{"id":35637,"date":"2019-04-17T13:53:58","date_gmt":"2019-04-17T13:53:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35637"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:14:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:14:20","slug":"24-coisas-fascinantes-sobre-as-quais-os-homens-sao-inseguros-e-que-nunca-imaginaria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/24-coisas-fascinantes-sobre-as-quais-os-homens-sao-inseguros-e-que-nunca-imaginaria\/","title":{"rendered":"24 coisas fascinantes sobre as quais os homens s\u00e3o inseguros (que nunca adivinharias)"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. Os teus namorados anteriores.<\/strong> Os homens sentem que t\u00eam de corresponder \u00e0s suas expectativas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

They believe you\u2019ll compare them to your exes which puts huge pressure on their performance and their behavior in a relationship.
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2. A sua apar\u00eancia.<\/strong> Pensava que s\u00f3 as mulheres se preocupavam com o seu aspeto e que s\u00f3 viam defeitos no seu corpo? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men do that, too. I can\u2019t even tell you how many times my guy friends asked me for style tips and advice on how to look better or what to wear.
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3. Tu a olhares para outros homens.<\/strong> Bem, isto \u00e9 a prova de que os homens t\u00eam dois pesos e duas medidas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s okay for them to check out other women and you\u2019re not supposed to be bothered with that because, well, they are guys and they have to do it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, quando os pap\u00e9is se invertem, quando se olha para outro homem, o n\u00edvel de inseguran\u00e7a de um homem atinge o topo.
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4. Parceiros sexuais anteriores.<\/strong> There are men out there who can\u2019t stand the fact their girlfriend had sexual partners in the past. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Querem ser os \u00fanicos. O que \u00e9 isso se n\u00e3o uma clara inseguran\u00e7a?
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5. N\u00e3o poder sustentar-se financeiramente.<\/strong> A maioria dos homens associa a sua masculinidade \u00e0 sua capacidade de apoiar financeiramente a sua parceira. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

They think they are not man enough if they can\u2019t earn enough money for you to be taken care of.
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6. Ser magro.<\/strong> As pessoas magras t\u00eam os mesmos problemas que as pessoas gordas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why is it okay for someone to walk up to a really skinny person and say to their face they are really skinny and ask why they don\u2019t get fat? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s the same as walking up to a fat person and asking them why they don\u2019t lose weight.
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7. O seu p\u00e9nis.<\/strong> Qual \u00e9 o comprimento adequado, o que \u00e9 demasiado grande e o que \u00e9 demasiado pequeno? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00e3o as quest\u00f5es que incomodam os homens e as quest\u00f5es para as quais nunca obter\u00e3o respostas concretas.
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8. Ser sens\u00edvel.<\/strong> It\u2019s not a secret that women prefer men who openly talk about their emotions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Being sensitive is an advantage but what you never thought of is that most of them are very scared to open up because they fear they\u2019ll cross the line. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00eam medo de dizer demasiado e de serem abandonados por causa disso.
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9. Compet\u00eancias no quarto.<\/strong> Especialmente quando est\u00e3o com algu\u00e9m pela primeira vez. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That first performance matters despite the myth that it is okay to be a bit clumsy because you don\u2019t know exactly what that person wants and likes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

At the beginning of a relationship, you don\u2019t talk about that stuff so much, so it\u2019s normal that you\u2019re clueless.
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10. A sua personalidade. <\/strong>Just take a look at any self-help guide for men and you\u2019ll see how big of a deal the issue with personalities is. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Guys are afraid they aren\u2019t interesting or fun enough. They are afraid the woman they\u2019re with will soon get bored and leave.
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11. Estar solteiro durante algum tempo.<\/strong> Todos n\u00f3s conhecemos aquele tipo que \u00e9 o \u00faltimo entre os seus amigos sem namorada ou mulher. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, he isn\u2019t having the best time ever, even if he\u2019s cheering for staying single and without commitment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

What actually goes around in his head is he\u2019s scared of dying alone and he\u2019s wondering what\u2019s wrong with him since he\u2019s the last one still single.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Not being \u2018manly\u2019 enough.<\/strong> Not all guys enjoy sports or similar \u2018manly\u2019 things. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alguns preferem sentar-se e ver um filme ou um programa de televis\u00e3o do que ver futebol. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That doesn\u2019t make them less of a man but not feeling pressure about it presents a big problem to a man like that.
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13. Ter mamas de homem.<\/strong> Yes, that\u2019s a real thing and yes, it presents a huge complex to men who have that problem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e1 homens que trabalham o seu corpo e est\u00e3o em grande forma, com abdominais e corpos de morrer, mas as mamas de homem recusam-se a desaparecer.
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14. Ter disfun\u00e7\u00e3o er\u00e9til.<\/strong> That can happen to any man and it\u2019s every guy\u2019s biggest fear.
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15. Ter o controlo da sua vida.<\/strong> Na verdade, isto est\u00e1 intimamente relacionado com a capacidade de sustentar algu\u00e9m financeiramente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por isso, \u00e9 evidente que tamb\u00e9m querem ser capazes de se sustentar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

They don\u2019t want to depend on anyone or ask anyone for any help, especially the financial kind.
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16. Perder o cabelo.<\/strong> It\u2019s less stressful when men start losing their hair at an age appropriate for that to happen but when younger men, men in their thirties or even younger, start losing their hair, it creates insecurities and self-hatred. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Todos os homens temem que isso aconte\u00e7a.
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17. N\u00e3o ser suficientemente alto.<\/strong> Ou ser demasiado alto. Normalmente, as raparigas procuram homens que sejam um pouco mais altos do que elas, mas n\u00e3o demasiado altos. Os homens sabem isso.
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18. Ter de dan\u00e7ar.<\/strong> A lot of men don\u2019t like to dance and they avoid it at all costs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Frankly, they have the feeling you\u2019re killing it out there while they look like they\u2019ve been fighting with diarrhea while dancing.
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19. O que a fam\u00edlia pensa deles.<\/strong> What guys think of other guys doesn\u2019t matter that much. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A sua maior preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 o que as mulheres e a sua pr\u00f3pria fam\u00edlia pensam deles. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you don\u2019t believe what I\u2019m saying, just take a look at how many marriages have fallen apart because of the meddling of the in-laws.
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20. Outros rapazes da mesma idade.<\/strong> Os homens comparam-se uns aos outros, especialmente os homens da mesma idade. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If most of them have a family or a great job, then the ones who don\u2019t have that will feel bad because they have the feeling they should be on the same level as other people of the same age.
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21. Compromisso.<\/strong> Infelizmente, isto \u00e9 verdade. De facto, os homens t\u00eam medo de estar sozinhos e de se comprometerem <\/a>ao mesmo tempo, o que n\u00e3o faz qualquer sentido.
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22. Ter confian\u00e7a depois de ter sido enganado.<\/strong> After being hurt, it\u2019s hard to get back out there because you’re expecting bad things to happen to you once again.
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23. The number of women they\u2019ve slept with.<\/strong> Isto pode acontecer em ambos os sentidos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Podem ser demasiados, o que d\u00e1 a impress\u00e3o de que estes homens s\u00e3o mulherengos, ou podem ser menos, o que coloca um elemento de d\u00favida sobre o seu desempenho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

24. Ser apreciado.<\/strong> Like any woman, a man would also like to be popular. Every person has the need to be socially approved, it\u2019s in human nature. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you think men don\u2019t have this need, you\u2019re wrong. Everyone feels the need to be loved. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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