\u00c9 preciso muita energia, paci\u00eancia e f\u00e9 para ultrapassar uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00e3o traum\u00e1tica, especialmente quando se trata da pessoa com quem planeou toda a sua vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A parte mais desgastante do processo de o esquecer \u00e9 o seu pedido incessante para o aceitar de volta.
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He\u2019ll faithfully promise it was merely a lapse in judgement that meant less than nothing and he would never dream of doing it again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As if it wasn\u2019t difficult enough as it is, now you have to fight your persistent urge to forgive him because you just don\u2019t want to stop loving him. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n E quem vos pode culpar!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n At\u00e9 h\u00e1 pouco tempo, ele era o vosso mundo. <\/em> Ele era <\/em>o teu melhor amigo<\/em><\/a>, your rock, and the person you could laugh for hours on end with\u2026 <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n And now, he\u2019s just somebody you barely recognize anymore, but don\u2019t want to let go of.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019ve recently been cheated on and you\u2019re contemplating taking him back, I feel you. I really do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s truly devastating letting go of somebody who means that much to you, but sometimes, even though you can\u2019t see it at the time, that is exactly what you should do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Gostava de ter sabido certas coisas antes de ter perdoado o meu ex traidor<\/a> and went back into that emotional turmoil, but trust me, it\u2019s never the same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Learn from somebody who\u2019s been through the wringer, and let my mistakes help you make the best decision for yourself. Eis tudo o que deve saber antes de decidir aceit\u00e1-lo de volta. If you forgive him and decide to take him back, at first, it\u2019s going to feel like pure bliss. <\/p>\n\n\n\n He\u2019ll be on his absolute best behaviour and he\u2019ll make amends every chance he gets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ele vai encher-te de amor, carinho e gratid\u00e3o e tu vais sentir-te como uma rainha. You will be able to temporarily ignore the cold fact that he did in fact cheat on you. You\u2019ll try to put it behind you, and for a while, you\u2019ll succeed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mas, um dia, volta a aparecer. He\u2019s going to say something or do something that\u2019s immediately going to take you back to the day you found out, and you will remember what he\u2019s capable of.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You\u2019ll try to ignore it, but it won\u2019t be possible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ele tomou-te por garantida, decidiu dormir com outra mulher<\/a>, and you\u2019ll never be able to fully forgive and forget, no matter how hard you\u2019ll want to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You\u2019ll actively try to move on and stop focusing on what he did. You may even consider therapy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You\u2019ll do whatever it takes and you will truly try to move past this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But the thing is, it\u2019s always going to be in the back of your head. <\/p>\n\n\n\n When you walk down the street and he merely glances at another woman passing by, you\u2019ll be pissed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He\u2019ll be texting somebody, and all you\u2019ll be able to think about is who the other person is and if he\u2019s making a fool out of you again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nenhuma terapia ser\u00e1 capaz de o fazer esquecer, e a paranoia e a raiva estar\u00e3o sempre presentes. Learning to live with this is a long, draining process that doesn\u2019t always work, and sometimes, that ends up being for the best.<\/p>\n\n\n\n At times, you\u2019ll wonder what she looks like. Is she prettier, thinner, or younger than you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Is she more easy-going and carefree? Does she make him laugh like you can\u2019t? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Or is she simply a beast in the sheets that you just can\u2019t compete with?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Todas estas perguntas v\u00e3o surgir na sua cabe\u00e7a e v\u00e3o deix\u00e1-lo t\u00e3o inseguro quanto poss\u00edvel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s going to be exhausting as hell comparing yourself to his mi\u00fada do lado<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You\u2019ll hate it that he made you so weak and self-conscious, but it\u2019s going to be your reality whether you like it or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You won\u2019t be able to get her out of your head. You\u2019ll try to find out her name, where she lives, and whatever else you can get your hands on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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<\/p>\n\n\n\n1. Os seus problemas passados nunca deixar\u00e3o de o assombrar (por muito que os ignore)<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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<\/p>\n\n\n\n2. Getting past his infidelity is going to be hard work and it won\u2019t happen overnight<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
<\/p>\n\n\n\n3. As tuas inseguran\u00e7as v\u00e3o vir \u00e0 tona<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
4. The fact that \u201cthe other woman\u201d is still out there somewhere will be torture<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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