{"id":35835,"date":"2020-04-23T07:28:44","date_gmt":"2020-04-23T07:28:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35835"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:22:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:22:09","slug":"6-padroes-duplos-que-um-parceiro-emocionalmente-abusivo-lhe-impoe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-padroes-duplos-que-um-parceiro-emocionalmente-abusivo-lhe-impoe\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Padr\u00f5es duplos a que um parceiro emocionalmente abusivo o submete"},"content":{"rendered":"

As pessoas associam o abuso sobretudo \u00e0s suas manifesta\u00e7\u00f5es f\u00edsicas, porque as n\u00f3doas negras s\u00e3o f\u00e1ceis de ver e, por isso, n\u00e3o podem ser negadas. <\/em><\/p>\n

Mas o abuso nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es pode ser muito mais do que aquilo que os olhos v\u00eaem.<\/em><\/p>\n

O abuso, sob qualquer forma, \u00e9 um tipo de abuso nojento e inaceit\u00e1vel. comportamento relacional<\/a>E quem quer que tenha de lidar com isso pode, com a ajuda de um bom sistema de apoio, encontrar a sa\u00edda s\u00e3 e salva.<\/p>\n

Estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um parceiro mental e emocionalmente abusivo \u00e9 uma tortura silenciosa.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 um dos sentimentos mais solit\u00e1rios e desoladores que uma pessoa pode suportar.<\/p>\n

That form of abuse is something people cannot see, and having to explain what you are going through without actual \u2018\u2019physical proof\u2019\u2019 of abuse is absolute hell.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 degradado, rebaixado, sente-se in\u00fatil todos os dias e ningu\u00e9m sabe realmente.<\/p>\n

Esse sentimento de solid\u00e3o e a incapacidade de as pessoas compreenderem a sua dor \u00e9 uma batalha di\u00e1ria.<\/p>\n

Ficamos t\u00e3o apanhados por uma pessoa e pelo amor que sentimos por ela que decidimos fechar os olhos ao tratamento malicioso que ela nos d\u00e1.<\/p>\n

It always starts small, so you never really want to say anything. But with time, it gets worse and more hurtful, but you keep suffering in silence\u2026<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Abuso emocional<\/a> Os parceiros s\u00e3o mestres no seu of\u00edcio.<\/p>\n

Eles descer\u00e3o aos n\u00edveis mais baixos para o fazer sentir-se mal e, muitas vezes, agem como se fosse voc\u00ea o culpado pela forma como se comportam.<\/p>\n

Eles v\u00e3o jogar a carta da v\u00edtima para o manipular, fazer jogos mentais consigo e confundi-lo. <\/em><\/p>\n

Fingir\u00e3o que t\u00eam as m\u00e3os limpas e que a culpa \u00e9 toda sua. <\/em><\/p>\n

Na maior parte das vezes, a melhor forma de o fazerem \u00e9 atrav\u00e9s de dois pesos e duas medidas que nos imp\u00f5em.<\/em><\/p>\n

If you feel like your partner is being emotionally abusive towards you, don\u2019t stay silent.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t accept the shit he puts you through. Decide that enough is enough!<\/p>\n

Eis alguns dos exemplos mais comuns de dois pesos e duas medidas a que as v\u00edtimas de abuso emocional s\u00e3o sujeitas.<\/p>\n

Se se reconhece em alguma destas situa\u00e7\u00f5es, o meu conselho \u00e9 que encontre a sa\u00edda mais pac\u00edfica e nunca olhe para tr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

He will criticize you like it\u2019s his job, but when you do the same to him, he handles it extremely poorly<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t have a problem blaming you for the most trivial and insignificant things.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do is under scrutiny, and he makes sure to let you know what a crappy job you\u2019ve done if he\u2019s not happy about something.<\/p>\n

Mas quando ele faz algo realmente mau e queremos confront\u00e1-lo como adultos, ele faz uma birra e lida muito mal com a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You fear for your life at times, so it\u2019s easier to never criticise him at all rather than risk being yelled at so much.<\/p>\n

He demands to know your whereabouts at all times, but fails to tell you where he is and how long he\u2019s going to be<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You are required to check in with him regularly no matter where you are. If you don\u2019t let him know where you are, he\u2019s going to make a scene.<\/p>\n

But when you politely ask where he is and what time he\u2019s going to be back, he acts as if you have zero right to know such a thing.<\/p>\n

Ele vai-se embora e faz as coisas dele com quem quiser e durante o tempo que quiser, e tu ficas completamente \u00e0s escuras.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care about how you feel at all but expects you to put his needs and emotions first<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Se ele te faz sentir-se mal<\/a>, that\u2019s fine by him. If he says something hurtful to you, still fine.<\/p>\n

Mas quando n\u00e3o se tem em conta as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e n\u00e3o se est\u00e1 \u00e0 sua disposi\u00e7\u00e3o, o inferno come\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso ter o cuidado de prestar sempre aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 forma como ele se sente nesse dia e fazer o que lhe conv\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

If you even try to ask him to understand that you\u2019re having a crappy day, you\u2019ll never hear the end of it.<\/p>\n

Ele pede sexo e espera-o sempre que quer, mas quando lhe apetece, ignora-a completamente<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

He expects sex whenever he feels like it. You always have to be available to him\u2014or else.<\/p>\n

But when you ask for the same thing, he won\u2019t pay attention to you.<\/p>\n

Only when he\u2019s in the mood will there be any physical manifestations of love.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re feeling up for it, it is highly unlikely he\u2019ll be respectful of it.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 ele que manda em tudo, mas quando tentamos sugerir alguma coisa, ele ignora<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 o homem, e certifica-se de que tu o sabes. Ele toma todas as decis\u00f5es, sejam elas grandes ou pequenas, e nada \u00e9 deixado para a tua participa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

But when you try to offer your input or merely suggest an idea about something, he looks down on you as if it\u2019s not your place.<\/p>\n

Espera-se que deixes o homem fazer o que lhe compete, que sejas obediente e que estejas ao seu servi\u00e7o caso ele precise de alguma coisa de ti.<\/p>\n

Whenever he mistreats you, he puts all the blame on you, and when you screw up, it\u2019s always your fault and yours only<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He will yell at you for something that he did. He\u2019ll make you feel like a total peda\u00e7o de merda<\/a> e colocar toda a culpa em si.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s always your fault when he treats you badly.<\/p>\n

Foste tu que o obrigaste a agir assim. O teu mau humor irritou-o e ele n\u00e3o teve outra alternativa sen\u00e3o descarregar em ti.<\/p>\n

Basically, you have to walk on eggshells around him because you know whatever you do, he\u2019s going to find a way to put all the blame of his actions on you.<\/p>\n

E enquanto o deixares escapar, o abuso emocional nunca vai acabar.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 importante que se distancie lentamente dele e, se precisar, pe\u00e7a ajuda.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t put up with what you shouldn\u2019t. This type of behaviour is toxic and hurtful, and nobody deserves it.<\/p>\n

Saia dessa rela\u00e7\u00e3o antes que se torne demasiado doentia e demasiado tarde. Mereces melhor!<\/p>\n

\"6<\/p>\n

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People associate abuse mostly with the physical manifestations of it because bruises are easy to see, therefore can\u2019t be denied. But abuse in relationships can be so much more than just what the eyes can see. Abuse in any form is a disgusting, unacceptable type of relationship behaviour, and whoever has to deal with it…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":77518,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35835","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Double-Standards-An-Emotionally-Abusive-Partner-Puts-You-Through.jpg",800,535,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35835","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35835"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35835\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77518"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35835"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35835"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35835"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}