{"id":35886,"date":"2020-06-24T09:19:13","date_gmt":"2020-06-24T09:19:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35886"},"modified":"2022-08-12T08:03:23","modified_gmt":"2022-08-12T08:03:23","slug":"5-sinais-de-alerta-de-que-o-seu-relacionamento-e-a-verdadeira-causa-da-sua-depressao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-de-alerta-de-que-o-seu-relacionamento-e-a-verdadeira-causa-da-sua-depressao\/","title":{"rendered":"5 sinais de alerta de que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a verdadeira causa da sua depress\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Before you\u2019re certain that you\u2019re actually depressed, it\u2019s a smart choice to first take a look at the people around you and make sure that they\u2019re not in fact the ones making you feel this way.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>A depress\u00e3o \u00e9 uma doen\u00e7a grave que nunca deve ser encarada de \u00e2nimo leve.<\/p>\n<p>Oftentimes, it\u2019s extremely hard to recognize that you have it, as it is almost like an invisible cloud that simply overcomes your every day and leaves you feeling powerless.<\/p>\n<p>O gosto pela vida que outrora tinha desapareceu.<\/p>\n<p>Acordar de manh\u00e3 come\u00e7a a parecer uma tarefa \u00e1rdua e encontrar uma raz\u00e3o para n\u00e3o sentir pena de si pr\u00f3prio nesse dia \u00e9 quase imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>You are but a shadow of your former self and everywhere you look, there isn\u2019t a single thing that gives you joy or a glimpse of happiness.<\/p>\n<p>Nos dias em que nos sentimos perdidos, incompreendidos e completamente impotentes, \u00e9 verdadeiramente importante olhar com aten\u00e7\u00e3o para as pessoas que nos s\u00e3o mais pr\u00f3ximas.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98191\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher deprimida sentada na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o \u00e9 raro que as pessoas de quem \u00e9 suposto estarmos mais pr\u00f3ximos sejam, na verdade, aquelas que nos fazem sentir mal, sem que nos apercebamos.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nao-se-case-ate-saber-estas-5-coisas-sobre-o-seu-parceiro\/\">O seu parceiro<\/a> is somebody who is supposed to make you feel better on days when you don\u2019t feel like yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Ele \u00e9 a pessoa que \u00e9 suposto encorajar-te e fazer-te ver a for\u00e7a e o poder que tens dentro de ti quando tu pr\u00f3prio n\u00e3o o consegues ver.<\/p>\n<p><em>O seu parceiro est\u00e1 a dar-lhe essas palavras de encorajamento e a ajud\u00e1-lo a sentir-se voc\u00ea mesmo nos seus dias negros?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Ou ser\u00e1 que ele est\u00e1 a tirar subtilmente peda\u00e7os da sua felicidade e a lev\u00e1-la lentamente a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sou-inutil\/\">sentir-se in\u00fatil<\/a> e impotente a cada dia que passa?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Se acha que h\u00e1 uma possibilidade de a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o estar a aumentar a sua infelicidade e a faz\u00ea-lo sentir-se deprimido, aqui poder\u00e1 encontrar as respostas que procura.<\/p>\n<p><em>Aqui est\u00e3o 5 sinais de alerta de que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9, de facto, a verdadeira causa da sua depress\u00e3o.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">O seu parceiro f\u00e1-lo sentir-se pequeno ou insignificante<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98192\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-bed-apart.jpg\" alt=\"casal em discuss\u00e3o sentado na cama, separados\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-bed-apart.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-bed-apart-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-bed-apart-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-bed-apart-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-bed-apart-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A igualdade \u00e9 a chave para qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 importante que tanto voc\u00ea como o seu parceiro apreciem o que cada um traz para a rela\u00e7\u00e3o e que nunca se deitem abaixo um ao outro.<\/p>\n<p>If your partner and his actions make you feel worthless or small in any way, that is a toxic environment to be in and is in no way something you should tolerate\u2014ever.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t make you feel good about yourself and puts you down whenever he feels like it, get out of there and don\u2019t let him make you feel like less than you are.<\/p>\n<p>Um homem assim \u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/um-homem-como-ele-nao-vale-as-tuas-lagrimas\/\">n\u00e3o vale as tuas l\u00e1grimas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Your partner doesn\u2019t shy away from criticizing you or pointing out your mistakes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98193\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-to-angry-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a falar com uma mulher zangada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-to-angry-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-to-angry-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-to-angry-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-to-angry-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-to-angry-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t remember the last time you got positive feedback from him for anything you did.<\/p>\n<p>Parece que tudo o que fazes \u00e9 errado e ele faz com que estejas dolorosamente consciente disso.<\/p>\n<p>There is nothing you can do that he will find worthy of a compliment and it\u2019s a daily struggle coping with his harsh words.<\/p>\n<p>He makes sure you know your place and listen to what he says, because he knows best and that\u2019s that.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O seu parceiro \u00e9 demasiado controlador e d\u00e1-lhe muito pouca liberdade para tomar as suas pr\u00f3prias decis\u00f5es<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98194\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada ao lado do namorado\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ele decide quais os teus amigos que s\u00e3o bons para ti e quais aqueles de que te deves livrar.<\/p>\n<p>Ele diz-lhe onde pode ir e quando e tem de se apresentar a ele durante esse per\u00edodo.<\/p>\n<p>Basicamente, sente-se como um p\u00e1ssaro engaiolado e reza e espera que os seus modos compulsivos e controladores deixem de o fazer, mas \u00e9 altamente improv\u00e1vel que isso aconte\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>Spending time being controlled and bossed around is definitely making you feel worse about yourself with each day and until you stand up for yourself, it\u2019s not going to get better.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O seu parceiro ignora as suas necessidades emocionais e afasta-o quando se sente vulner\u00e1vel<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98195\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"casal infeliz sentado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sempre que lhe apetece falar de algo que o preocupa, que o faz sentir mal, ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 interessado em ouvir.<\/p>\n<p>Ele faz-te sentir que exageras tudo e isso s\u00f3 aumenta os teus sentimentos de solid\u00e3o e inutilidade.<\/p>\n<p>Ele faz-te acreditar que os teus sentimentos n\u00e3o s\u00e3o v\u00e1lidos e que est\u00e1s apenas \u00e0 procura de aten\u00e7\u00e3o, que ele se recusa a dar-te.<\/p>\n<p>Ser afastado por quem amamos \u00e9 de partir o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e n\u00e3o \u00e9 saud\u00e1vel para a nossa mente e para a nossa alma.<\/p>\n<p>Os teus sentimentos s\u00e3o importantes e nunca deves deixar que um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/uma-carta-para-o-homem-toxico-que-nao-queria-ir-embora\/\">homem t\u00f3xico<\/a> fazer-vos sentir o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O seu parceiro tem problemas de raiva que muitas vezes descarrega em si<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98196\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-yelling-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a gritar com mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-yelling-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-yelling-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-yelling-at-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-yelling-at-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-yelling-at-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ter um parceiro com mudan\u00e7as de humor excessivas e n\u00e3o saber quando \u00e9 que ele vai explodir pode facilmente contribuir para sentimentos de depress\u00e3o e solid\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>And being in that toxic environment for a long period of time can only make it worse and make you feel like it\u2019s somehow your fault, when in fact it couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>You have to be extra careful around him and watch your every move because you simply don\u2019t know what will agitate him.<\/p>\n<p>Isto \u00e9 emocionalmente desgastante e qualquer pessoa exposta a este tipo de comportamento vol\u00e1til sentir-se-\u00e1 mal consigo pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 por isso que tem de se certificar de que se afasta deste comportamento t\u00f3xico antes de se diagnosticar uma depress\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 prov\u00e1vel que o seu parceiro seja a pessoa que a faz sentir-se assim e, uma vez que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/9-desculpas-que-os-homens-usam-para-fugir-ao-compromisso\/\">fugir<\/a> e o apagar da sua mente, aperceber-se-\u00e1 de que est\u00e1 a fazer muito melhor.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t cling on to this mistake just because you have spent a lot of time with him.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s pointless making yourself go through this when there is so much happiness waiting for you outside of this relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Seja corajosa o suficiente para o deixar ir, porque assim que o fizer, come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a recuperar o seu antigo eu, e essa rapariga forte e durona nunca mais vai querer olhar para tr\u00e1s!<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98190\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/5-Warning-Signs-Your-Relationship-Is-The-Real-Cause-Of-Your-Depression-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 sinais de alerta de que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a verdadeira causa da sua depress\u00e3o\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/5-Warning-Signs-Your-Relationship-Is-The-Real-Cause-Of-Your-Depression-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/5-Warning-Signs-Your-Relationship-Is-The-Real-Cause-Of-Your-Depression-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/5-Warning-Signs-Your-Relationship-Is-The-Real-Cause-Of-Your-Depression-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Before you\u2019re certain that you\u2019re actually depressed, it\u2019s a smart choice to first take a look at the people around you and make sure that they\u2019re not in fact the ones making you feel this way. Depression is a serious condition that is never to be taken lightly. Oftentimes, it\u2019s extremely hard to recognize that&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":98197,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29635],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35886","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-depression"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29635,"label":"depression"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/5-Warning-Signs-Your-Relationship-Is-The-Real-Cause-Of-Your-Depression.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29635,"name":"depression","slug":"depression","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29635,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you or someone you know is fighting depression, here you'll find symptoms, plenty of coping techniques, and above all, you'll learn to understand it.","parent":22911,"count":23,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29635,"category_count":23,"category_description":"If you or someone you know is fighting depression, here you'll find symptoms, plenty of coping techniques, and above all, you'll learn to understand it.","cat_name":"depression","category_nicename":"depression","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35886","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35886"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35886\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98197"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35886"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35886"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35886"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}