{"id":35979,"date":"2019-04-26T06:48:30","date_gmt":"2019-04-26T06:48:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35979"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:07:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:07:29","slug":"estou-sempre-a-ter-esperancas-em-homens-que-acabam-por-ser-uns-idiotas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estou-sempre-a-ter-esperancas-em-homens-que-acabam-por-ser-uns-idiotas\/","title":{"rendered":"Continuo a ter esperan\u00e7as em homens que acabam por ser uns idiotas"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o sei porque \u00e9 que todas as minhas hist\u00f3rias de amor acabaram numa grande desilus\u00e3o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m beginning to think that somebody cursed me and sent all the assholes my way.
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N\u00e3o tinha outra explica\u00e7\u00e3o razo\u00e1vel.
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Fiz a minha quota-parte de pesquisa de alma, talvez at\u00e9 tenha exagerado com pensar demais <\/a>e autocr\u00edtica. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I couldn\u2019t help but think that I am the one sabotaging my chances for love.
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I placed all the blame for my love wrecks on me\u2014which wasn\u2019t that hard as I am used to men who loved playing the victims and everything was always my fault anyway, so it was only normal for me to think that. <\/strong>
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Foi preciso muito tempo e esfor\u00e7o para recuperar a minha confian\u00e7a e ganhar for\u00e7a suficiente para afastar esse mau pressentimento e, embora possa n\u00e3o ser perfeita, sei agora que sou digna de ser amada.
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S\u00f3 precisava de perceber que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado comigo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O mundo dos encontros est\u00e1 simplesmente cheio de homens t\u00f3xicos, e os bons s\u00e3o t\u00e3o raros que quase nunca se cruzam no meu caminho.
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I want to believe in love but I don\u2019t know how.  Repeating the same old story is making me question if I\u2019m ever going to find love. <\/strong>
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Tudo estava a correr bem. Mand\u00e1vamos mensagens um ao outro todos os dias. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We saw each other often. He was so into me, and he made an effort to be a part of my life until at one point, he didn\u2019t want that anymore.
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Este pequeno cen\u00e1rio parece ser a hist\u00f3ria da minha vida. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every time I get my hopes up and start to believe that I\u2019m with somebody I can build a relationship with, everything comes tumbling down in a matter of seconds.
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Todos os esfor\u00e7os se transformam em tortura. Todos os textos s\u00e3o deixados nos recibos de leitura ou chegam demasiado tarde. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

My smile turns into tears. I am more and more broken every time, and it\u2019s hard for me to lift myself up.
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It\u2019s hard to believe that my happily ever after is somewhere out there for me and to have a positive mindset about relationships when every new great beginning is just the calm before the storm. <\/strong>
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Tornei-me t\u00e3o vigiado<\/a> that every time I start something new, I expect it to end, and I can\u2019t help but feel that way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Estou a fazer o meu melhor para manter uma mente aberta, um cora\u00e7\u00e3o aberto e manter-me positivo, mas por vezes parece imposs\u00edvel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you get played so many times when you try your best\u2014and when you don\u2019t succeed\u2014you end up discouraged and full of fears.
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I am drained and exhausted from all of it, and I\u2019m beginning to wonder:  \u201cWhere the hell is my Prince Charming, and what\u2019s taking him so long to get to me?; <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why can\u2019t I skip this mess and go straight to the part where I am in a loving, healthy and committed relationship?\u201d…
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I don\u2019t have the answers to that. Yet still, I have some insane and ungrounded hope that everything will turn out for the best. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Que depois deste inferno haver\u00e1 algumas b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3os, felicidade pura depois das desilus\u00f5es e amor indescrit\u00edvel depois do pior dos desgostos.
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Acredito que todos os meus ex-namorados idiotas estavam l\u00e1 para me ensinar li\u00e7\u00f5es sobre o amor e a vida. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Their sole purpose was to prepare me for the real deal…for the man I am supposed to spend my forever with. <\/strong>
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Tenho de admitir que aprendi muito, fiquei destro\u00e7ado e recuperei. Cresci, evolu\u00ed e estou lentamente a tornar-me na pessoa que sempre foi suposto ser.
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Estou numa fase da minha vida em que me estou a apaixonar por mim pr\u00f3pria e a viver a minha vida \u00e0 minha maneira.
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Estou naquela fase da minha vida em que estou cansada, mas continuo a caminhar apesar de tudo.
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Estou naquela fase em que prefiro esperar por algu\u00e9m genu\u00edno do que desperdi\u00e7ar um dia com algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o merece o meu amor.
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\"Continuo<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

For the life of me, I don\u2019t know why my every love story ended as a huge disappointment. I\u2019m beginning to think that somebody cursed me and sent all the assholes my way. I had no other reasonable explanation. I did my fair share of soul searching, maybe I even exaggerated with overthinking and self-criticism….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":35980,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35979","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/shutterstock_1011923959.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35979","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35979"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35979\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35980"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35979"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35979"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35979"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}