{"id":35376,"date":"2020-02-11T13:00:37","date_gmt":"2020-02-11T13:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35376"},"modified":"2022-02-27T01:43:26","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T01:43:26","slug":"como-pedir-a-um-rapaz-para-ser-seu-namorado-10-maneiras-de-o-fazer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-pedir-a-um-rapaz-para-ser-seu-namorado-10-maneiras-de-o-fazer\/","title":{"rendered":"Como pedir a um homem para ser seu namorado: 10 maneiras de o fazer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Embora possa pensar que o facto de lhe chamar namorado do nada transformar\u00e1 magicamente o homem de quem gosta na sua cara-metade, na pr\u00e1tica, infelizmente, as coisas n\u00e3o correm assim.<\/p>\n

Yes, we\u2019d probably all like for our relationship to start as spontaneous as possible without the unnecessary fuss and awkwardness but sometimes that is just not possible.<\/p>\n

You can send all the possible signs that you want to be his girlfriend or that you wish to label things between the two of you but some guys simply don\u2019t take the hint, as much as you\u2019d like them to.<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que h\u00e1 situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que tem de pedir diretamente a um homem para ser o seu par rom\u00e2ntico e se ele gostaria de come\u00e7ar um relacionamento. rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/a> convosco.<\/p>\n

Sabendo isto, a pr\u00f3xima coisa que provavelmente est\u00e1 a perguntar-se \u00e9 exatamente como pedir a um rapaz para ser seu namorado.<\/p>\n

At first, this probably appears to be a mission impossible, especially to a girl who\u2019s never made the first move but it\u2019s actually a piece of cake and something you\u2019llyou\u2019ll wish you\u2019dyou\u2019d done sooner, no matter the outcome.<\/p>\n

Fear not, because we\u2019re here to explain to you in detail how to ask a guy to be your boyfriend the easiest and yet the best way possible, without looking desperate.<\/p>\n

Basta seguir este guia passo-a-passo sem esfor\u00e7o sobre como pedir a um homem para ser seu namorado e podemos garantir-lhe que todos os homens em que se concentrar ser\u00e3o seus num instante.<\/p>\n

Livrar-se de quaisquer preconceitos<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia     <\/p>\n

Apesar de todas as mudan\u00e7as que os tempos modernos trouxeram \u00e0 cena dos encontros, h\u00e1 uma coisa que se mant\u00e9m inalterada desde sempre: os homens sempre foram os primeiros a dar o primeiro passo.<\/p>\n

Isto significa que se espera que eles se aproximem da mulher, mas tamb\u00e9m que d\u00eaem o passo para levar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o para o n\u00edvel seguinte.<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o eles que nos cortejam a n\u00f3s, mulheres, e que nos fazem todas as perguntas importantes, come\u00e7ando por saber se queremos ser namorada dele e acabando com um pedido de casamento.<\/p>\n

Bem, se est\u00e1 a pensar como pedir a um rapaz para ser seu namorado, antes de mais, tem de se livrar de quaisquer preconceitos relativamente aos pap\u00e9is masculinos ou femininos nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es ou nos encontros em geral.<\/p>\n

Tem de parar de esperar pacientemente que o homem em quem est\u00e1 interessada leia a sua mente e saiba, por magia, que est\u00e1 pronta para se comprometer e oficializar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Outra coisa que deve esquecer \u00e9 o facto de se considerar coxo e pat\u00e9tico se fizer esta pergunta em vez de esperar que ele fa\u00e7a o mesmo.<\/p>\n

No, asking a guy if he wants to be your boyfriend doesn\u2019t make you any less of a lady and it certainly doesn\u2019t make him any less of a man.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you should should demand equality in a romantic relationship and if this is the case, , then what\u2019s the problem with taking over what has been traditionally considered to be a man\u2019s role?<\/p>\n

Descobrir o que se pretende<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Antes de descobrir como pedir a um rapaz para ser seu namorado, precisa de saber o que realmente quer. Que tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o espera ter?<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 pronto para se comprometer totalmente com uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/a>? Quer uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00f3 para n\u00e3o estar solteira ou quer mesmo estar com este homem especificamente?<\/p>\n

Do you want him to be your boyfriend because you care for him and because you consider that things between you two have reached a point where you\u2019re both ready to take your relationship to the next level or just to prove to yourself that you can have him?<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que sente por este homem? \u00c9 amor ou lux\u00faria? Os teus sentimentos s\u00e3o tempor\u00e1rios?<\/p>\n

Naturally, him agreeing to your proposal isn\u2019t a guarantee that the two of you will grow old together but you need to know if you can see yourself next to this man from this point of view.<\/p>\n

You might think that all of these questions you should ask yourself are a bit too much and that you\u2019d be thinking too much ahead of time if you analyzed each one of these aspects but trust me on this one\u2014it is crucial for you to know where exactly you stand yourself before trying to figure out where the two of you stand as a couple.<\/p>\n

Seja honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re wondering how to ask a guy to be your boyfriend, firstly you have to come clean with yourself.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t lie to yourself about the relationship between the two of you and about its potential future.<\/p>\n

Ele pode concordar em rotular as coisas? Tem alguma hip\u00f3tese com ele?<\/p>\n

Lembre-se de que entrar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso \u00e9 um grande passo hoje em dia e, antes de come\u00e7ar a falar sobre isso com um rapaz, tem de ser realista sobre a forma como as coisas est\u00e3o entre os dois neste momento.<\/p>\n

Se ele \u00e9 algu\u00e9m com quem ainda n\u00e3o tem uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o real, comece por convid\u00e1-lo para um encontro<\/a> e tente abord\u00e1-lo de formas diferentes antes de lhe pedir, do nada, para ser seu namorado.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, estamos a falar de um tipo qualquer que idealiza e com quem fantasia ou \u00e9 um tipo com quem costuma passar tempo?<\/p>\n

\u00c9 algu\u00e9m de quem gosta sem fazer ideia dos seus sentimentos ou algu\u00e9m que gosta de si ao ponto de aceitar ser seu namorado?<\/p>\n

What is also important is to be realistic about this man\u2019s characteristics, about all of his flaws and qualities.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que ningu\u00e9m espera que ele seja perfeito, mas tem de ser honesta consigo pr\u00f3pria sobre se este rapaz \u00e9 ou n\u00e3o material para namorado.<\/p>\n

Mais importante ainda, ser\u00e1 que ele tem o que \u00e9 preciso para ser seu namorado? Os dois s\u00e3o compat\u00edveis e dar-se-iam bem?<\/p>\n

T\u00eam algo mais em comum para al\u00e9m da atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica m\u00fatua?<\/p>\n

Estar preparado para a rejei\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in the process of figuring out how to ask a guy to be your boyfriend, staying optimistic and keeping a positive outlook will help you get most of the job done.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve probably thought all of your options through before taking this step and decided this is the thing you should do.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, let\u2019s face it\u2014there always exists the possibility of him rejecting you and this is something you need to prepare yourself for.<\/p>\n

It is important for you not to fall into despair if this happens and not to consider yourself as less worthy or not enough just because some dude doesn\u2019t want to be your boyfriend. Of course, you\u2019re entitled to ask for an explanation.<\/p>\n

You have the right to know what the things are he didn\u2019t like about you but that isn\u2019t something that should define you or make you feel bad about yourself.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 fundamental \u00e9 aceitar a resposta negativa dele com dignidade e sem jogos em mente.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se de que todos t\u00eam o direito de o rejeitar em qualquer altura, sem que tenha o direito de se zangar com isso.<\/p>\n

Agradecer o facto de ele ter sido honesto desde o in\u00edcio, em vez de a gui\u00e1-lo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Before blaming yourself for his rejection, remember that there could exist a million reasons why he doesn\u2019t want a relationship with you right now.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, ele pode simplesmente n\u00e3o a ver como potencial namorada e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 raz\u00e3o para se sentir ofendida por isso.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, tentar \u00e9 sempre melhor do que estar sempre a pensar no que poder\u00e1 acontecer.<\/p>\n

Por isso, em vez de ver esta rejei\u00e7\u00e3o como o fim do mundo, orgulhe-se de si pr\u00f3prio por ser suficientemente corajoso para dar este passo em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n

Determinar o momento certo<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Quantas vezes j\u00e1 ouviu dizer que o momento certo \u00e9 tudo? Pois bem, o mesmo se aplica \u00e0 sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t ask the guy you like if he wants to be your boyfriend when the two of you have just finished arguing or when you know that he is tired or in a bad mood.<\/p>\n

Also, picking a date such as your birthday or Valentine\u2019s Day is a horrible idea because that way you\u2019ll never know whether his answer was positive because he also wants a relationship or because he didn\u2019t want to ruin your big day.<\/p>\n

Alguns aconselham-na a perguntar-lhe logo a seguir ou mesmo durante o sexo<\/a> mas isso \u00e9 algo que se deve evitar a todo o custo.<\/p>\n

First and foremost, he might not take you seriously, considering that you\u2019re talking nonsense because you are vulnerable after you guys have been intimate.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, ele pode dar uma resposta positiva apenas porque ainda est\u00e1 profundamente influenciado pelos vossos momentos debaixo dos len\u00e7\u00f3is.<\/p>\n

Determinar o local correto<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re in doubt about how to ask a guy to be your boyfriend, another thing you should pay attention to is the right place to do that.<\/p>\n

A primeira coisa que lhe passa pela cabe\u00e7a \u00e9 provavelmente o local onde partilharam momentos especiais, como o vosso primeiro beijo ou algo semelhante.<\/p>\n

Even though this is not a bad idea, have in mind that you don\u2019t have to make a big deal out of this by preparing some huge gestos rom\u00e2nticos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just important for the two of you to be somewhere private, so you can talk things through without loud music or someone constantly interrupting you.<\/p>\n

Pode perguntar-lhe se ele quer ser seu namorado num caf\u00e9 sossegado ou durante um passeio na natureza.<\/p>\n

Just don\u2019t do it while you\u2019re out of town or anywhere where you need to travel back from together because that would be quite awkward in the case of a rejection.<\/p>\n

Fazer pessoalmente<\/h2>\n

\"casal   <\/p>\n

When you\u2019re wondering how to ask a guy to be your boyfriend, it is perfectly natural for you to be nervous, especially if this is something you have never done in the past.<\/p>\n

Por conseguinte, pode pensar em fazer esta pergunta atrav\u00e9s de uma mensagem de texto ou de um telefonema, para evitar o constrangimento.<\/p>\n

Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos que isto \u00e9 algo que devem evitar fazer a todo o custo.<\/p>\n

You want this man to take you seriously and to see that you\u2019re brave and suficientemente forte para dizer<\/a> ele sobre os seus desejos.<\/p>\n

Por isso, a \u00fanica forma madura de pedir a algu\u00e9m para ser seu parceiro de rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 faz\u00ea-lo pessoalmente.<\/p>\n

Besides helping you see this guy\u2019s reaction, this approach will also give you a chance to use your sinais de linguagem corporal<\/a> para declarar as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Seja honesto sobre os seus sentimentos<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Now that you\u2019ve chosen the timing and a place to ask the big question, the next thing you ought to do is decide to be completely honest with your potential partner.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you have to declare your love for him in a romantic or even cheesy way but being sincere about your feelings and expectations is always desirable.<\/p>\n

Este n\u00e3o \u00e9 o momento para se fazer de dif\u00edcil ou esconder os seus verdadeiros sentimentos. Em vez disso, diga-lhe exatamente o que sente.<\/p>\n

Tell him that he is someone you could see yourself next to and straightforwardly ask him if he\u2019s ready to be your boyfriend.<\/p>\n

Diga-lhe quais s\u00e3o as suas expectativas<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Outro passo importante no processo de pedir a um rapaz para ser seu namorado \u00e9 dizer-lhe o que espera encontrar neste potencial romance.<\/p>\n

Be aware that different people perceive relationships in different ways so it\u2019s important to set some ground rules right from the start.<\/p>\n

The fact that you\u2019re the one who made the first step toward commitment doesn\u2019t put you beneath him in any way and it doesn\u2019t take away your right to talk about your expectations.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que, com o tempo, a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o se desenvolver\u00e1 se ele concordar em rotul\u00e1-lo<\/a> but it\u2019d be honest of you to talk to him about some of your deal-breakers and standards your boyfriend should meet.<\/p>\n

This way, you\u2019ll give both of you a chance to see if you\u2019re on the same page.<\/p>\n

Do you want the same things and can you meet each other\u2019s needs and reach a compromise?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be scared that this guy will think of you as some lunatic for talking about these things right from the start.<\/p>\n

Instead, he\u2019ll just see that you know what you want and he\u2019ll appreciate that.<\/p>\n

Dar-lhe tempo para pensar no assunto<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m gosta de se sentir pressionado e o seu potencial namorado n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

A \u00faltima coisa que quer \u00e9 sufoc\u00e1-lo ou faz\u00ea-lo sentir-se preso, porque isso s\u00f3 o afastaria.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado em dar a este homem algum tempo para pensar na sua decis\u00e3o antes de a tomar definitivamente.<\/p>\n

Antes de mais, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio ter em conta alguns aspectos.<\/p>\n

Maybe this is something he hadn’t expected to hear from you or he might need some time to clear his head.<\/p>\n

Therefore, if he can\u2019t make up his mind right away, set a certain date a few days from now for when he\u2019ll give you an answer.<\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t allow him to use this as an excuse to lead you on for as long as he wants.<\/p>\n

After all, you don\u2019t want him to think that he can go to you whenever he feels like it while you sit and patiently wait for him to find the decency to choose you.<\/p>\n

If it happens that this guy doesn\u2019t call you on the arranged day to give you his answer, don\u2019t push things too hard because you\u2019ll just come across as demasiado pegajoso<\/a> e desesperado.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why, in this scenario, you need to do your best to let him go as soon as possible and show him that you can make it without him.
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