{"id":35737,"date":"2020-04-19T12:40:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-19T12:40:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35737"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:39:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:39:09","slug":"nao-se-case-ate-saber-estas-5-coisas-sobre-o-seu-parceiro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-se-case-ate-saber-estas-5-coisas-sobre-o-seu-parceiro\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o se case at\u00e9 saber estas 5 coisas sobre o seu parceiro!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When you deeply love someone and your love is reciprocated, there\u2019s nothing greater in the world than the feeling of becoming one and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-desculpas-que-os-homens-dao-quando-nao-se-sentem-preparados-para-casar\/\">casar<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Mas apressar o casamento antes de se colocar algumas quest\u00f5es cruciais pode n\u00e3o ter um resultado positivo, por muito que se amem.<\/p>\n<p>Regardless of whether you\u2019ve been dating for quite a long time now or if you\u2019ve been together for years, there are some important questions that you need to ask yourself in order to be ready to tie the knot!<\/p>\n<p>You see, making a vow is a great responsibility toward yourself and your partner and in order for your marriage to blossom and to reach the ultimate happiness, you need to ask yourself if you\u2019re both ready to sacrifice, fight the tough moments and never give up, no matter what happens.<\/p>\n<p>To be one hundred percent sure that you\u2019re both ready to tie the knot, here is a list of 5 things that you need to know about your partner before deciding to get married!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">As suas opini\u00f5es sobre ter filhos (e quantos)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93456\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz abra\u00e7ado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Having children is no longer a \u2018prerequisite\u2019 like it was in olden times but many people do not foresee the fact that not everyone is interested in having children after getting married.<\/p>\n<p>Esquecem-se de perguntar ao parceiro sobre a sua opini\u00e3o relativamente a ter filhos, porque j\u00e1 assumem que ele est\u00e1 provavelmente interessado em faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n<p>Or they talk to their partner about it but forget to ask about the number of children, which again might result in disagreeing (when it\u2019s kind of too late).<\/p>\n<p>Para evitar qualquer tipo de desilus\u00e3o futura, \u00e9 sempre boa ideia falar abertamente com o seu parceiro sobre estas quest\u00f5es e pedir-lhe que as confirme mais uma vez, se necess\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not on the same page regarding having children, you might break your vows sooner than you thought because your marriage won\u2019t be as you\u2019ve imagined it, so never forget to discuss this with your partner!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o financeira<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93457\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal a beber caf\u00e9 e a conversar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Basta pensar em todas as cenas de filmes em que os casais rec\u00e9m-casados discutem e discutem sobre dinheiro.<\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9, de facto, uma dura realidade.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not familiar with how your partner behaves regarding their finances, your marriage could easily turn into a nightmare.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso saber se o seu parceiro \u00e9 razo\u00e1vel com o dinheiro e se tem alguma d\u00edvida que possa afetar muito o vosso casamento.<\/p>\n<p>And even if you know that your partner is financially secure and can afford to spend lots of money (on unnecessary things), you should never come to the conclusion that you\u2019re pretty much safe with them.<\/p>\n<p>A sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o financeira pode deteriorar-se no espa\u00e7o de um m\u00eas e todos os sonhos da sua brilhante <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-sinais-reveladores-de-que-ele-ve-um-futuro-consigo\/\">futuro em conjunto<\/a> com ele tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>Pensar sempre de forma racional quando se trata de finan\u00e7as.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca prestem aten\u00e7\u00e3o apenas \u00e0 quantidade de dinheiro que t\u00eam, mas sim \u00e0 forma como lidam com ele, pois isso ir\u00e1 poupar-vos muito sofrimento na vossa vida em comum!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Como tratam os outros (fam\u00edlia, estranhos, ex-namorados)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93458\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/two-friends-sitting-on-the-bench-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"dois amigos sentados no banco a conversar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/two-friends-sitting-on-the-bench-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/two-friends-sitting-on-the-bench-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/two-friends-sitting-on-the-bench-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do they hold grudges with a particular family member or their ex? Are they rude to strangers, bartenders and others that they don\u2019t know?<\/p>\n<p>A forma como tratam os outros \u00e9 uma das coisas mais importantes a que deve prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o, porque o seu comportamento tamb\u00e9m se reflectir\u00e1 na sua futura vida em conjunto.<\/p>\n<p>Pay attention to how they interact with their family, so that you\u2019re familiar with any potential drama.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, deve observar o seu comportamento quando est\u00e3o a falar dos seus ex.<\/p>\n<p>Se eles tratam todas as suas ex com respeito, tamb\u00e9m o v\u00e3o tratar da mesma forma.<\/p>\n<p>Mas se est\u00e3o constantemente a falar mal deles, isso significa que s\u00e3o emocionalmente imaturos e que ainda precisam de tempo para entrar em contacto com os seus sentimentos e o seu eu interior.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">As suas prefer\u00eancias relativamente \u00e0 intimidade f\u00edsica<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93459\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-kissing-in-bed-1.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal a beijar-se na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-kissing-in-bed-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-kissing-in-bed-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-kissing-in-bed-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A verdadeira intimidade f\u00edsica com o seu parceiro \u00e9 como a fa\u00edsca do seu casamento.<\/p>\n<p>Desde que se toquem e demonstrem apre\u00e7o um pelo outro, mental e fisicamente, o vosso casamento ser\u00e1 a personifica\u00e7\u00e3o da felicidade.<\/p>\n<p>But don\u2019t get me wrong. This is not only concerned with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/13-signs-you-are-not-just-having-sex-you-are-making-love\/\">fazer amor com o seu parceiro<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Engloba todas as pequenas coisas que fazem e gestos que fazem um pelo outro, como dar as m\u00e3os, abra\u00e7arem-se pelas costas, beijarem-se antes de se separarem, tocarem nos dedos dos p\u00e9s quando est\u00e3o na cama e coisas semelhantes.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso saber que tipo de contacto f\u00edsico faz o seu parceiro feliz e esperar que ele saiba o mesmo e aja em conformidade.<\/p>\n<p>Marriage requires hard work and you need to make sure that your partner is willing to \u2018cooperate\u2019 and make an effort to please you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Como lidam com situa\u00e7\u00f5es dif\u00edceis<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93460\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-hugging-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem s\u00e9rio a abra\u00e7ar mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-hugging-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-hugging-woman-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-hugging-woman-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todos n\u00f3s enfrentamos momentos dif\u00edceis a dada altura e todos lidamos com eles de forma diferente.<\/p>\n<p>But when you\u2019re married to someone, there is no room for acting irresponsibly or childishly in difficult situations.<\/p>\n<p>So, you need to pay attention to how your partner is behaving when he\u2019s in trouble or in a stressful situation with his job, personal life, family or similar.<\/p>\n<p>Afasta-se e ignora o problema ou encara-o com coragem e come\u00e7a imediatamente a encontrar solu\u00e7\u00f5es para ele?<\/p>\n<p>If he seems to \u2018shit his pants\u2019 when he has to make a difficult decision or deal with something stressful, this is neither a good sign nor a desirable quality when it comes to marriage.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso ter a certeza absoluta de que o seu parceiro est\u00e1 emocional e fisicamente preparado para enfrentar as m\u00faltiplas barreiras que podem surgir na vossa vida em comum e que pode contar sempre com ele, pois s\u00f3 assim o casamento ser\u00e1 saud\u00e1vel e bem sucedido, cheio de b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3os!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93455\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest-2.jpg\" alt=\"N\u00e3o se case at\u00e9 saber estas 5 coisas sobre o seu parceiro!\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest-2.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest-2-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93454\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"N\u00e3o se case at\u00e9 saber estas 5 coisas sobre o seu parceiro!\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you deeply love someone and your love is reciprocated, there\u2019s nothing greater in the world than the feeling of becoming one and getting married. But rushing into marriage before asking yourself some crucial questions might not result positively, no matter how much you love each other. Regardless of whether you\u2019ve been dating for quite&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":93461,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35737","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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