{"id":35287,"date":"2019-04-10T06:51:54","date_gmt":"2019-04-10T06:51:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35287"},"modified":"2022-06-20T23:29:16","modified_gmt":"2022-06-20T23:29:16","slug":"8-expectativas-irracionais-que-os-homens-tem-em-relacao-as-mulheres-nos-relacionamentos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-expectativas-irracionais-que-os-homens-tem-em-relacao-as-mulheres-nos-relacionamentos\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Expectativas irracionais que os homens t\u00eam em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s mulheres nos relacionamentos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 excitante (especialmente no in\u00edcio) e passar tempo com o seu parceiro \u00e9 uma verdadeira felicidade.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>De repente, sentimos que o tempo parou, come\u00e7amos finalmente a compreender todos aqueles filmes e cita\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas e tudo se encaixa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Mas \u00e0 medida que o tempo passa, apercebemo-nos tamb\u00e9m que estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 muito mais do que apenas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/jogos-de-mensagens-de-texto-divertidos\/\">divertir-se em conjunto<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>T\u00eam certas responsabilidades um para com o outro e uma delas \u00e9 gerir as vossas pr\u00f3prias expectativas na rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ter expectativas razo\u00e1veis \u00e9 um aspeto importante de qualquer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/here-is-the-key-to-a-successful-relationship\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o de sucesso<\/a> e, na maioria das vezes, s\u00e3o as mulheres que est\u00e3o a ser acusadas de esperar demasiado dos seus homens.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Mas a verdade \u00e9 que os homens s\u00e3o culpados do mesmo erro e at\u00e9 com mais frequ\u00eancia do que qualquer mulher por a\u00ed!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Esquecem-se de que uma mulher tem prefer\u00eancias e vontade pr\u00f3pria e que n\u00e3o \u00e9 um peixinho m\u00e1gico que est\u00e1 l\u00e1 para satisfazer todos os seus desejos (tamb\u00e9m rima), o que muitas vezes resulta em discuss\u00f5es ou mesmo numa separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Para evitar que estes inconvenientes aconte\u00e7am no futuro, aqui est\u00e3o 8 expectativas irracionais que voc\u00eas, homens, t\u00eam para as vossas mulheres nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Ela tem de estar perfeitamente barbeada (a toda a hora)<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Embora seja correto esperar que a sua mulher n\u00e3o se pare\u00e7a com um gorila peludo, n\u00e3o \u00e9 correto esperar que ela esteja perfeitamente barbeada todos os dias.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>I mean, you guys have fewer body parts to shave than us women and you still aren\u2019t doing it every day, right?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>So, instead of nagging about her \u2018hairy legs\u2019, just appreciate her willingness to shave ever because (if you didn\u2019t know) there\u2019s a new generation of women out there who are proudly embracing their body hair and who really don\u2019t give a damn about what you think.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Ela tem de ouvir a mesma m\u00fasica que tu<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>So what if she\u2019s listening to Rihanna, Ariana Grande, country folk or a mix of two or three music genres?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>When she decided to be in a relationship with you, she didn\u2019t sign a piece of paper where she specifically claimed that she would never listen to certain types of music (that you\u2019re not a fan of).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Respeite as escolhas dela no que diz respeito \u00e0 m\u00fasica, tal como ela respeita as suas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Don\u2019t expect her to pretend that she\u2019s enjoying listening to your favorite artist if you\u2019re not doing the same for her.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Ela tem de deixar de reconhecer\/perceber outros homens como atraentes<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Eu sei que queres que a tua mulher repare apenas em ti e que seja a mais <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-saber-se-e-um-homem-atraente\/\">homem atraente<\/a> nos olhos dela, mas est\u00e1s pronto para fazer o mesmo por ela?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>When a hot woman passes by, do you turn a blind eye because you\u2019re solely devoted to your woman, both mentally and physically?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>We all know that you don\u2019t, so don\u2019t you dare expect her to stop paying attention to all those hot guys out there.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Just noticing them doesn\u2019t mean that she\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-saber-se-ele-a-esta-a-trair-com-base-no-seu-comportamento-diario\/\">enganar-vos<\/a> e vice-versa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>So, be a man and expect the fact that there will always be someone who is hotter and younger than you but still she has chosen to be with you and there\u2019s no need to be suspicious of her intentions.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Ela tem de agir mais como uma senhora<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>What does it even mean to act like a lady in today\u2019s world full of mixed opinions and trends?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Unless she\u2019s walking down the street with her hand down her pants (like you when you\u2019re watching football at home), then I don\u2019t see the point of nagging about her <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/6-coisas-que-os-homens-realmente-gostam-numa-mulher-para-alem-da-sua-aparencia\/\">aspeto feminino<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, \u00e9 preciso compreender que as mulheres j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se comportam como donzelas em perigo porque s\u00e3o perfeitamente capazes de resolver os problemas sozinhas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>S\u00e3o filhas, m\u00e3es, irm\u00e3s, namoradas e esposas capazes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>They tolerate your bullshit, their PMS, their children\u2019s wishes, the stress of their job, they cook, they love with all of their heart.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Por isso, pedir-lhe que se comporte mais como uma senhora, para al\u00e9m de tudo isso, \u00e9 um pouco indelicado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Ela tem de estar de acordo em tudo<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>O compromisso \u00e9 a base de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Compromising means understanding and appreciating your woman\u2019s opinions (and vice versa) and not forcing her to see eye to eye with you on everything.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Your woman has a mind of her own and she\u2019s not wired to just nod to and agree on everything you say to her.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>She will contradict you, tell you when she doesn\u2019t agree on something and even fight with you if she thinks she\u2019s right.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>E ela tamb\u00e9m espera o mesmo de si.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Ela tem de deixar de sair com os seus amigos homens<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>A s\u00e9rio, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de mostrar actos de ci\u00fame quando se trata dos amigos homens dela.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>There is no need to forbid her from spending time with them just because you don\u2019t trust them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>A \u00fanica pessoa em quem tens de confiar \u00e9 nela, porque ela escolheu estar contigo (e n\u00e3o com eles)!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>And by choosing to be with you, she didn\u2019t mean to discard her own personal life for you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ela continua a ser a mesma pessoa e continua a ter necessidade de alimentar as suas amizades, tal como tu.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Ela tem de ajustar a maquilhagem e o guarda-roupa \u00e0s suas prefer\u00eancias<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Muitos homens pensam que as mulheres se maquilham s\u00f3 por causa deles ou que vestem determinadas roupas s\u00f3 para eles.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Embora isto seja parcialmente verdade, n\u00e3o \u00e9 certamente exclusivo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>\u00c9 que as mulheres gostam de cuidar de si pr\u00f3prias porque se sentem bem e isso tamb\u00e9m as ajuda a aumentar a sua confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Elas n\u00e3o est\u00e3o a fazer tudo isto s\u00f3 por sua causa, por isso nunca deve esperar que ela ajuste a maquilhagem e o guarda-roupa \u00e0s suas prefer\u00eancias, porque n\u00e3o \u00e9 justo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">8. Ela tem de passar todo o seu tempo livre consigo<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Just because she\u2019s in a relationship with you this doesn\u2019t mean that she shouldn\u2019t spend any of her free time with her friends or other people as well.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If she\u2019s respecting your need to have a guy night, you should also respect her need to have a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/15-ideias-alternativas-e-economicas-para-a-sua-noite-de-raparigas\/\">noite de raparigas.<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Giving each other space in a relationship is the best thing you can do for yourself, so don\u2019t turn into a crybaby when she decides to spend her time with someone else instead of just you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-35289\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-10T085108.029-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"8 Expectativas irracionais que os homens t\u00eam em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s mulheres nos relacionamentos\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-10T085108.029-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-10T085108.029-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-10T085108.029.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Being in a relationship is exciting (especially at the beginning) and spending time together with your partner feels like true bliss. All of a sudden, you feel like time has stopped, you finally start to understand all of those romantic movies and quotes and everything falls into place. 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