{"id":3531,"date":"2017-08-14T13:32:59","date_gmt":"2017-08-14T13:32:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3531"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:13:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:13:09","slug":"ele-esta-a-dizer-que-esta-bebado-sozinho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-esta-a-dizer-que-esta-bebado-sozinho\/","title":{"rendered":"Ele s\u00f3 est\u00e1 a ligar porque est\u00e1 b\u00eabado e sozinho"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o atendas o telefone.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the call you\u2019ve been waiting for, isn\u2019t it? It\u2019s the sound you have heard ringing in your sleep for so many nights.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s your first look at your phone and the hope it\u2019s his number\u2014calling to apologize, to tell you he loves you and wants you back.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s him and all you\u2019ve been waiting for and you\u2019re fingers are itching to pick up, aren\u2019t they?<\/p>\n

Mas, antes de pegar, h\u00e1 algo que precisa de saber.<\/p>\n

Quantas vezes \u00e9 que ele te fez isto?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve tried to move on so many times, but somehow he always gets in your way. Either he calls, texts, shows up, or you hear his name in your head and you drop everything.<\/p>\n

You drop everything waiting for him to spread his arms and welcome you in his hugs, but it isn\u2019t really happening how you\u2019ve pictured it.<\/p>\n

Ele consegue fazer-nos sentir como ningu\u00e9m.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Because you gave him that much power. You\u2019ve allowed him to become so important and you can\u2019t help but want him.<\/p>\n

Mas se se der a si pr\u00f3pria uma semana para pensar nele sem que os seus sentimentos perturbem o seu julgamento, as coisas cristalizar-se-\u00e3o um pouco.<\/p>\n

You\u2019d see he isn\u2019t as special as you thought. He isn\u2019t even average, but you made him perfect and #1. That\u2019s what you do\u2014you give people much more credit than they deserve.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m<\/strong>: <\/b>Mereces ser tratado como merda<\/a><\/p>\n

Mas esquecem-se sempre do jogador que ele \u00e9.<\/b><\/p>\n

See, whenever he rings you up, you\u2019re the first to show up. You\u2019re like those duty officers that are first to arrive at the crime scene.<\/p>\n

But, honestly and harshly, that\u2019s all you\u2019ll ever be. There is no higher position for you in his police station.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him in.<\/b><\/p>\n

He is not calling because he\u2019s taking you seriously this time. He\u2019s not calling because he knows you\u2019re worthy. He\u2019s not calling because he wants you to get back together.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 a telefonar porque precisa de si como um parasita precisa de outra vida para se alimentar. Ele precisa que tomem conta dele, que o amem e que cuidem dele. Ele precisa do seu amor, da sua generosidade e dos seus olhos quentes.<\/p>\n

He needs to not be alone now when everybody else has left him. He\u2019s calling because he\u2019s drunk and he\u2019s alone. It\u2019s the same story all over again.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t be flattered by the guy who calls you only when he\u2019s drunk. No, it doesn\u2019t mean he loves you.<\/p>\n

It means he just needs you, and you\u2019re the only person he knows who will pick up the phone.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Instead, you should be flattered with a grown-ass man who\u2019s not afraid to call you when he\u2019s sober, treat you right, and dar-vos o amor que merecem.<\/a><\/p>\n

You\u2019re constantly preventing yourself from getting over him. <\/b><\/p>\n

Cada vez que ele telefona, o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o salta uma batida. Cada vez que v\u00eas o nome dele no teu ecr\u00e3, apetece-te gritar de alegria.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t deserve it. Remember how many nights you have spent dry-heaving out of desire for him?<\/p>\n

Quantas vezes te deitaste no ch\u00e3o a desejar que a dor desaparecesse e que nunca o tivesses conhecido? Quantas vezes quiseste apag\u00e1-lo da tua mem\u00f3ria?<\/p>\n

E, no entanto, basta um telefonema dele para nos fazer esquecer toda a dor e todas as l\u00e1grimas de arrependimento que deix\u00e1mos cair por ele.<\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m tem de vos dizer que a pr\u00e1tica leva \u00e0 perfei\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Pode ser que agora n\u00e3o o apanhe, mas mais tarde ele ser\u00e1 apenas um nome aleat\u00f3rio no ecr\u00e3.<\/p>\n

I promise he won\u2019t know you wanted and waited for him to call. He won\u2019t know how much you miss him. Nobody will ever tell him how much you\u2019re hurting.<\/b><\/p>\n

But he\u2019ll think you\u2019re doing just fine without him and that there is no place for him in your life. Eventually, it will be so. He doesn\u2019t need to know it\u2019s different now. <\/b><\/p>\n

Depois, he\u2019ll realize what has he lost. <\/a><\/b> He\u2019ll be aware that he treated you the way nobody should ever be treated and he\u2019ll regret all the times he ignored you, manipulated you, and made you feel bad about yourself.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll keep calling the only person who loved him for who he was, but you\u2019ll just let it ring.<\/p>\n

Because, sooner or later, there will be somebody who\u2019ll treat you better than him.<\/p>\n

There will be somebody who\u2019ll give you the love you deserve\u2014and it\u2019s not him. <\/b><\/p>\n

He doesn’t deserve to hear your voice.<\/p>\n

\"Ele<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Don\u2019t pick up the phone. It\u2019s the call you\u2019ve been waiting for, isn\u2019t it? It\u2019s the sound you have heard ringing in your sleep for so many nights. It\u2019s your first look at your phone and the hope it\u2019s his number\u2014calling to apologize, to tell you he loves you and wants you back. It\u2019s him…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":111934,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3531","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Hes-Only-Calling-Because-Hes-Drunk-And-Alone-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3531","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3531"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3531\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/111934"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3531"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3531"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3531"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}