{"id":3556,"date":"2020-08-16T08:36:19","date_gmt":"2020-08-16T08:36:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3556"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:10:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:10:09","slug":"sinais-de-que-nao-e-uma-pessoa-sem-culpa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-nao-e-uma-pessoa-sem-culpa\/","title":{"rendered":"Sinais de que n\u00e3o \u00e9s \"a tal\" para ele (e a culpa n\u00e3o \u00e9 tua)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Por vezes, duas pessoas juntam-se e s\u00e3o perfeitas uma para a outra. S\u00e3o como duas pe\u00e7as de um puzzle.<\/p>\n

But, sometimes, no matter how well two people click, they\u2019re just not for each other. Maybe, in theory, your relationship is perfect, but it\u2019s a whole different story in practice.<\/p>\n

I know that sometimes, despite the fact you\u2019re aware that your relationship isn\u2019t going anywhere, you trick yourself into believing there\u2019s still hope\u2014when there\u2019s not.<\/p>\n

This sucks so badly, but the truth is that two amazing people don\u2019t have to hit it off.<\/p>\n

Sometimes you\u2019re just not right for each other, and sometimes you\u2019re just paranoid and you\u2019ve made yourself believe you don\u2019t belong by his side.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not sure which of these two scenarios is yours, check out the signs that will make you see if you\u2019re not \u2018The One\u2019 for him.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"uma
\nHe doesn\u2019t trust you and trust is the most important thing in every relationship\u2014it\u2019s the foundation.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t have trust, you can be positive that your relationship will crack sooner or later.<\/p>\n

Fighting for a relationship without trust is just avoiding the inevitable\u2014avoiding the crash.<\/p>\n

Faz parte da nossa natureza humana a necessidade de ter algu\u00e9m ao nosso lado para nos sentirmos est\u00e1veis e protegidos.<\/p>\n

We know we have someone who will comfort us when we\u2019re sad and someone who will enjoy our happiness with us.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we need to develop that bond of trust with that special someone we chose.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why YOU need to realize you\u2019re not the one for him if there is no trust in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> 5 sinais precoces de que o teu namorado n\u00e3o \u00e9 o ideal para ti<\/a><\/p>\n

Ele guarda os seus problemas para si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nThere\u2019s no communication between the two of you. Whenever there\u2019s a problem, he quiets down and pulls back.<\/p>\n

You were probably in situations like this, begging him to tell you what\u2019s wrong, but he continuously refused to, numerous times.<\/p>\n

He tried to convince you everything is peachy, although you know it\u2019s not. If he avoids talking about his problems with you, he doesn\u2019t feel your support.<\/p>\n

O apoio \u00e9 uma das principais raz\u00f5es pelas quais nos esfor\u00e7amos por encontrar algu\u00e9m com quem estar, em primeiro lugar. \u00c9 preciso tempo para desenvolver um sistema de apoio numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

But, in your case, if you\u2019ve been in a long-term relationship and still, there\u2019s no feeling of support, something is wrong.<\/p>\n

At\u00e9 agora, deviam ter desenvolvido uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o profunda, e essa liga\u00e7\u00e3o inclui o apoio m\u00fatuo.<\/p>\n

Sente que algo est\u00e1 a faltar<\/h2>\n

\"mulherYou feel that you\u2019re not loved as you deserve to be.<\/p>\n

Maybe this seems like it\u2019s your problem but, quando as duas pessoas se amam<\/a>Para isso, precisam de encontrar (e normalmente encontram) uma forma de se amarem um ao outro da maneira que precisam de ser amados.<\/p>\n

Normalmente, \u00e9 preciso tempo para que duas pessoas descubram as formas de se amarem uma \u00e0 outra, mas se tiver a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que o seu parceiro nem sequer est\u00e1 a tentar decifrar o c\u00f3digo de como am\u00e1-la, tenha a certeza de que n\u00e3o \u00e9 a pessoa certa para ele.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso compreender que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es nunca podem ser perfeitas.<\/p>\n

But there is something more you have to know\u2014putting a constant effort in your relationship is the key to its success.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 paix\u00e3o a mais ou a menos<\/h2>\n

\"mulherPassion is that essential key for every relationship. It\u2019s the first thing the two of you will feel\u2014it\u2019s the reason why you are together.<\/p>\n

Passion is that feeling when the two of you touch and something deep inside you burns and it\u2019s good\u2014it\u2019s perfect.<\/p>\n

No relationship can survive if there\u2019s no passion.<\/p>\n

But also, a lot of passion can be destructive because passion goes along with\u2014jealousy, fear, or sadness which show their faces when there\u2019s too much passion involved.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have a feeling of security<\/h2>\n

\"belaYou have to ask yourself: \u201cDoes he make me safe?\u201d, \u201cDo I feel like home everywhere I go with him?\u201d<\/p>\n

Estas s\u00e3o as coisas mais importantes porque, no fim de contas, todos n\u00f3s procuramos seguran\u00e7a. Todos queremos algu\u00e9m ao nosso lado que cuide de n\u00f3s e que nos levante quando cairmos.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es carecem desse segmento importante.<\/p>\n

But, when you think about it, no matter if the two of you are the best couple there can be, if you don\u2019t feel safe in each other\u2019s arms, you\u2019re not going to last.<\/p>\n

And that is completely fine\u2014that is not your fault. That is just how things are and probably should be for some reason.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t force love to happen because you\u2019re maybe forcing \u2018The wrong love\u2019 which could make you miss \u2018The Right One\u2019.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/strong>\u00c9 assim que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o \"certa\" se vai sentir depois de todas aquelas t\u00f3xicas<\/a>
\n\"Sinais<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sometimes, two people get together and they are perfect for each other. They are like two pieces of a puzzle. But, sometimes, no matter how well two people click, they\u2019re just not for each other. Maybe, in theory, your relationship is perfect, but it\u2019s a whole different story in practice. I know that sometimes, despite…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":110495,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3556","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Signs-Youre-Not-The-One-For-Him-And-Its-Not-Your-Fault-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3556","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3556"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3556\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110495"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3556"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3556"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3556"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}