{"id":35410,"date":"2020-04-12T07:46:58","date_gmt":"2020-04-12T07:46:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35410"},"modified":"2022-01-10T01:06:21","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T01:06:21","slug":"quando-ele-voltar-nao-se-esquecam-de-como-ele-partiu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-ele-voltar-nao-se-esquecam-de-como-ele-partiu\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando ele voltar, n\u00e3o te esque\u00e7as de como partiu"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pode n\u00e3o o ver agora, mas as pessoas voltam sempre.<\/strong> N\u00e3o imediatamente; n\u00e3o quando queremos e esperamos que o fa\u00e7am, mas mais cedo ou mais tarde, fazem-no.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Afinal de contas, todos os assassinos acabam por regressar ao local do crime, certo?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That is exactly the way people come back to the ones they\u2019ve damaged; to the ones they\u2019ve hurt and to the ones they should have appreciated more.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sometimes they do it to try to repair what they broke. Sometimes they return just to make sure they\u2019ve managed to kill you spiritually.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Por vezes, fazem-no para alimentar os seus egos e para provar a si pr\u00f3prios que podem t\u00ea-lo sempre que lhes apetecer. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E, por vezes, fazem-no na tentativa de obter o seu perd\u00e3o e de limpar a sua consci\u00eancia de culpa.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pessoas come back when you\u2019ve almost forgetten all about them<\/a>, as if they sense that you\u2019ve moved on and that they\u2019re slowly losing a place in your heart.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Regressam quando come\u00e7am realmente a sentir a sua aus\u00eancia, quando finalmente v\u00eaem o seu valor e quando understand what they\u2019ve lost<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The same thing will happen with your ex\u2014the one who broke you to pieces, the one who made you question yourself, and the one who convinced you that you aren\u2019t meant to be loved.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Com aquele que esmagou o teu mundo e te mudou para sempre.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You might not see it now, but eventually, he\u2019ll come back to you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Um dia, quando ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o for o primeiro e o \u00faltimo pensamento que te passa pela cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

One day, when you start to live again and when you convince yourself that you\u2019ve finally gotten over everything he\u2019s done to you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Just like that, he\u2019ll show up out of nowhere to ask for your forgiveness.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He\u2019ll come crawling back, telling you that he realized what he\u2019s done, and he\u2019ll beg you for another chance.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Este tipo est\u00e1 habituado a que o perdoes. Est\u00e1 habituado a que sejas a sua rede de seguran\u00e7a e a pessoa que o aceita sempre, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Por conseguinte, ele espera que volte a dar um lugar na sua vida.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He will expect you to tell him that you\u2019ve spent all of this time patiently waiting for him and that you\u2019ve never deixou de o amar<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That is exactly why he\u2019ll come to you once he loses everything and once everyone else turns their backs on him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando ele tentar com todas as outras mulheres com quem teve a oportunidade de estar, e quando vir que ningu\u00e9m o poder\u00e1 amar como tu o amaste.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Once he reaches rock bottom, he\u2019ll remember you as his last resort, and he\u2019ll want you to save him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando isso acontecer, todas as recorda\u00e7\u00f5es que teve com ele passar\u00e3o \u00e0 frente dos seus olhos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And for a moment, you\u2019ll really wish to continue where you guys left off\u2014you\u2019ll wish to give your love another opportunity.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No entanto, this is when you\u2019ll have to be strong enough not to allow nostalgia affect your decisions. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you\u2019ll have to look at things realistically and remember everything this man has done to you.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Once he comes back, you\u2019ll have to be strong enough not to forget about the way he left.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Not to forget how he abandoned you when you needed him the most and how he didn\u2019t give a damn how his departure might affect you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll need to remember how he betrayed your trust and how he left you hanging.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Como ele nunca pensou duas vezes em como te sentias e no que te estava a fazer.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll need to remember all the tears you cried for him, all the sleepless nights you spent wondering <\/strong>why weren\u2019t you enough<\/strong><\/a> e o que poderia ter feito de diferente para o manter. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Todos os traumas e cicatrizes que ele deixou para tr\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Once he comes back, you\u2019ll have to be selfish enough not to care about his well-being.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Selfish enough not to think about what he needs and feels, and for once, you\u2019ll have to put yourself first.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When this happens, you\u2019ll have to treat this guy the same way he treated you when he walked away<\/strong>\u2014de cora\u00e7\u00e3o frio. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll have to slam the door straight in his face, and turn your back on him once and for all.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sim, no in\u00edcio pode sentir-se culpado por fazer tal coisa. Pode at\u00e9 questionar a sua decis\u00e3o, perguntando-se se fez a coisa certa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No entanto, antes de se aperceberem, v\u00e3o-se aperceber...era a \u00fanica coisa que ele merecia. Mais importante ainda, era algo que devia a si pr\u00f3prio.  <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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You might not see it now, but people always come back. Not right away; not when you want and expect them to, but sooner or later, they do. After all, every murderer eventually returns to the crime scene, right? That is exactly the way people come back to the ones they\u2019ve damaged; to the ones…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":35411,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29629],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35410","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-him-back"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29629,"label":"getting him back"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/StockSnap_925WECNCZH-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29629,"name":"getting him back","slug":"getting-him-back","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29629,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. Here's how you'll do it the right way.","parent":29627,"count":51,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29629,"category_count":51,"category_description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. Here's how you'll do it the right way.","cat_name":"getting him back","category_nicename":"getting-him-back","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35410","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35410"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35410\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35411"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35410"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35410"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35410"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}