{"id":35346,"date":"2020-05-11T08:24:24","date_gmt":"2020-05-11T08:24:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35346"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:04:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:04:31","slug":"se-fizeres-7-destas-14-coisas-es-uma-boa-namorada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-fizeres-7-destas-14-coisas-es-uma-boa-namorada\/","title":{"rendered":"Se fizeres 7 destas 14 coisas, \u00e9s uma boa namorada"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u00e1 tantos tipos de namoradas que vemos todos os dias e n\u00e3o podemos deixar de nos perguntar: \"Que tipo de namorada sou eu?\"<\/p>\n

Ou uma pergunta ainda melhor para fazer a si pr\u00f3prio, \u201cWhich type of a girlfriend should I be?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es tornaram-se t\u00e3o dif\u00edceis porque as pessoas se tornaram t\u00e3o complicadas. Irritamo-nos por coisas pequenas, ressentimo-nos de coisas est\u00fapidas.<\/p>\n

Basta um bocadinho para nos fazer passar dos limites, o que traz problemas para as nossas rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, as we get so easily angry with our other half in a relationship, we don\u2019t accept an apology so lightly.<\/p>\n

Face it, all of us have that no-one-will-screw-with-me attitude because it\u2019s hard to forget what someone said or did that bothered us.<\/p>\n

Well, relationships are not about resentment or suppressing anger. They aren\u2019t about keeping score of who did what and when.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s estamos sempre a esquecer-nos disso. As rela\u00e7\u00f5es devem ser sobre o amor e a capacidade de perdoar e seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 perfeito. Nem tu, nem ele, nem a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Onde \u00e9 que eu quero chegar com isto? <\/em><\/p>\n

Tendo dito tudo isto, quero que percebas que, independentemente do tipo de namorada que sejas, podes ser tA melhor namorada \u00e9 a sua namorada, consultando estas 15 dicas para o sucesso.<\/a><\/p>\n

If you mean well and you sincerely love the person you\u2019re with, you are indeed a boa namorada<\/a>.<\/p>\n

No entanto, sei que ainda t\u00eam as vossas d\u00favidas.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we are going to move on to the more analytical part of the article, to make you totally confident you\u2019re behaving exactly as you should.<\/p>\n

Se fizeres pelo menos 7 destas 14 coisas, \u00e9s um<\/em><\/strong> BOA NAMORADA<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9s a combina\u00e7\u00e3o perfeita de pegajoso e independente<\/h2>\n

\"bonita<\/p>\n

Nenhum homem lhe dir\u00e1 que gosta que a namorada esteja sempre perto dele.<\/p>\n

No one likes people who act like a lost puppy in a relationship \u2013 women who don\u2019t do anything by themselves and act like they have no life outside of the relationship.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, no one wants a woman who is too independent and doesn\u2019t need you for anything.<\/p>\n

If she can do everything by herself, what\u2019s the point of being in a relationship?<\/p>\n

Uma namorada perfeita sabe mover-se no meio termo entre ser pegajoso<\/a> e independente.<\/p>\n

Uma namorada perfeita sai com o namorado, passa o tempo a fazer coisas juntos, mas tem uma vida fora da rela\u00e7\u00e3o com os amigos e a fam\u00edlia, como \u00e9 suposto toda a gente ter.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re self-assured<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You know you look good and you feel good about yourself. You don\u2019t need anyone to keep telling you that you rock.<\/p>\n

You are perfectly aware of that, but you don\u2019t misuse it. You\u2019re not an ass to others just because you are confident.<\/p>\n

Os homens adoram raparigas que n\u00e3o est\u00e3o obcecadas com o facto de terem ou n\u00e3o bom aspeto e de as pessoas gostarem delas.<\/p>\n

O facto de n\u00e3o estar a planear mudar por ningu\u00e9m, porque gosta de si pr\u00f3prio tal como \u00e9, \u00e9 o que o torna \u00fanico e interessante.<\/p>\n

A tua personalidade e a tua mentalidade, tal como s\u00e3o, fazem de ti uma boa namorada.<\/p>\n

Fazes coisas boas para ele<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A vida quotidiana pode levar-nos a uma rotina aborrecida.<\/p>\n

Quando damos por isso, damos por n\u00f3s a fazer as mesmas coisas vezes sem conta, o que p\u00f5e em perigo a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Mesmo os casais que est\u00e3o juntos h\u00e1 mais tempo enfrentam estes problemas.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why the fact that you do small nice things for your boyfriend makes you a great girlfriend.<\/p>\n

Fazes-lhe caf\u00e9 de manh\u00e3, deixas-lhe um bilhete bonito em cima da mesa ou escreve-lhe um par\u00e1grafo de amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you do these or any of other selfless things for him, it means you\u2019re willing to keep the relationship alive even after so much time spent together.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re smart<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not childish; you\u2019ve outgrown the high school phase of dating and all the problems that come with it.<\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s what men are looking for \u2013 a mature and grown-ass woman who doesn\u2019t act like a spoiled brat.<\/p>\n

Os homens querem uma mulher ao seu lado que seja igual a eles e que os possa desafiar a n\u00edvel intelectual.<\/p>\n

Os homens precisam de um desafio e tu tens a intelig\u00eancia para o fazer.<\/p>\n

You never compare your relationship with someone else\u2019s<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Although it\u2019s extremely hard not to compare what you have with what someone else has, you somehow manage it.<\/p>\n

Seeing all those selfies of happy couples on social media doesn\u2019t make it easier to only look at your relationship, but you are confident enough and smart enough to know that nothing is exactly what it looks like.<\/p>\n

God knows what happens between that \u201chappy\u201d couple when they are not pretending to be the happiest by posting cute selfies on Instagram.<\/p>\n

Sure, you\u2019re not made of stone and you have critical moments too when you can\u2019t help but wonder if you are as happy as they are.<\/p>\n

Fortunately, you\u2019ve always made it through.<\/p>\n

\u00c9s dedicado<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

First, you\u2019ll never cheat. You never even thought of cheating. Second, you always have your man\u2019s back.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll always stick up for him.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if he\u2019s right or wrong, the point is you trust him and you care enough to defend what he believes in, even if you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

A devo\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que todos os homens apreciam. Se se comportar assim numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, confie em mim, eles retribuir\u00e3o o favor.<\/p>\n

Encoraja-o a seguir os seus sonhos<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You talk to him about what he wants. You listen to him talking about his dreams, about things he\u2019s passionate about.<\/p>\n

Even if those things don\u2019t mean anything to you, you\u2019ll respect them and you\u2019ll help him get there any way you know how.<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t do anything except listen to him and hear out his problems, you\u2019ll do it because that is the only way to encourage him to never throw in the towel.<\/p>\n

Deixa-o agir como um homem<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You are well aware of the fact that men and women are from two different worlds. We don\u2019t function or think the same way.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you won\u2019t make him do girly stuff, the stuff he doesn\u2019t feel comfortable doing. You don\u2019t want to make him feel less manly.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t follow him around making sure he doesn\u2019t do something stupid.<\/p>\n

Confia nele e sabe que ele tem de ter tempo para si pr\u00f3prio, tal como voc\u00ea tem de ter tempo para si pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n

Ele precisa de sair com os amigos homens e fazer coisas que os homens fazem.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t force him to be a romantic<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You know it\u2019s not his thing. He shows that he loves you in different ways. So, you don\u2019t pressure him into doing romantic gestures for you.<\/p>\n

You know he won\u2019t feel good because that\u2019s just not who he is.<\/p>\n

A maioria das pessoas demonstra o seu amor com grandes gestos rom\u00e2nticos, escapadelas surpresa e presentes giros.<\/p>\n

Even though you see this happening around you with your friends, you don\u2019t care that your man is not like that.<\/p>\n

Ele tem muito formas \u00fanicas de mostrar o quanto ele gosta de si<\/a> \u2013 and you\u2019re more than okay with that.<\/p>\n

Fazes com que ele queira melhorar<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You are going to bring out the best in him \u2013 you want to bring out the best in him.<\/p>\n

\u00c9s o seu apoio em todas as situa\u00e7\u00f5es e fazes com que ele queira tornar-se uma pessoa ainda melhor do que j\u00e1 \u00e9.<\/p>\n

A dada altura das suas vidas, um homem sente-se respons\u00e1vel pelo seu futuro e, na maioria dos casos, isso acontece por causa de uma mulher.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 assim que se influencia positivamente a vida dele. Fazes com que ele queira mudar e ser melhor.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t take your anger out on him, even if you\u2019re having a bad day<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to keep your emotions under control. Some days you just feel simply bad; you aren\u2019t in the mood to talk to anyone, not even him.<\/p>\n

But when those days come, you don\u2019t unleash that frustration on him.<\/p>\n

If it\u2019s necessary, you\u2019ll go away; you\u2019ll get out of his way to not cause a scene because you\u2019re well aware that you\u2019re a bit edgy, so you might misunderstand things he says or does.<\/p>\n

Basically, if you\u2019re feeling a bit bitchy, you\u2019ll move out of his way.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t let him neglect his friends and family<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A lot of men do this when they enter relationships. A lot of them act like they no longer have friends, just because they\u2019ve found a girlfriend.<\/p>\n

This behavior is shitty and you\u2019ll never let him do something like this.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de lhe recordar a import\u00e2ncia de manter o contacto com as pessoas de quem gosta.<\/p>\n

Maybe it\u2019s not as necessary to do this with friends as it is with his family.<\/p>\n

Men get like that; they don\u2019t have the need to call their mom just to say they love her, but that\u2019s why they have you to remind them it\u2019s a nice and loving thing to do.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll try new things, even if you don\u2019t like them<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll do it for him.<\/p>\n

If something means so much to him, you\u2019ll keep whatever your opinion is about that particular thing to yourself and you\u2019ll try it because you love him and you want to make him happy.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, se conseguir que fa\u00e7a algo novo com ele \u00e9 mais uma oportunidade para passar mais tempo com a pessoa que ama, porque n\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t force him to change<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

I saved the best \u2013 or better said \u2013 the more important for last. If you\u2019ve fallen in love with someone, you\u2019ve fallen in love for a reason.<\/p>\n

Talvez haja algumas coisas que queira que ele mude, mas, no geral, ama-o como ele \u00e9.<\/p>\n

When you think about it, it\u2019s not fair to ask someone to change after you choose to be with that person the way they are.<\/p>\n

Your boyfriend appreciates that you\u2019ve accepted him with flaws and all.<\/p>\n

After all, you aren\u2019t perfect either.<\/p>\n

\"Se<\/p>\n

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