{"id":35633,"date":"2020-08-17T13:40:26","date_gmt":"2020-08-17T13:40:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35633"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:55:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:55:16","slug":"nao-estas-a-pedir-demasiado-estas-a-pedir-a-pessoa-errada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-estas-a-pedir-demasiado-estas-a-pedir-a-pessoa-errada\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o est\u00e1 a pedir demasiado, est\u00e1 a pedir a pessoa errada"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00e3o v\u00eas que n\u00e3o est\u00e1s errada? Mereces tudo o que est\u00e1s a pedir, mas querida, est\u00e1s a procurar o que mereces no homem errado.<\/p>\n<p>This person you\u2019re running after will never appreciate you because they are not meant to.<\/p>\n<p>Isso v\u00ea-se claramente desde o in\u00edcio, pela forma como se comporta. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gostar de algu\u00e9m e apreciar algu\u00e9m n\u00e3o \u00e9 a mesma coisa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Can\u2019t you see, he doesn\u2019t like you, you\u2019re just currently okay, something he can satisfy himself with until something better comes along.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not looking at a man who sees the world in you. You\u2019re not holding a hand of a man who thinks you\u2019re irreplaceable.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not embracing a man who can\u2019t imagine his life without you. The problem is not you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>At the moment, you\u2019re just convenient and you should be everything.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sabes o que ele v\u00ea quando olha para ti? Ele v\u00ea uma rapariga boa com um belo rabo e um corpo de arrasar.<\/p>\n<p>But do you know what he\u2019s supposed to see when he looks at you?<\/p>\n<p><strong>He\u2019s supposed to see the most beautiful woman he\u2019s ever met<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-106906\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/portrait-of-a-smiling-girl-with-a-cup-of-coffee-in-her-hand.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de uma rapariga sorridente com uma ch\u00e1vena de caf\u00e9 na m\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/portrait-of-a-smiling-girl-with-a-cup-of-coffee-in-her-hand.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/portrait-of-a-smiling-girl-with-a-cup-of-coffee-in-her-hand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/portrait-of-a-smiling-girl-with-a-cup-of-coffee-in-her-hand-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/portrait-of-a-smiling-girl-with-a-cup-of-coffee-in-her-hand-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/portrait-of-a-smiling-girl-with-a-cup-of-coffee-in-her-hand-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s supposed to get lost in your eyes and have the powerful need to look into them for the rest of his life, never doubting himself for choosing you.<\/p>\n<p>The person you\u2019re supposed to be with won\u2019t care about your body, he will care about what you carry inside yourself.<\/p>\n<p>And no matter how you look, you\u2019re going to be the best looking woman ever and forever. Do you know why?<\/p>\n<p>Because he\u2019ll be in love with what\u2019s inside and not outside.<\/p>\n<p>Quer que ele passe tempo consigo porque se sente assim e porque o quer fazer.<\/p>\n<p>And I ask you again, is that too much, is that something strange to ask for? You\u2019re asking for what belongs to you.<\/p>\n<p>A person in love won\u2019t think twice about being with the one they love. This one, this wrong guy calls you to entertain himself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When he has nothing better to do, you\u2019re enough to fill his time. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>The moment he finds something else, you\u2019re back in the shadow where he keeps you, while accusing you of not being good enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s not planning on spending his life with you, you do know that?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-106907\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/a-sad-girl-sits-on-the-street-and-thinks.jpg\" alt=\"uma rapariga triste senta-se na rua e pensa\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/a-sad-girl-sits-on-the-street-and-thinks.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/a-sad-girl-sits-on-the-street-and-thinks-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/a-sad-girl-sits-on-the-street-and-thinks-768x514.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/a-sad-girl-sits-on-the-street-and-thinks-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/a-sad-girl-sits-on-the-street-and-thinks-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ou continua a mentir a si pr\u00f3pria, pensando que ele vai mudar de ideias, que vai perceber o que tem e que, de repente, vai fazer um \"um-oitavo\"?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sorry, I know it\u2019s hard to hear and even harder to accept, but you\u2019re in his life temporarily \u2013 for as long as he wants to keep you.<\/p>\n<p>After that, you\u2019re out.<\/p>\n<p>Has he ever done something for you without you asking him to? No? That\u2019s exactly what I thought. He will never do it either.<\/p>\n<p>People who have only temporary interest in someone will put minimal effort into that relationship, just like he\u2019s not moving a finger to make you happy.<\/p>\n<p>When you have had enough of it and when you crack, then he does something, just to keep you a bit more occupied so you fail to see he\u2019s the wrong guy for you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Even he knows he\u2019s the wrong one, but he doesn\u2019t have a problem with taking advantage of you while it suits him. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Um homem disposto a arriscar tudo por si nunca dar\u00e1 desculpas por n\u00e3o estar presente quando precisa dele.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of coming up with silly reasons, he will show up \u2013 any time and any way he knows.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-106908\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/a-black-man-caresses-his-wifes-face.jpg\" alt=\"um homem negro acaricia o rosto da sua mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/a-black-man-caresses-his-wifes-face.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/a-black-man-caresses-his-wifes-face-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/a-black-man-caresses-his-wifes-face-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/a-black-man-caresses-his-wifes-face-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/a-black-man-caresses-his-wifes-face-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And do you know why he\u2019ll be there every time, him, the right guy? Because your love feels like home and not a vacation.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ambos os homens s\u00e3o reais. Ambos existem. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>The problem is, are you going to meet the right one while you\u2019re wasting time trying to be good enough for the wrong one?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Look, living a lie is easier. Living a lie is more convenient because you don\u2019t have to make any decisions you\u2019re afraid of.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to face reality. You can go on like this for as long as the wrong guy has interest in you.<\/p>\n<p>O momento <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-reasons-loses-interest-show\/\">ele perde o interesse<\/a>, you\u2019re out of the game.<\/p>\n<p>And before you even turn around, you\u2019ll realize you\u2019ve wasted your life on the person you were never supposed to be with.<\/p>\n<p>All because you were too afraid to look further. If you\u2019d look elsewhere, you\u2019d find the man who is everything this one is not.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t shine brightly if there is something pulling you into darkness. Don\u2019t allow yourself to be pulled; be brave and shine!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-106909 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Youre-Not-Asking-For-Too-Much-Youre-Asking-For-The-Wrong-Person-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"N\u00e3o est\u00e1 a pedir demasiado, est\u00e1 a pedir a pessoa errada\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Youre-Not-Asking-For-Too-Much-Youre-Asking-For-The-Wrong-Person-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Youre-Not-Asking-For-Too-Much-Youre-Asking-For-The-Wrong-Person-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Youre-Not-Asking-For-Too-Much-Youre-Asking-For-The-Wrong-Person-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Youre-Not-Asking-For-Too-Much-Youre-Asking-For-The-Wrong-Person-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Youre-Not-Asking-For-Too-Much-Youre-Asking-For-The-Wrong-Person-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Can\u2019t you see you\u2019re not wrong? You deserve every little thing you\u2019re asking for, but babe, you\u2019re looking for what you deserve in the wrong man. This person you\u2019re running after will never appreciate you because they are not meant to. You can see that clearly from the start from the way he behaves. &nbsp;&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":106904,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35633","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Youre-Not-Asking-For-Too-Much-Youre-Asking-For-The-Wrong-Person.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35633","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35633"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35633\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/106904"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35633"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35633"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35633"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}