{"id":35783,"date":"2019-04-22T09:50:06","date_gmt":"2019-04-22T09:50:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35783"},"modified":"2021-12-20T17:04:59","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T17:04:59","slug":"7-bandeiras-vermelhas-de-mensagens-de-texto-que-provam-que-ele-esta-seriamente-errado-para-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-bandeiras-vermelhas-de-mensagens-de-texto-que-provam-que-ele-esta-seriamente-errado-para-si\/","title":{"rendered":"7 bandeiras vermelhas de mensagens de texto que provam que ele est\u00e1 seriamente errado para voc\u00ea"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>H\u00e1 muitos aspectos de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o que s\u00e3o necess\u00e1rios para que ela funcione.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s never just one thing that went wrong when a relationship fails, there are always many factors that contributed to its eventual doom.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Um desses factores importantes numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a troca de mensagens entre si e o seu parceiro.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>\u00c9 assim que pode descobrir muito sobre o seu homem, sem que ele precise de dizer muito.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Quando se come\u00e7a uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o, a parte das mensagens de texto \u00e9 quase sempre a parte mais emocionante de todas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You\u2019re blowing up each other\u2019s phones 24\/7 and you absolutely beam the minute you see his name on your screen.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>The conversations are never-ending and you feel like there\u2019s nothing he can say that could possibly wipe that smile off your face!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Mas \u00e0 medida que o tempo passa, e voc\u00eas come\u00e7am a ficar mais s\u00e9rios, os textos dele pioram.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>He gets too comfortable because he knows he\u2019s got you hooked, and his <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/9-maus-habitos-de-envio-de-mensagens-que-o-farao-perder-o-interesse\/\">h\u00e1bitos de envio de mensagens<\/a> n\u00e3o est\u00e3o nem perto do que eram na fase inicial.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>This is what will tell you if your man is actually a total douche, or if he\u2019s worth sticking it out.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>The way he texts you after he\u2019s won you over will reveal his true nature and intentions, if you just pay attention!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><em>Tem cuidado com estes 7 tipos de mensagens que recebes dele. S\u00e3o a prova de que ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 a pessoa certa para ti e que deves deix\u00e1-lo o mais depressa poss\u00edvel!<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Ele ignora as tuas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e chama-te louco quando queres desabafar<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You text him about an issue that you have, or something that you feel you two should talk about, and he totally dismisses what you\u2019re saying, feeling zero need to even think about your idea or suggestion.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>He makes you feel like you\u2019re acting like a crazy person for simply trying to get a reply that won\u2019t completely disregard <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/se-reprimes-as-tuas-emocoes-devias-ler-isto\/\">as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a>!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You can\u2019t get anything off your chest and every time you want to text him about anything that isn\u2019t convenient for him, it makes your gut churn.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Nunca responde especificamente \u00e0s suas mensagens, as suas respostas s\u00e3o sempre vagas<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You want to find out more about him and his life but every time you ask him a specific question, he\u2019s totally vague.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s like he doesn\u2019t want to share deeper stuff with you and he just blows you off with an extremely short text, and it\u2019s really hurtful for you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Sempre que o quiser tomar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/quando-e-que-deve-levar-a-sua-relacao-para-o-nivel-seguinte\/\">para o n\u00edvel seguinte<\/a> atrav\u00e9s de mensagens de texto, bate-se numa parede de tijolo que parece completamente impenetr\u00e1vel.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Ele tende a enviar-te mensagens de texto sobretudo \u00e0 noite<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>And you know what that means. If you\u2019re only on his mind during night time, it almost always means he\u2019s merely looking for <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/i-gave-you-the-best-of-me-but-you-still-treated-me-like-a-booty-call\/\">uma chamada para sexo<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You tell yourself that\u2019s not the case, and it\u2019s just a coincidence, but it all points to it being indeed so.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You don\u2019t feel like he takes you seriously at all, because if he did, wouldn\u2019t he text you during the day as well?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. If he does text you during the day, it\u2019s mostly because he needs something<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You can\u2019t shake off the feeling like he\u2019s just <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-sinais-alarmantes-de-que-ele-a-esta-a-usar-emocionalmente\/\">utilizando-o<\/a>. Whenever you see his name light up your screen, you know that it\u2019s either sex-related or he needs a favor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s not like you don\u2019t want to help him, because you do, but it\u2019s different when that\u2019s all he ever seems to want from you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>He makes it seem as if there\u2019s something more there, but it\u2019s really just the fact that you\u2019re convenient for him, and that really sucks.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. S\u00f3 escreve sobre si pr\u00f3prio e sobre os seus pr\u00f3prios interesses<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Raramente pergunta como est\u00e1s. Raramente envia um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-lista-definitiva-de-textos-de-bom-dia-para-ela\/\">texto de bom dia.<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>He might reply if you text him first, but that\u2019s about it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Most of his texts are about him and his own shit, and he doesn\u2019t seem to care much about what\u2019s up with you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>He doesn\u2019t make an effort to really get to know the ins and outs of your life and you don\u2019t seem to be very high up on his list of priorities.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>S\u00f3 se interessa por si pr\u00f3prio e pelas coisas que lhe acontecem.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. \u00c9 passivo-agressivo nas mensagens de texto sobre os assuntos mais pequenos<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ele sabe exatamente o que dizer para nos fazer sentir como lixo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s like he makes it seem like he doesn\u2019t mean anything bad by it, but his texts are almost designed to be a subtle dig at you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It hurts being treated that way. He is simply not considerate of how his shitty texts affect you at all, and he doesn\u2019t seem to want to change at all.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If you do something wrong, he\u2019s going to make you feel guilty about it in a way that will be so passive-aggressive that he deserves an Oscar for the most dramatic performance over text.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Ele demora muito tempo a responder<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Quase nunca responde no espa\u00e7o de uma hora ap\u00f3s a sua mensagem.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You know that he has his phone on him literally all the time, but every time you text him, even the littlest things, he\u2019s going to take ages to reply. Then you think to yourself: <em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-nao-responde-as-mensagens\/\">Why won&#8217;t he text me back<\/a>?&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>E mesmo que aconte\u00e7a um milagre e ele responda num espa\u00e7o de tempo razo\u00e1vel, a sua resposta \u00e9 normalmente uma resposta que n\u00e3o requer qualquer feedback.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You just don\u2019t seem to matter to him enough to consider that your time is valuable as well, and that his texting habits are nothing but a toxic waste of time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If this is the case, he is seriously wrong for you on so many levels.A guy like that is wrong for almost anyone, so don\u2019t beat yourself up about it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Nem todos os homens s\u00e3o assim, por isso deixa-o e n\u00e3o o deixes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/lifes-too-short-to-waste-your-time-teaching-him-how-to-be-a-good-boyfriend\/\">perder o seu tempo<\/a>. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/12-razoes-pelas-quais-ele-nunca-te-manda-uma-mensagem-primeiro-mas-responde-sempre-quando-tu-lhe-mandas-uma\/\">Don&#8217;t text him<\/a>. Mereces muito melhor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-35787\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-22T114955.089-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 bandeiras vermelhas de mensagens de texto que provam que ele est\u00e1 seriamente errado para voc\u00ea\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-22T114955.089-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-22T114955.089-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-22T114955.089.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are many aspects of a relationship that are required to make it work. It\u2019s never just one thing that went wrong when a relationship fails, there are always many factors that contributed to its eventual doom. One of those important factors in a relationship is the texting between you and your partner. 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