alma e que, na realidade, arruinaram as nossas esperan\u00e7as e sonhos?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The man you planned your future with no longer deems you worthy of his attention and no matter how painfully crushed you feel, that\u2019s your reality and it\u2019s not going to change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esta \u00e9 uma daquelas coisas que ou nos vai quebrar ou nos vai tornar dez vezes mais fortes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este \u00e9 o momento em que decide que, por mais destro\u00e7ada que esteja, n\u00e3o vai deixar que isso, ou ele, mate o seu esp\u00edrito e esmague a sua alma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You are faced with a brutal truth and there\u2019s no getting around it. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yesterday, you were as happy as one can be and today, your heart is shattered and you truly don\u2019t feel like you can move on.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

How one person can cause you so much pain is incomprehensible to you… but unfortunately, it\u2019s all too real right now.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nunca pensou que isto lhe pudesse acontecer e, mesmo que tivesse acontecido, tinha a certeza de que este tipo era a \u00faltima pessoa que lhe poderia fazer tal coisa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He was supposed to be your \u2018one\u2019!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Como eu disse, o desgosto e a dor encontram-nos sempre quando estamos mais felizes.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A vida funciona de forma estranha, mas, de certa forma, esta \u00e9 uma chamada de aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> that you didn\u2019t even know you needed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Recuperar de uma rutura t\u00e3o dura que nunca se previu \u00e9 uma li\u00e7\u00e3o que nunca se compreenderia verdadeiramente at\u00e9 passar por ela.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s bitter, it\u2019s raw and it\u2019s world-shattering.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One can\u2019t really comprehend it without surviving it first and that\u2019s exactly what you did. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You survived and you\u2019re doing better than you ever thought you could.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What\u2019s important to understand in situations like this is that it\u2019s never your fault.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can love someone to the moon and back and they can still decide you\u2019re not suficientemente bom<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pode fazer tudo o que quiser por essa pessoa e ela continua a ter a coragem de o deixar e ir \u00e0 procura de algu\u00e9m melhor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 um reflexo de quem \u00e9s<\/a> como pessoa. Isso n\u00e3o o define, nem o torna insuficiente ou n\u00e3o suficientemente bom. Lembra-te disso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

People will do all kinds of vicious things and there\u2019s nothing you can do to stop it other than keeping your head up and walking out of that situation dignified.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nunca os deixe v\u00ea-lo chorar e nunca os deixe ver o quanto o magoaram. O mais prov\u00e1vel \u00e9 que isso s\u00f3 lhes aumente o ego.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vai para casa, chora e desabafa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do whatever you need to relieve your soul of this hurt and don\u2019t feel like you need to be strong for anyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You deserve to go through this however you choose, as long as you decide that you\u2019re not letting it mark you for life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once your tears have dried and your soul feels a little more at ease, rise above this and take this lesson as the most invaluable thing you\u2019ll ever learn.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tu mereces o mundo. Mereces a man who won\u2019t give up on you<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mereces um homem que saiba o quanto \u00e9s preciosa e que nunca sonharia em magoar-te t\u00e3o profundamente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por isso, at\u00e9 que esse homem apare\u00e7a, fa\u00e7a o que for preciso para voltar a esse lugar saud\u00e1vel e feliz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are no rules on how to grieve. And when you\u2019re finally back to your old self, you\u2019ll be ready for that all-encompassing type of love that will find you and sweep you off your feet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because just like pain, love always finds you when you\u2019re on the verge of giving up on it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And isn\u2019t that the true beauty of this thing called life?<\/em>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Life is one unpredictable whirlwind of unexpected events. Sometimes you end up counting your lucky stars and other times you end up learning tough yet invaluable lessons. Both times are equally necessary in order to keep us grounded and aware that as much as you try to plan your life out, it never really works….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":35284,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35283","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/backlit-dawn-field-1118871.jpg",800,450,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35283","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35283"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35283\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35284"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35283"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35283"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35283"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}