{"id":35354,"date":"2019-04-11T09:52:17","date_gmt":"2019-04-11T09:52:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35354"},"modified":"2022-01-10T23:58:04","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T23:58:04","slug":"estas-4-crencas-toxicas-sao-o-que-o-impede-de-encontrar-o-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estas-4-crencas-toxicas-sao-o-que-o-impede-de-encontrar-o-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"Estas 4 cren\u00e7as t\u00f3xicas s\u00e3o o que o est\u00e1 a impedir de encontrar o amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos os casais do mundo t\u00eam os seus problemas. N\u00e3o se deixem enganar pelas publica\u00e7\u00f5es nas redes sociais. <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Uma fotografia \u00e9 um momento no tempo, mas uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o real \u00e9 um compromisso muito mais longo.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So don\u2019t be too hard on yourself. Everybody out there is just trying to make it work to the best of their ability.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Alguns conseguem, outros acabam por seguir o caminho mais dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But at the end of the day, we\u2019re all in the same boat, and when it comes to love, we all struggle.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ningu\u00e9m est\u00e1 imune \u00e0 auto-deprecia\u00e7\u00e3o e a uma ocasional perda de f\u00e9 na ideia do amor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Even that one couple that seems to have it all, I assure you, they don\u2019t.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ningu\u00e9m vai lavar a roupa suja em p\u00fablico, e o que se v\u00ea nem sempre \u00e9 a realidade<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Keep that in mind the next time you feel everybody\u2019s got their shit figured out but you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re struggling com a descoberta do amor<\/a> and you\u2019re being too harsh on yourself, please don\u2019t. If you\u2019re not kind to yourself, how can you expect somebody else to be?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Apague esses pensamentos t\u00f3xicos que est\u00e3o a atormentar a sua cabe\u00e7a neste momento e tente encontrar uma forma mais positiva de lidar com a sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o, porque as coisas melhoram.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o atual n\u00e3o \u00e9 o seu destino final!<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Decida agora mesmo mudar a sua mentalidade e tire estas 4 cren\u00e7as t\u00f3xicas da sua cabe\u00e7a, porque elas s\u00e3o a \u00fanica coisa que o impede de encontrar o amor!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. N\u00e3o \u00e9s digno de ser amado<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Adivinha o qu\u00ea? Sim, tu \u00e9s!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re only human, so cut yourself some slack. We can all be a bit selfish, impatient, and rash.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Todos n\u00f3s cometemos erros e m\u00e1s decis\u00f5es que estragam a nossa vida.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But we also know that nobody is perfect, and neither are you. But that doesn\u2019t mean you don\u2019t deserve to find your amor verdadeiro<\/a>! A s\u00e9rio que sim!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Once you realize that everybody just wings it most of the time and nobody really knows what the fuck they\u2019re doing, you\u2019re going to see that you\u2019re doing so much better than you actually think you are.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. \u00c9s p\u00e9ssima a ser namorada<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Okay, so you may have had a few failed relationships\u2026 but, who hasn\u2019t?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Name one person you know that has it all figured out and hasn\u2019t once fucked up their relationship. I\u2019ll wait.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You can\u2019t, can you?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That\u2019s because being perfect is a myth and has nothing to do with actual reality! We are all deeply flawed.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

We all tend to screw up every now and again, but that doesn\u2019t mean we suck at relationships.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

All it means is that we\u2019re all learning as we go, and the same goes for you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you don\u2019t feel like you\u2019re good at relationships, you probably haven\u2019t met a guy that\u2019s right for you yet.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Com o homem certo<\/a>, you\u2019re not going to feel like a failure, trust me.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t let a bad relationship and an ill-fit boyfriend convince you otherwise.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. If it\u2019s not simple and easy, it\u2019s not worth the bother<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that\u2019s where you\u2019d be wrong. Nothing good and worthy in this life will ever come easy. When has it ever?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Everything that\u2019s going to make a dent in your life for the better is going to require some hardships and challenging days.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But just because it takes a lot of effort to get to that place, doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s not worth it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It means that once you get past all the difficult stuff, you\u2019re going to enjoy it that much more profoundly.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Fight for things that matter to you. Never give up at the first sign of trouble because if you do, you\u2019re never going to get to your happy place.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t be afraid of a challenge. Embrace it, work on it, and never give up if you can\u2019t go a day without thinking about it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. There\u2019s nobody out there for you<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If I had a nickel every time I thought that, it\u2019d be swimming in dough.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Everybody goes through a rough patch where it seems like you\u2019ve tried everything and there\u2019s simply nobody out there for you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re not even sure if it\u2019s worth putting yourself out there anymore.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But it is! There are so many people in this world that it\u2019s simply ridiculous thinking you\u2019ll never find your \u201cone.\u201d<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s going to take time and effort, and yeah, at times, you\u2019ll lose hope\u2026 but that\u2019s exactly when you should try even harder.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It can\u2019t be worse, right? So what have you got to lose if you believe in yourself for just a little while longer?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019d be surprised how far a little faith in yourself can take you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Chances are, when you stop the active pursuit of finding your match, you\u2019re going to have the best chances of doing so.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Let your guard down, live your best life, and don\u2019t give up on yourself yet.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Saia, dance a noite toda e mantenha-se positivo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1One day, he\u2019s going to just pop up in front of you, ask you for a dance, and you won\u2019t know what hit you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Life really does work that way. So let go of the toxic beliefs you\u2019ve convinced yourself of, and give yourself the benefit of the doubt.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re pretty amazing; you just need to believe in yourself for a change, then the world is going to seem much less daunting, and full of endless possibilities. Promise!<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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Every couple in the world has their issues. Don\u2019t let social media posts fool you. A photo is a moment in time, but an actual relationship is a much longer commitment. So don\u2019t be too hard on yourself. Everybody out there is just trying to make it work to the best of their ability. Some…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":35355,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35354","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/jessica-oliveira-562074-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35354","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35354"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35354\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35355"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35354"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35354"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35354"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}