{"id":35497,"date":"2020-05-16T09:21:05","date_gmt":"2020-05-16T09:21:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35497"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:44:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:44:18","slug":"5-razoes-para-deixar-de-lado-um-homem-que-nao-tem-a-certeza-sobre-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-razoes-para-deixar-de-lado-um-homem-que-nao-tem-a-certeza-sobre-si\/","title":{"rendered":"5 raz\u00f5es para deixar de lado um homem que n\u00e3o tem a certeza sobre si"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mesmo que ele seja o homem mais giro que j\u00e1 viste, nunca deixes que ele ou qualquer outra pessoa te tomem por garantida.<\/p>\n

A vida \u00e9 realmente curta e pass\u00e1-la com algu\u00e9m que tem de pensar duas vezes para estar consigo \u00e9 simplesmente uma loucura.<\/p>\n

Maybe you don\u2019t think of it that way, maybe you think he\u2019ll change in time, that he just needs time to set his priorities and get his life in order but what you don\u2019t take into account is that time flies by much faster than you think and with just the snap of your fingers, you\u2019ll find yourself crying over a life wasted on a man who never gave all of him.<\/p>\n

Diga adeus aos sentimentos contradit\u00f3rios na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, simplesmente porque voc\u00ea, minha querida, merece muito mais do que isso.<\/p>\n

I know that getting rid of a person who meant something to you is not an easy thing to do but when you look at everything you might miss out on because you\u2019re wasting time with a man who doesn\u2019t deserve you<\/a>, it’s better to end it now.<\/p>\n

Eis as raz\u00f5es pelas quais tem de o deixar ir porque ele est\u00e1 um pouco inseguro em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a si: <\/strong><\/p>\n

He wants to break up but doesn\u2019t have the courage<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Tens de fazer o trabalho sujo por ele.<\/p>\n

You have no other choice if you want to get out of that relationship while you\u2019re still pretty normal and pretty sane.<\/p>\n

His feelings for you have probably changed but he doesn\u2019t have the courage to admit it, so he strings you along.<\/p>\n

Or the other possible reason why he hasn\u2019t broken up with you is that he needs you.<\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s temos momentos em que nos sentimos vulner\u00e1veis, necessitados e sozinhos.<\/p>\n

Nesses momentos, procuramos companhia ou a coisa mais pr\u00f3xima que temos do amor para nos confortar.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what he does. He chooses to go to you because he doesn\u2019t want to be alone.<\/p>\n

In those moments, you\u2019re more than enough for what he needs. He goes back to you, you take him in and you connect.<\/p>\n

But what happens when he\u2019s in a period of feeling strong and secure? In those moments, he becomes unsure about you once again.<\/p>\n

Ele questiona se \u00e9 a pessoa certa para ele.<\/p>\n

This is why you should walk away from that relationship. If you stay, you\u2019ll continue living through periods of happiness followed by periods of pain.<\/p>\n

Quer mesmo que a sua felicidade dependa do estado emocional em que ele se encontra?<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que acontece quando ele ganha coragem?<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

It\u2019s simple.<\/p>\n

You get your heart broken and he walks away from your relationship without a single worry on his mind because he\u2019s been feeling like doing this for a long time and now he has finally done it.<\/p>\n

If only you were quicker\u2026 it wouldn\u2019t cost you the tears and the broken heart. Think about it.<\/p>\n

Why would you wait to get dumped in the vain hope of him coming around? You\u2019re risking your life from that point on.<\/p>\n

The fact of who dumped who has everything to do with this case. Don\u2019t be stupid by taking the bullet which you weren\u2019t supposed to take.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 outros homens por a\u00ed<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Why waste your life on someone who sometimes loves you and sometimes doesn\u2019t?<\/p>\n

By staying with a man who is unsure about you, you\u2019re unconsciously depriving yourself of meeting a man who\u2019ll be all in when it comes to you.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t have moments of doubt, he\u2019ll never question your love for him or his love for you.   <\/p>\n

Even when he\u2019s with you, you\u2019re not getting all of his attention<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Um homem que n\u00e3o tem a certeza sobre si n\u00e3o est\u00e1 na rela\u00e7\u00e3o at\u00e9 ao fim.<\/p>\n

Ele nunca est\u00e1 totalmente presente, nem investe qualquer capacidade para construir o que temos para sermos melhores e mais fortes.<\/p>\n

There are things that people do for each other because of love, things that they don\u2019t feel like doing but they do anyway just to make that person happy.<\/p>\n

The man you\u2019re dating won\u2019t sacrifice his time, nor will he put more effort into doing something he doesn\u2019t feel like doing, even if it means you\u2019re going to enjoy his gesture.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care enough for you to go the extra mile.<\/p>\n

A man who isn\u2019t sure about you will always keep you at arm\u2019s length. He will hold back his feelings and he will never fully open up to you.<\/p>\n

O pior \u00e9 que pensamos que est\u00e1 tudo bem.<\/p>\n

Pensamos que \u00e9 assim que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o deve ser.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like you\u2019re used to getting so little because no one showed you how much you\u2019re supposed to get.<\/p>\n

When you think about this situation from an objective point of view, you\u2019ll realize that his behavior is not fair.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s taking advantage of you<\/a>O vosso tempo e o vosso amor.<\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es j\u00e1 s\u00e3o suficientemente dif\u00edceis, mesmo com a pessoa certa<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mesmo que encontre a pessoa certa, essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o tamb\u00e9m precisa de ser trabalhada.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not so easy to include someone in your life even if they are the person you\u2019ve been waiting for.<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o necess\u00e1rios muitos compromissos e esfor\u00e7os para que as coisas funcionem.<\/p>\n

The harder you try, the happier you\u2019ll be.<\/p>\n

Relationships are pointless if you\u2019re not trying to be everything your person needs. Being just enough won\u2019t cut it.<\/p>\n

Trying hard and becoming just enough will drain you and you\u2019ll get to the point where you won\u2019t be able to keep up anymore.<\/p>\n

Haver\u00e1 sempre uma altura em que o seu homem estar\u00e1 numa fase estranha da sua vida.<\/p>\n

He will always be unsure about something because he isn\u2019t in the right place or he is dealing with something that is too much to handle.<\/p>\n

But you know what? Those are his problems and if he\u2019s the one who has to deal with them, it\u2019s only fair for him to let you go.<\/p>\n

You are not put on this earth to entertain someone. You won\u2019t give your love and your energy to someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate either and uses you instead.<\/p>\n

The time has come for you to ask yourself: \u201cAnd what about me?\u201d<\/p>\n

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