{"id":35839,"date":"2019-04-23T07:58:09","date_gmt":"2019-04-23T07:58:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35839"},"modified":"2022-03-22T01:30:57","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T01:30:57","slug":"8-sinais-obvios-de-que-nao-esta-pronto-para-uma-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-obvios-de-que-nao-esta-pronto-para-uma-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Sinais \u00f3bvios de que voc\u00ea n\u00e3o est\u00e1 pronto para um relacionamento"},"content":{"rendered":"

I decided to write this article because I\u2019m urged to inform the rest of humanity about the phenomenon of not being ready for a relationship because the same thing happened to me and a few people that I know.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o, durante o per\u00edodo em que estive solteira durante alguns meses, senti-me muito infeliz e deprimida e pensei que a principal causa disso era o facto de ainda estar solteira.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pensei tolamente que se eu entrou numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>, eu ficaria magicamente curada e finalmente feliz.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But it didn\u2019t work out that way.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A minha precipita\u00e7\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o acabou muito mal e o mesmo aconteceu a alguns dos meus amigos, que tamb\u00e9m eram solteiros nessa altura.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Back then, I didn\u2019t know that relationships cannot be forced and desperately trying to enter a new one will bring you nothing but the feeling of disappointment.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Relationships happen naturally and sometimes you\u2019re just not ready to be in one and the more you (subconsciously) force it, the more you will just be unhappy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re feeling the same way or you suspect that this might be the case with you or someone you know, keep reading the following 8 signs which mean that you are not ready to be in a relationship!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Sente-se desesperado<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se, por v\u00e1rias raz\u00f5es, se sentir desesperado em algum momento da sua vida, nunca \u00e9 boa ideia entrar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Being desperate means being negatively wired, which also means attracting people into your life with the same \u2018quality\u2019.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re feeling this way, you will definitely have difficulties in relationships and that is why it is wise to first collect your own thoughts and find your inner peace because nothing else will help you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se entrar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o assim, ela estar\u00e1 condenada e, se encontrar algu\u00e9m, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que ele sinta o mesmo que voc\u00ea, o que nunca \u00e9 uma boa combina\u00e7\u00e3o quando se trata de estabelecer uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e feliz<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Quer mudar para os outros<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

While it is okay to be willing to change some of your \u2018bad\u2019 habits for someone you like, it is never a good idea to be willing to change yourself completely or do whatever they ask of you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se est\u00e1 pronto para fazer isso, n\u00e3o est\u00e1 pronto para ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, porque precisa de trabalhar em si primeiro.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You need to accept yourself in the state you\u2019re currently in and understand why you\u2019re feeling the way you\u2019re feeling.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

S\u00f3 ent\u00e3o encontrar\u00e1s a tua verdadeira felicidade e s\u00f3 ent\u00e3o estar\u00e1s pronto para estar com algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Quer salvar os outros<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Querer desesperadamente salvar algu\u00e9m \u00e9 sempre t\u00f3xico quando se trata de rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You need to understand that you\u2019re not responsible for other people\u2019s behavior or happiness.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se continuar a esfor\u00e7ar-se por ajud\u00e1-los e mud\u00e1-los, apesar de eles n\u00e3o estarem dispostos a cooperar ou a faz\u00ea-lo sozinhos, a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o falhar\u00e1 mesmo antes de come\u00e7ar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Wanting to be someone\u2019s savior at the cost of a sua pr\u00f3pria felicidade<\/a> nunca trouxe nada de bom para ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Deve salvar-se primeiro e depois pensar em salvar os outros (mas s\u00f3 se eles tamb\u00e9m estiverem dispostos a salvar-se).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Pensa que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o tudo na vida<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Muitas pessoas pensam que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o a parte mais importante da nossa vida.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

De facto, s\u00e3o importantes, mas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o tudo na vida.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you think the same thing, it is likely that you\u2019ll feel desperate about being single because you haven\u2019t achieved your goal of being happy with someone in a relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00c9 preciso saber que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es n\u00e3o podem ser for\u00e7adas<\/a> ou apressado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Como j\u00e1 foi dito, acontecem naturalmente e tudo o resto n\u00e3o passa de fingimento e for\u00e7amento, o que acabar\u00e1 por ser mau.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o importantes, mas o que \u00e9 mais importante \u00e9 a sua pr\u00f3pria felicidade e bem-estar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando aprenderes a amar-te a ti pr\u00f3prio da mesma forma que queres amar os outros, estar\u00e1s pronto para um.<\/p>\r\n

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5. Ainda pensas no teu ex<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se ainda pensa no seu ex e pensa que ao iniciar uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o o vai apagar da sua mente e da sua vida, est\u00e1 enganado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pensar ainda no seu ex ou no seu passado significa que ainda tem sentimentos por ele, o que \u00e9 totalmente normal.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Significa que precisa de mais tempo para os ultrapassar e aceitar a sua separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O pior que se pode fazer nesta altura \u00e9 perseguir novas rela\u00e7\u00f5es ou potenciais parceiros.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se o fizer, estar\u00e1 apenas a prolongar a dor e o processo de cura.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. You\u2019re unsure about your feelings<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re inseguro quanto aos seus sentimentos<\/a>, it means you don\u2019t know what you want, you don\u2019t understand your feelings and you\u2019re not ready to be in a relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you keep playing hot and cold with potential partners, it means you\u2019re deceiving yourself and you just need more time alone to get in touch with your inner self.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Your feelings are the most complex thing in the whole world and if you yourself don\u2019t understand them, no one else will be able to.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Only when you\u2019re one hundred percent sure about your feelings will you be able to share your life with another human being.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Tem dificuldade em confiar nos outros<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A dificuldade em confiar nos outros est\u00e1 intimamente ligada \u00e0s suas experi\u00eancias passadas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It usually means that you\u2019ve been hurt before and now you\u2019re scarred and incapable of trusting others.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re afraid that they will magoar-vos<\/a> tal como algu\u00e9m do teu passado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lembre-se que nunca, mas nunca \u00e9 uma boa ideia decidir ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com algu\u00e9m se tiver problemas de confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se decidir faz\u00ea-lo, o mais prov\u00e1vel \u00e9 que seja excessivamente ciumento (mesmo sem raz\u00e3o), que desconfie de todas as coisas triviais e que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o acabe rapidamente porque assenta numa base pouco saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Queres um salvador<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you want a savior, it probably means that you\u2019re feeling unhappy about being single and you want someone to save you from this misery and feeling of discontent. I understand you because I was in the same boat.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mas acredita em mim, nada nem ningu\u00e9m te pode salvar de ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mesmo que encontre algu\u00e9m que pare\u00e7a ser perfeito para si, voltar\u00e1 a ser infeliz com o passar do tempo, porque essa pessoa n\u00e3o ser\u00e1 capaz de o salvar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Podem amar-te e mostrar-te que se preocupam contigo, mas sabem que nunca te poder\u00e3o salvar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A \u00fanica pessoa que o pode salvar \u00e9 o pr\u00f3prio. E f\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 mudando as suas prioridades e tornando-se uma pessoa completa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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