{"id":35367,"date":"2020-05-11T12:24:18","date_gmt":"2020-05-11T12:24:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35367"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:58:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:58:52","slug":"se-ele-nao-conseguir-dizer-estas-10-coisas-no-primeiro-mes-nao-vale-a-pena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-nao-conseguir-dizer-estas-10-coisas-no-primeiro-mes-nao-vale-a-pena\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele n\u00e3o conseguir dizer estas 10 coisas no primeiro m\u00eas, n\u00e3o vale a pena"},"content":{"rendered":"

Come\u00e7ou agora a namorar com algu\u00e9m e provavelmente est\u00e1 preocupada com o facto de ele poder ser apenas mais um erro (o que \u00e9 perfeitamente compreens\u00edvel).<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019re sick and tired of looking for all of those clues and sinais de um verdadeiro homem<\/a> or signs guaranteeing you that he\u2019s a guy who won\u2019t screw you up this time.<\/p>\n

And if you\u2019re wondering if there\u2019s a secret formula that will reveal his true nature, I daresay that there actually is!<\/p>\n

If you want to know his true intentions, pay attention to what he\u2019s saying to you instead of only observing what he is doing!<\/p>\n

So, if he can\u2019t say these 10 things within the first month of dating, know that it\u2019s time to move on because he\u2019s simply not worth it.<\/p>\n

\u201cI really like you\/enjoy spending time with you.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been on several dates so far and everything has been going smoothly, and you can feel mutual attraction and chemistry, it is normal to expect him to acknowledge that he likes you or that he likes spending time with you.<\/p>\n

And if he can\u2019t say it or refuses to say it (thinking that you already know that), then he\u2019s definitely not worth it.<\/p>\n

Um rapaz que se preocupa realmente com a forma como se sente e se gosta dele de volta, far\u00e1 sempre quest\u00e3o de lhe dizer primeiro o quanto gosta de si.<\/p>\n

\u201cI want this\/that from relationships.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t specify what he is looking for in a relationship but keeps dating you and perhaps keeps sending you some mixed signals, it means he\u2019s utterly indecisive and probably emotionally damaged.<\/p>\n

Also, he might refuse to tell you how he wants things to be because he already knows that he\u2019s in it just to manipulate you and satisfazer o seu ego ego\u00edsta<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Always demand that they tell you about their expectations so that you know whether you\u2019re on the same page or not.<\/p>\n

\u201cI want to make things official.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Um homem que s\u00f3 est\u00e1 interessado num romance superficial e nada s\u00e9rio recusar-se-\u00e1 sempre a oficializar as coisas consigo.<\/p>\n

No matter how much it seems that you\u2019re definitely meant to be, if he is ignoring making your relationship official, it means that he\u2019s not ready for one.<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o o vai querer fazer porque est\u00e1 obviamente interessado em ter algu\u00e9m ao lado ou porque est\u00e1 totalmente indeciso em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a voc\u00eas os dois.<\/p>\n

Whatever the true reason is, if he\u2019s not ready to be official with you, he\u2019s definitely not worth it.<\/p>\n

\u201cI want us to\u2026\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

If he never makes future plans with you (and I don\u2019t mean two years in advance), you should stop for a moment and think about it.<\/p>\n

Proposing things like, \u201cI want us to go to a concert\/see something,\u201d <\/em>significa que ele quer ter a certeza de que a vai ver no futuro.<\/p>\n

It means he likes to spend time with you and he\u2019s ready to do anything to initiate more of it.<\/p>\n

Saying, \u201cI want us to\u2026\u201d is the ultimate sentence of a real healthy man who knows what he wants and is not afraid of fighting for it.<\/p>\n

\u201cI would like to meet your friends.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve already met his friends but he still doesn\u2019t show a willingness to meet yours, then there\u2019s something wrong with him.<\/p>\n

Perhaps he\u2019s not interested in meeting your friends because he\u2019s afraid of their possible judgment of him and his actions.<\/p>\n

All in all, if he doesn\u2019t want to meet your close friends, it means he\u2019s not really interested in being a part of your life either.<\/p>\n

And you certainly don\u2019t want to perder o seu tempo<\/a> em algu\u00e9m assim.<\/p>\n

\u201cI want to show you my place.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

There are two reasons why a guy would like to show you his place. Reason one: he\u2019s only interested in getting into your pants.<\/p>\n

Segunda raz\u00e3o: ele quer genuinamente mostrar-lhe a sua casa.<\/p>\n

Para distinguir entre os dois, basta prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es se visitar a sua casa e saber\u00e1 com certeza.<\/p>\n

If you decipher that he\u2019s not the kind of guy who is only interested in taking you to bed, then you can be sure that he genuinely wants to show you his place and he wants to share his life with you.<\/p>\n

\u201cI want to see you again.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been on a few dates (and you had a great time together) and every time you part, he simply never says that famous sentence, \u201cQuero voltar a ver-vos,<\/em>\u201d then you can be sure that there is something fishy about him.<\/p>\n

If he never acknowledges his enjoyment and never bothers to initiate your next hangout, then he\u2019s not worthy of you making an effort either.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m totally over my ex.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Se sabe que ele teve uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o antes de come\u00e7ar a sair com ele e ele se recusa a falar sobre isso, ent\u00e3o \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que ainda sinta algo por ela.<\/p>\n

Nesse caso, fugir dele seria uma boa alternativa.<\/p>\n

Mas se ele de alguma forma iniciar isso he\u2019s totally over his ex<\/a> (without saying it directly) then there\u2019s no need to worry about it.<\/p>\n

\u201cI want to take you out for (a romantic) dinner instead of drinks.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

The importance of making an effort when it comes to dating and relationships simply can\u2019t be emphasized enough.<\/p>\n

So, if your guy is constantly taking you out to bars for drinks instead of a peaceful, romantic dinner (from time to time), it means he\u2019s not making enough effort for you or to get to know you better, which means he\u2019s not worthy of you.<\/p>\n

\u201cTell me about your life goals.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Contrary to the previous point, if he\u2019s begging you to tell him about your objectivos de vida<\/a>, this means he\u2019s totally interested in getting to know you better and he wants to be familiar with all of your future plans so that he can coordinate them with his.<\/p>\n

So, if you never hear the sentence, \u201cTell me more about yourself or your life goals,\u201d within the first month of dating, then you should seriously think about getting out of it before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n

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So, you\u2019ve just started dating someone and you\u2019re probably worrying that he might just be another mistake (which is completely understandable). I\u2019m sure you\u2019re sick and tired of looking for all of those clues and signs of a real man or signs guaranteeing you that he\u2019s a guy who won\u2019t screw you up this time….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":98555,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35367","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-He-Cant-Say-These-10-Things-Within-The-First-Month-Hes-Not-Worth-It.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35367","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35367"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35367\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98555"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35367"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35367"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35367"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}