{"id":35625,"date":"2020-10-17T13:26:12","date_gmt":"2020-10-17T13:26:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35625"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:01:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:01:34","slug":"7-coisas-inteligentes-a-fazer-depois-de-ser-vitima-de-ghosting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-coisas-inteligentes-a-fazer-depois-de-ser-vitima-de-ghosting\/","title":{"rendered":"7 coisas inteligentes para fazer depois de ser v\u00edtima de Ghosting"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando se inicia qualquer tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o, especialmente uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00edntima, espera-se que ser fantasma<\/a> \u00e9 a \u00faltima coisa que vos aconteceria.<\/p>\n

Mas, infelizmente, isso acontece com bastante frequ\u00eancia hoje em dia.<\/p>\n

And the worst thing is that ghosted people often feel confused and disappointed because they don\u2019t know why it happened to them.<\/p>\n

They always think that they are the guilty ones, while, in most cases, the real guilty ones don\u2019t even think about it.<\/p>\n

Passar por algo assim pode ser muito desconfort\u00e1vel, mas se souber o que fazer, pode ser menos doloroso.<\/p>\n

Por isso, aqui ficam algumas dicas que o podem ajudar depois de ser v\u00edtima de ghosting.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think you are the guilty one<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A maior parte das pessoas come\u00e7a imediatamente a pensar que s\u00e3o elas as culpadas, mas isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 verdade.<\/p>\n

Se est\u00e1 a ser v\u00edtima de ghosting, saiba que \u00e9 a v\u00edtima em todo o processo.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t freak out and don\u2019t think that something is wrong with you.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have anything to do with it. You just had bad luck to bump into someone who didn\u2019t appreciate you and that\u2019s it.<\/p>\n

Por isso, p\u00e1ra de te preocupares com as coisas pequenas e segue em frente. Confie em mim, quanto menos pensar nisso, mais f\u00e1cil ser\u00e1 para si.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t change yourself<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You know that saying, \u201cOne man\u2019s trash is another man\u2019s treasure\u201d?<\/p>\n

If you weren\u2019t enough for one man and he ghosted you, it doesn\u2019t mean that something is wrong with you and that you should change.<\/p>\n

If one man doesn\u2019t like you just the way you are, it doesn\u2019t mean that another man will think the same.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que se apaixonar\u00e1 perdidamente por si, com toda a sua loucura, car\u00eancia e sentido de humor sarc\u00e1stico.<\/p>\n

There is a man who won\u2019t try to change even a bit about you because he will love you madly.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t change yourself for a man who doesn\u2019t deserve you. Stay faithful to yourself no matter what others think.<\/p>\n

Se n\u00e3o estiveres preparado para uma mudan\u00e7a e ela acontecer, vais sentir muito a tua falta.<\/p>\n

Exprimir os seus sentimentos<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando descobrir que est\u00e1 a ser v\u00edtima de ghosting, deve falar sobre o assunto.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 necess\u00e1rio exprimir os seus sentimentos e deixar que os teus melhores amigos<\/a> saber o que est\u00e1 a acontecer na sua vida.<\/p>\n

If you keep it to yourself, you will just overthink and you won\u2019t figure out why that happened to you in the end.<\/p>\n

Mas se falar sobre isso com algu\u00e9m que lhe \u00e9 pr\u00f3ximo, ser\u00e1 melhor.<\/p>\n

You will realize that you are not the guilty one and that you shouldn\u2019t feel bad about it.<\/p>\n

Also, your friends will show you how to move on and how to get over someone who didn\u2019t even want to give himself time to get to know you better.<\/p>\n

Porque se o fizesse, nunca se teria ido embora.<\/p>\n

Queimar as pontes entre voc\u00eas os dois<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you were being ghosted and if you don\u2019t know why, the best thing you can do is to cut all ties with him.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t seek any explanations because that won\u2019t make you feel better.<\/p>\n

It will just make the whole situation worse and you won\u2019t get the answers you want.<\/p>\n

Se queres mesmo esquecer uma pessoa, deves tentar esquec\u00ea-la.<\/p>\n

If he didn\u2019t want to make some effort to get to know you, then you shouldn\u2019t be desperate and chase him.<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 o homem que te merece e nunca serias verdadeiramente feliz com ele.<\/p>\n

Por isso, esquece isso antes que te magoes ainda mais. Confia em mim, \u00e9 a melhor coisa que podes fazer por ti.<\/p>\n

Ficar feliz porque ele se foi embora<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Maybe you felt it from the first contact, but you didn\u2019t want to believe it.<\/p>\n

Maybe you felt he was never as into you as you him, but you didn\u2019t pay attention to that.<\/p>\n

Mas agora, depois de tudo se ter encaixado, tudo faz sentido.<\/p>\n

Tudo \u00e9 muito claro e est\u00e1 zangada consigo pr\u00f3pria por n\u00e3o o ter exclu\u00eddo da sua vida mais cedo.<\/p>\n

But you shouldn\u2019t worry about that because it is never too late for the good things. If he left you, don\u2019t cry.Instead, be happy.<\/p>\n

Seja feliz porque se salvou da dor e da agonia. Agora que est\u00e1 novamente livre, aproveite a sua vida e cuide da sua mente e do seu corpo.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a tudo o que o ajude a sentir-se melhor e viva cada dia como se fosse o \u00faltimo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t overthink why it happened<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando se perde algu\u00e9m ou alguma coisa inesperadamente, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que se tenha vontade de pensar demasiado na raz\u00e3o do sucedido.<\/p>\n

You will try to find reasons, but you won\u2019t be able to do a whole lot about it. That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t ruminate on it at all because it will be only worse.<\/p>\n

If someone left you without any explanation, you shouldn\u2019t be the one to chase after him and ask why he did it.<\/p>\n

A melhor coisa que se pode fazer numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o como esta \u00e9 deixar tudo de lado.<\/p>\n

If it mattered to them, they would stick, but obviously, they don\u2019t see themselves with you to stay and fight for what you have.<\/p>\n

Confia em mim, quando aceitares o que aconteceu e esqueceres tudo, vais finalmente encontrar a paz que mereces.<\/p>\n

Seguir em frente<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Seguir em frente pode ser muito dif\u00edcil, mas \u00e9 o que precisa de fazer se quiser voltar a ser feliz.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 porque um homem desistiu de si,<\/a> doesn\u2019t mean that you are not good enough.<\/p>\n

It just means that he was the wrong one and you should try to find someone who will look at you like you\u2019re the apple of his eye.<\/p>\n

When you finally move on, you will realize that you were holding onto something that wasn\u2019t real for so long, and because of that, you couldn\u2019t find the right one for yourself.<\/p>\n

It will be hard in the beginning, but once you experience real happiness, you will understand that good things don\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\n

Quando ultrapassar o que o impedia de ser feliz, dar\u00e1 a melhor prenda a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

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