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<\/p>\nDetestamos ouvi-lo, detestamos admiti-lo a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios, mas, infelizmente, por vezes o amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente para fazer durar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
Sure, it\u2019s essential, but it\u2019s just a part of the puzzle. There are other crucial puzzle pieces that have to fit together to form the bigger picture.<\/p>\n
What we usually forget is the most obvious thing there is that love takes two \u2013 two people making efforts, investing equally, and meeting each other halfway.<\/p>\n
Falhamos nas nossas rela\u00e7\u00f5es sempre que come\u00e7amos a pensar que amamos t\u00e3o profundamente que isso ser\u00e1 suficiente para dois.<\/p>\n
It never is. It\u2019s always missing something.<\/p>\n
Take a look at the 9 most common reasons your relationship won\u2019t work, even if your feelings are real:<\/p>\n
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He doesn\u2019t see himself getting married. You can\u2019t imagine yourself living in the countryside.<\/p>\n
One of you doesn\u2019t want to have children and other can\u2019t imagine a future without them. <\/p>\n
And no matter how strongly you feel for each other, you will at one point have to face the fact that you will be miserable if you sign up for a life you don\u2019t really want.<\/p>\n
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Todos sabemos que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o insustent\u00e1veis se houver sem confian\u00e7a<\/a>.<\/p>\n Yet sometimes we try and do our best to restore that trust, to make things work, because we care so much and don\u2019t want to let go.<\/p>\n If someone betrayed us or in any way made us doubt them, that seed of doubt will be implanted permanently and you won\u2019t be able to get rid of it.<\/p>\n Mais cedo ou mais tarde, ver\u00e1 que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 outra op\u00e7\u00e3o sen\u00e3o acabar com tudo.<\/p>\n This is a really difficult pill to swallow because it actually doesn\u2019t have anything to do with the two of you or your love, but it\u2019s ruining your relationship anyway.<\/p>\n H\u00e1 algumas m\u00e3es, por exemplo, que acham que ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 suficientemente bom para os seus filhos.<\/p>\n H\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que alguns membros da fam\u00edlia querem fazer com que pare\u00e7a uma m\u00e1 pessoa e exemplos semelhantes de intromiss\u00f5es familiares desnecess\u00e1rias.<\/p>\n If he is close and attached to his family and he can\u2019t stand up to them when they mistreat you or silence them when they start filling his head with nonsense, it\u2019s only a matter of time before they manage to drive the two of you apart.<\/p>\n Rezamos por uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem dramas, mas isso parece imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n You and your partner are on each other\u2019s case 24\/7 and you always find new things to argue about or at least discuss at great length.<\/p>\n You can’t remember the last time you had a whole week of peace and harmony. <\/p>\n Depois de um ou dois dias calmos, as tempestades chegam e, de um modo geral, sente-se mais triste do que feliz.<\/p>\n Apesar de todo o amor e da prov\u00e1vel atra\u00e7\u00e3o ineg\u00e1vel que partilham, simplesmente n\u00e3o s\u00e3o compat\u00edveis.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o conseguem entender-se e, provavelmente, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 qualquer hip\u00f3tese de alguma vez o conseguirem.<\/p>\n There are some things that aren\u2019t working in your relationship, no matter how hard you try or how much you invest.<\/p>\n Sente-se que tudo vem do seu lado e que a outra pessoa n\u00e3o participa ativamente.<\/p>\n You love, but you don\u2019t know if you are loved back the same way and it\u2019s killing you bit by bit.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why you find yourself unable to shake off the feeling that something better might be out there.<\/p>\n Trust your gut. The thing with a forever person is that you don\u2019t have to wonder, you know.<\/p>\n Nem tudo tem de ser perfeito, mas duas pessoas que querem ficar juntas e que se amam infinitamente s\u00e3o o que faz toda a diferen\u00e7a.<\/p>\n As rela\u00e7\u00f5es podem ser dif\u00edceis. Rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/a> pode ser ainda mais dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n It\u2019s extremely difficult to maintain a relationship when you are not living in the same city, state, or even continent.<\/p>\n Se n\u00e3o est\u00e3o a fazer planos para viverem no mesmo s\u00edtio um dia, se nenhum de voc\u00eas est\u00e1 preparado para se mudar, ent\u00e3o est\u00e3o apenas a adiar o inevit\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t be a long distance couple forever, now can you?<\/p>\nHis family doesn\u2019t accept you<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nCada dia \u00e9 mais dram\u00e1tico do que o anterior<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n\u201cIs he really my forever person?\u201d is echoing in your head<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nN\u00e3o \u00e9 capaz de ultrapassar a dist\u00e2ncia f\u00edsica<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nA lux\u00faria \u00e9 um conceito desconhecido na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
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